Njengoba abafundi abaphambili balo magazini ngabesifazane, behlale bethakazelisa, futhi banjani? Emadodeni. Amadoda avame ukumangaza abesifazane bawo ukuze akwazi ukuzizwa okujulile futhi okuhle, ukwethembana ukuqonda. Ngokuphikisana ne-stereotype ejwayelekile mayelana ne-stallion enesihluku, abesifazane bathanda amadoda ngokuzwela kwabo, ubumnene, amandla okuzwela. Ngakho-ke, kuhlale kuthakazelisa ukuthola iphupho lekholomu yakho endodeni, umyeni kanye nobaba ezinganeni. Manje sizokwabelana ngabo bonke, ngalokho iphupho "lithi" kanye naye.
Iphupho Lokuqala:
"Sihamba nomndeni ebhulohweni, sibona umfula. Sihle futhi sime ngaphansi kwaleli bhuloho eliseduze komfula. Amanzi asemfuleni asobala, futhi njengokungathi ukukhanya kubonakala emanzini. Kungazelelwe, indodakazi iwela emanzini, ngigxumela phezu kwakhe, kepha ngigeleza ngokushesha okukhulu, ngishesha kakhulu indodakazi yami, kodwa ngiyakwazi ukusindisa. Emva kwesikhathi esithile, indodakazi iyavela futhi emanzini, futhi ngigxumela phezu kwakhe, kepha iyacwila ngokushesha kangangokuba anginaso isikhathi sokufika endodakazini yami. Ngivuka ngesabekayo. "
Indodana yesibili:
"Sasiwumndeni endaweni ethile yesithathu (omunye umuntu, indawo engaziwa), yayinabantu abaningi. Igumbi likhulu, uhhafu ungenalutho. Ngimi ngedwa, ngisuka emndenini, khona-ke omunye wesifazane ungitshela ukuthi ingane kufanele isizwe, umfazi akabheki ngemuva kwakhe. Ngiphendukela kwelinye igumbi - indodakazi yagibela uhlobo oluthile lwegridi, yanamathela, futhi unkosikazi ume. Angikunikeli ukubaluleka okuningi, ngicabanga nokuhoxisa ocingweni lwakho umkami, ahleke ndawonye ngaleso sikhathi. Ngikhipha indodakazi yami futhi ngifuna ukuya kowesifazane ongibizile. Umuzwa wokuthi konke kuhamba kahle nomndeni. Kepha ngokoqobo ngemuva kwemizuzwana eyi-15 ngibuya, kepha abakho, banyamalala, njengoba bewela emhlabathini. Ngibona uhlobo oluthile lowesifazane endaweni yomkami. Umbi kakhulu, endaweni yokugeza eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka enemibuthano emhlophe, ngiyaqonda ukuthi wamunca umkakhe nendodakazi yakhe. Kuyaqhubeka, ngizokubamba, ngiyaqonda ukuthi kulula ukuyibamba, kepha imilenze ayingilaleli, imemeza: "Nikeza!" Futhi ngivuka! "
Yebo, izibonelo zishesha kaHichkok. Ngisho nalapho ngiqala ukuhola ikholomu, ngasho ukuthi ingxenye enkulu kwakuyinto esemqoka ekuhlolweni. Bobabili balala ngovalo lokulahleka komndeni noma indodakazi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zombili lezi zikhathi zabesifazane zingasizi ngalutho futhi zisengozini phambi kwamanzi. Amanzi angokomfanekiso akhombisa insikazi, ubufazi, isithombe sikamama. Futhi ephusheni lesibili uphawu lisakubuka - umfazi omubi owebile umkakhe nendodakazi yakhe.
Ukube benginaleli cala ngekhasimende lokuzilolonga, khona-ke umbuzo wami wokuqala ngu: "Ake ungitshele, buyini ubuhlobo bakho nonyoko?" Uma konke kuhamba kahle lapho, engikungabaza, ubuhlobo nomkhwekazi.
Zombili lezi zilalo zihlala zisethusayo phambi kwamandla abesifazane, ePuchin yakhe elahlekile nenkosikazi yakhe. Mhlawumbe lokhu kungenxa yobudlelwano nomuntu wesifazane ohlonishwayo empilweni yephupho, phambi kwawo azohamba ngalo, alwe naye futhi avame ukulahlekelwa, futhi imiphumela yalokhu kulahlekelwa izizwa emndenini wakubo.
Ukube bekungeyona imigqa yombhalo, lapho-ke, ngiphakamisa iphupho ukwembula ithonya lobuhlobo bakhe nonina empilweni yakhe yamanje, ukuze ngizizwe njengomhlengikazi ongakwazi Siza futhi ugcine. Ngomuzwa wokungasizi ngalutho futhi wethukile.
Futhi amaphupho akho? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho athumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli uzobhala izimo zokuphila okwandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu - imizwa nemizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin