Ukuphila kwezocansi okusebenzayo ngasikhathi esithile kungaphazanyiswa ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene: Izifo, ukuntuleka kozakwethu, ukuzalwa kwamuva, uhambo olude lwebhizinisi nezinye izimo esingakwazi ukuzithinta. Abesifazane abaningi bakhathazeke kakhulu ngomzuzwana wokuzihlanya, noma kunjalo, saqoqa uhlelo oluncane lwezenzo, uma kungekudala akusona ukubona kusengaphambili kokuhlwa kothando nomuntu othandekayo wakho.
Sibandakanyeka empilweni yethu
Kwesinye isikhathi sithanda kakhulu ngengxenye yethu yesibili esikhohlwa ngayo yonke into, kubandakanya nezempilo yethu. Indima ebudlelwaneni bocansi kungaba yisizathu esikhulu sokuzithathela yona ngokwabo, into yokuqala ukuvakashela i-gynecologist, ezonikeza izivivinyo ezidingekayo futhi iluleke izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo ezikhona. Uma ukhathazekile ngobuhlungu nemizwa engathandeki yemvelaphi engaqondakali, ungadonseli ngezeluleko.
Ngesinye isikhathi, impilo yocansi ingamiswa isikhashana
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Sikhokha isikhathi kubangani
Lapho singenazinkinga ngempilo yomuntu siqu, sizama ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngesigamu sakho sesibili, kuyilapho awekho amandla kubangane. Kungani ungasebenzisi isikhathi sabathandekayo bakho? Nikela ukuhlangana kuwo wonke umuntu ongakaze ubone futhi uhlele ubusuku obumnandi phakathi kwabantu abalungile, esikhundleni se- "speezing" ekhaya, ngenkathi impilo yomuntu siqu "yisikhathi somuntu siqu".
Vumela ukuphumula okuncane
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi abesifazane badinga umzamo omkhulu wokugcina ukuheha emehlweni abantu. Ukuntuleka kocansi kuyithuba elihle lokuthi "ukudonsa amabhuleki" Ukuqothuka Kwanyanga zonke, ukusebenzisa okuqeda amandla kanye neminye imisebenzi owesifazane okudingeka ayizwe amandla abo abesifazane. Vele, asizikhuthazi ukuthi ugijime, ungase weqe iseshini elandelayo ye-anti-cellulite massage noma ungafaki imichilo emisha yebhasikidi ukuze kulungiswe.
Ungalandi inhloko yemibono yabanye abantu.
Impilo yocansi yawo wonke umuntu ingaba sempandeni yehlukile empilweni yabangane, abantu obajwayele kanye nabanye abantu. Omunye akakwazi ukuletha usuku lwakhe ngaphandle kocansi, kanti abanye baphila ngokuzolile kule minyaka eyishumi ngaphandle kokuxhumana ngocansi. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi iyiphi enye i-sex empilweni yakho, uma ungafuni noma awukwazi ukuya ocansini, akufanele ulalele abantu abazama ukukukholisa ngakolunye uhlangothi.