Umcabango wethu ngamunye uboniswa ngokoqobo, noma ngabe ungakuboni ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kwesinye isikhathi imicabango ingabhubhisa kangangokuba iba yingozi futhi idinga umsebenzi womuntu esimweni sawo. Imvamisa, izinkinga ziqala ngesisekelo sokungalindelekile kokulindelwe kanye namaqiniso kunoma yimuphi umkhakha wempilo: umndeni, umsebenzi, ukuzilibazisa, abangane. Ukucindezela kakhulu nokunganaki kuqongelela, imicabango emibi ekhuphuka. Sihlanganise uhlu lwemicabango emihlanu emibi lapho udinga ukuqeda ngokushesha okukhulu.
Umhlaba awunabe nolaka kangako. Ucabanga kanjani
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"Kunzima, ngeke ngiphumelele."
Lapho nje lo mcabango uhlala ekhanda lakho, ungacabanga ukuthi noma yikuphi okwenziwe kwakho kuzokwehluleka ukwehluleka. Uhlela kusengaphambili. Kepha liyini iphuzu lokuzinikela, ungalokothi uzame ukukwenza?
Esikhundleni salokho, zinikeze ukufakwa okuhle, ngokwesibonelo: "Umsebenzi udinga amandla amaningi okubulawa, kepha uma uzama, nakanjani ngizosebenza." Khumbula ukuthi umphumela utholakala kuphela ngesenzo, futhi akunjalo.
"Namuhla bekuwusuku olubi nje. Kubi kakhulu kunangaphambili "
Ukufingqa kubaluleke kakhulu njengokulungiselela isenzo. Ake sithi akwenzekanga lutho olubi nosuku lonke, isixazululo esisodwa nje esincane sehluleka, ngenxa yalokhu, uvala usuku lonke, yize konke kungokuhlangenwe nakho okukodwa okuncane. Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa ngokusobala izimo zokuphila ezinhle nezingalungile: Noma imaphi amacala amahle azama ukukhumbula futhi ngokuzayo lapho udinga ugqozi, vele ukhumbule ukuthi ubhekane kanjani nomsebenzi onzima kanye, nakanjani, uvela ezimweni ezingezinhle kubalulekile Ukuphetha nokuzama ukugwema ngokuzayo. Ungaphazamisi konke kwinqwaba eyodwa.
Ngezikhathi ezithile zinike isikhathi sakho
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"Ngiyisiwula futhi ngimubi kangangokuba akekho ongangithanda futhi, ngokuvamile, aphathe kahle"
Abaningi bayazazi, noma ngabe abakaze babe nezinto ezinjalo abangasho kubantu abangagunyaziwe. Abesifazane bavame ukuzibandakanya nokuzethemba lapho bembozwe ngesimo esibi. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi leli cala lisesimweni sezulu kuphela, kepha akunakwenzeka kuwe. Into ebi kakhulu ongayenza imicabango enjalo, abaze balethe noma yini ngaphandle kokukhungatheka. Uzobona, uzovuka ekuseni, futhi ungakhumbuli ngisho nokuphelelwa yithemba. Uma isimo singaxazululwa ngokuphumula okulula, qiniseka ukuthi usebenza le nkinga ngochwepheshe
"Impilo ingumzabalazo oqhubekayo. Akukho lutho olunikezwayo "
Ngokwengxenye yi. Kepha kuphela ngokwengxenye. Cabanga nje, kunezimo lapho indoda enhle iwela kuwe njengokungathi ivela esibhakabhakeni. Noma umsebenzi wephupho lakho ubonakala kungazelelwe. Vele, akufanele ubale futhi unethemba uma kwenzeka, kepha udinga ukulungele izimanga zesiphetho futhi ubambe umzuzu, ithuba lesibili kungenzeka lingabi njalo.
Usuku olubi emsebenzini akusho ukuthi impilo yehlulekile
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"Inzuzo ephelele ibaluleke kakhulu kunezifiso zami"
Ukufakwa okunjalo kutholakala kuMama ophambili wemindeni noma omkawofazi abathanda abayeni babo ngaphambi kokungazi. Bachitha wonke amandla okuchitha isikhathi eside ukuze baphile futhi bathokomele, bakhohlwe ngokuphelele ngabo nezidingo zabo. Lesi isikhathi esiyingozi, ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi ulahlekelwe ngokunganaki.
Kusukela namhlanje, zibuze - ufunani? Unjalo. Ingubo entsha? Thenga. Manicure noma isitayela esihle? Ungalibali. Khumbula ukuthi ungowesifazane osondele ekuboneni okuhle futhi ujabule. Futhi kulokhu kufanele ufunde ukuzilalela.