Yini le - imfashini, iqiniso noma iphutha? Kokubili, bobabili, nokwesithathu. Insikazi imvelo iphakamisa ukuthi indoda enomuntu okuthiwa "ubaba" izoba ngcono kakhulu kunendoda ebukekayo, ukuze siqiniseke ukuthi siyalazisa kakhulu empilweni yomndeni - ukuthembeka nokududuzeka. Eduze kwakhe angaphumula, akunangqondo ukuthi "welule futhi afane." Ngokuvamile abazakhi izinhlelo zokudlula, kepha baqonde umqondo ngendlela ejwayelekile, ejabule yasemhlabeni. "Amaphuzu adumile" isipikili "noma ukulungisa i-crane futhi kukhulu kakhulu. Ukulula nokusebenziseka, kuvela, amantombazane amaningi axhumene nomqondo wempilo yomndeni ejabulisayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, yize amadoda amaningi aphelele aphelele ahambelana ngempela nesithombe se-stereotypical, kodwa hhayi wonke. Odokotela bezengqondo baxwayise nge-computising "i-satellite ezinye zezimpawu zokubukeka noma izincomo ezijwayelekile. Uma ukhetha "ibhere elithi" ibhere "kwabanye abafaka izicelo empilweni yomndeni ethule, ngenxa yalokho, ungadumala kakhulu futhi uthenge. Ikakhulu umuntu akufanele alandele umbuzo kulolu daba. Ngemuva kwakho konke, into esemqoka emndenini uthando.