Mhlawumbe, uMbuso ngemuva kokudangala ungabhekwa njengokunganaki ngemuva kokudangala. Akunakubhekwa njengenkinga yokuphazamiseka okuhlukile, ngokungafani nokudangala okufanayo, nokho, abantu ababhekene nokunganakwa bahlupheka ngokungaphansi. Lapho wonke umuntu ezungezile ejabule ngempilo, futhi awufuni lutho, ngaphezu kwalokho, ukunqamula embhedeni futhi ungacabangi lutho, kunzima ukunakekela impilo yakho yengqondo. Namuhla sinqume ukuthola ukuthi yini okufanele siyenze uma ukunganaki kumboza ikhanda lakhe.
Khuluma ... nawe
Kuyiqiniso, kulungile lapho kunabantu abakwazi ukulalela nokusiza ngesikhathi esinzima, kepha akuyena wonke umuntu oqhosha ngemvelo enjalo ngokucophelela. Kepha akufanele ulahlekelwe kakhulu, ngoba ungahlala ukhuluma ... nawe. Yebo, kuyinto evamile. Hlala phambi kwesibuko esikhulu, hlangana ne-monologue ezolile engeke iphazamise ucingo olungazelelwe noma inja. Tshela ukuboniswa kwakho ngakho konke onakho eshawini. Izazi zezengqondo zigubha ukuthi lo msebenzi ulusizo olukhulu lapho uyeka ukugcina yonke into ngokwakho. Vele uzame.
Umsebenzi owengeziwe
Ukusuka ekunganaki kuya ekucindezelekeni okuqinile kuphela ngezinyathelo ezimbalwa, futhi ngenxa yalokho kudingekile ukuthi ungaqhubeki isimo esingesihle. Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala ngomqondo wangempela. Mustitude futhi ubuvila - wabangane bami abakhulu kakhulu ka isimo "Nontaek", ngakho-ke ukuthatha ngokwabo esandleni futhi ziphathelene yimuphi umsebenzi - kusukela wokuhlanza indawo ukuze uhambo esitolo esiseduze nge igxathu lokuhamba.
Ungavumeli ubuchopho "ukulanda" okubi
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Phuma ngaphandle
Ukuhlala ekhaya, ungathola izaba eziyinkulungwane nezenye zokungasebenzi kwakho, kepha ngeke ube nethuba elinjalo uma uhamba ngezinyawo. Futhi nhlobo, akudingekile ukuthatha umuntu nawe - ungenza ama-walks angashadile, ake sithi, epaki eliseduze, ngoba umsebenzi wakho ukubamba isikhathi esiningi emgwaqweni . Umoya omusha uzobe "uthumele" imicabango futhi uzosiza ekutholeni okuhle.
Kancane
Imizwa engemihle akudingeki ukuthi ibuke yedwa kuphela, 'basithola nsuku zonke. Zama ukugwema izimo ezikuhlupha futhi ulethe imicabango edabukisayo. Nqaba ama-movie acindezela imizwa yakho futhi edonsa phansi, bese uvula amahlaya amasha, umeme abangani futhi ulungiselele i-dessert ndawonye kuyo yonke inkampani noma i-oda i-pizza. Ngokuvamile, funa izizathu zokungahlali isikhathi eside sodwa futhi uzame ukwazi ukubona, ungavumeli imicabango emibi ukugcwalisa ikhanda lakho.