Ucabanga kangaki ukuthi impilo iyadlula, ngenkathi ungenawo amandla, noma isifiso sokujoyina lokhu kugijima? Umuzwa wokubhujiswa, ukungathembeki kulokho okwenzekayo, ukungakwazi ukuzijabulisa - izimpawu zokucindezeleka emtholampilo, okuthi, njengoba wazi, kufanele uphathwe.
Namuhla, igama elithi "izinsizakusebenza" lingena kuphela (hhayi kakhulu) ezincwadini ezikhethekile, njengasezincwadini ezidumile nakumabhulogi akho. Utshelwa ngomama ngalesodwa esimemezeli nabezindaba, osomabhizinisi kanye nabafundi, abaphathi abakhulu nabasebenzi basehhovisi. Kepha, naphezu kokuvama, igama elithandwayo alitholanga lifundwe-kuya-kufundza kubuningi emphakathini. Ngakho-ke ake sicace.
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Izazi zezengqondo zibiza insiza noma yisiphi isenzo, isimo noma isikhala sangempela, esikuvumela ukuba udale, uthande futhi ujabule ngegama, uphile impilo ephelele. Ngokucabanga okuthile, ungabeka uphawu lokulingana phakathi kwamagama athi "Resource" kanye "nethuba", okuwukuphela kokubhuka okuthi kuphela okuncike komunye. Ngakho-ke, lapho kuqedela izinsiza zakho zokusebenza kwengqondo, amandla akho akhuphula ukucindezela, ahlele impilo yakho futhi ahlale esele esele.
Izizathu zokuthi kungani igama elithi "lingene kubantu" futhi laqala ukuqondwa ngumphakathi jikelele, olula futhi oluqondakalayo. Emhlabeni wanamuhla, ngisho nomuntu ozolile futhi oqondayo nsuku zonke kufanele abhekane nezinselelo eziningi nezinkinga, ikhambi lawo okuyindlela yokuxazulula ejwayelekile, ekwazi ukusebenza nendela yamaBuddha. I-Perchinchos yengeza isici sezinsuku zethu - impilo endaweni yesigqi se-Instagram. Ukuphishekela ukuphelela kokuhlanya, okumele kuboniswe emhlabeni ngazo zonke izindlela, kungumsebenzi onzima kakhulu, okuthi, alos, engalethi noma yikuphi ukubuya. Futhi ukusebenza ngaphandle komphumela kuyindlela ebiza kakhulu ohlelweni lwamandla.
Ngasizathu simbe, asizisoli ngokuthi "ibhethri" yakho futhi asinandaba
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Futhi kungazelelwe uvuke ngomuzwa wokuphelelwa yize nokungabi namandla. Izindaba ezijwayelekile zansuku zonke zibonakala zingabekezeleleki, ikusasa libangela ukukhathazeka okungacacile, okwamanje akusenzi. Zonke lezi zimpawu zegama elibizwa ngebhethri lakho langaphakathi. Futhi ukube bekucishe kube yi-smartphone yakho, wawungahlupheka ngokushesha insiza yokuphinda usebenze. Kepha ngasizathu simbe, asizisoli ngawo "Ibhethri" engqondo yakho futhi asinandaba, silichithele ku-zero.
Setha kabusha i-ballast
Ake siqale nge-Westra ekhuthazayo: Ngisho nokusetha kabusha komzimba okubuyiselwe kakhulu futhi okuchithekile kungenzeka "ukumpompela" ngumthombo. Kepha ukuze kusetshenzwe ukuthi sisondle, asichithwanga (khumbula imiphumela yesikejana esingenamkhawulo, lapho wonke amanzi echithwa ngenxa yezimbobo ezingafinyeleleki), kuyadingeka ukusuka ezimweni ezibucayi, eziphazamisayo neziphazamisayo . Ngaphandle kwawo, kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukuzondla.
Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, kudingeka siqonde ukuthi ingxenye enkulu yamandla ethu namandla ihamba kuphi. Sinikeza umbono: Imvamisa kakhulu sisebenzisa insiza yakho eyigugu kulokho esingakuthandi ukukwenza. Umane ubeke, uma uvuka ngone ekuseni, uphuze inkomishi eyodwa yekhofi, ugijime ugijimela endaweni yokwakha, lapho ushayela khona i-crane enkulu, ubuyela ekhaya ngaphansi kobusuku ngaphambi kokulala, kepha at Ngaleso sikhathi ngasikhathi sinye ngobuqotho uKaifuet kusukela ekuseni, ikhofi, ukwakhiwa, umsebenzi wayo kanye nohlelo lwezindaba, ukucisha okunjalo, ukucisha okunjalo kolunye usuku kuzokukhokhisa ngentokozo nasebuthweni. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma unomsebenzi ongavuleki ehhovisi, isikhathi esiningi sokuxhumana nokuzilibazisa, kodwa akukho hhovisi, noma ojwayelekile, noma izinto ezilula, ngisho nokuzijabulisa kwabanye, Isonto Lomsebenzi lizokwenza wonke amajusi.
"Izindleko zezindleko" ezivame kakhulu zensiza zivame ukulayishwa ngokweqile ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ubudlelwane obuhlungu bokusebenzisana (lapha sikhuluma ngezothando, futhi mayelana nobudlelwano obunobungane, kanye nobudlelwano bakho kanye nezingane), okuhlupheka cishe amaphesenti ayisithupha kubantu. Amadolobha amakhulu. Sizoqonda ngokulandelana.
Ngisho nokusetha kabusha komzimba okubuhlungu kakhulu futhi okuchithekile kungenzeka "ukupompa" ngomthombo
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Ngokugcwala ngokweqile, kucacile noma kungakacaci. Ngisebenzisa amakhono omzimba wakho ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ngisho nakwiphrojekthi ethakazelisa kakhulu futhi eyintandokazi, ubeka engcupheni ngolunye usuku ukuze uhlale emkhombeni ophukile - umzimba nengqondo nengqondo yakho kuzokwenqaba ukusebenza umkhawulo. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ngamunye wethu unomkhawulo wezinsizakusebenza ngazinye: Omunye unezinsuku ezintathu kwimodi yokungamiswa ukuze uzithuthukise ngokugcwele, umuntu angabamba iminyaka ethile. Iphuzu elibalulekile: Ukukhathala okusheshayo kunxeshezelwa ngokushesha ukuphumula, kepha labo abajwayele imithwalo emibi, baphinde babuyisele ngemuva kwezinyanga. Ungabi kanjani ukuzilethela onqenqemeni? Amathiphu alula futhi aqondakala: Ukudla okunempilo okujwayelekile (okungcono eduze kwe-RIORD), ukuguqulwa komsebenzi nokulala. Kucace kuphi?
Bese-ke siye kuzo zonke ezinye izindatshana "zezinsizakusebenza" zensiza, ngenxa yalokho okuvame ukungakwazi ukudlela ngokujwayelekile, noma ukwehla. Inani elikhulu lesisetshenziswa limane lisuka ekugcineni ubudlelwane obunobungozi, obungalethi injabulo, akukho ukweneliseka noma ukuzola. Mayelana nokuthi ungaqedela kanjani inyunyana engenampilo, ungabhalela hhayi i-athikili eyodwa ehlukile. Njengengxenye yesihloko sethu, siphawula ukuthi ubuthi obunobuthi (ubuthi impilo yakho) ubudlelwane kufanele bugwetshwe ngaphandle kokuzisola nangesimo sefilosofi, kubonakala sengathi "I-My Aptivation ibuyele kimi." Khumbula ukuthi isixhumanisi esibhubhisayo awugcini nje ngothando olungaphumelelanga nomunye umlingani "olungafanele, futhi futhi, osebenza nawe", kanye nomngane "othuli, osulungele ukugxeka nokuphawula ngaso sonke isinyathelo. Ubufakazi obubi kakhulu nobusetshenziswayo buyohlala buba nobudlelwano obunobuthi phakathi kwezihlobo - abazali nezingane, abafowethu kanye nodadewethu, abangane. Lapha isimo siyinkimbinkimbi yokuthi "umbuthano ononya" awulula kangako - ukuxhuma okuningi kakhulu futhi kukugcina ndawonye. Futhi nokho kuyadingeka ukuvumelanisa izinyunyana ezinjalo. Sebenza ngokuqonda imingcele yakho, bhalisa izimiso zakho futhi uqonde ukuthi yini ebeka phansi osukulungele ukuhamba, nokuthi yimiphi ukuvumelana okungenakwenzeka kuwe.
Elinye iphuzu elidla ibhethri lethu ukuqhubeka nomsebenzi ongathandwa. Ngokusho kokuvota kwakamuva kwezenhlalo, cishe ingxenye yabasebenzi abadala bakwaMetropolis badumele ebhizinisini labo kanye ne-strap ngokoqobo. Kuyadingeka ukusho ukuthi umkhuba onjalo wansuku zonke uguqula impilo ibe yi-catguard. Cabanga nje ukuthi njalo ekuseni uya ukuyokhonza umyalezo kwenye indawo, lapho yonke into ingeyona enhle - futhi amahhovisi ayaba khona, futhi ihhovisi liyabanda, futhi kanye necala elizodingeka likwenze, kubonakala ngathi lokho okuzodingeka kwenziwe, kungadingekile, kuyisiwula. Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi yini amandla angakanani azohamba ngendlela eya endaweni enjalo "enhle"? Khumbula ukuthi uhambe kanjani, ngokwesibonelo, esikoleni esihlokweni esingavunyelwe? Nokuthi bandizela kanjani ngokoqobo emaphikweni, lapho isiyalo esiphumelelani! Esibonelweni sesikole, izingane azinakuzikhethela, ufuna noma ungafuni ukuvakashela izibalo ezizondwayo (Russian, ezemfundo yomzimba - noma yini) kuyadingeka. Kepha yini eyenza abantu abadala, abazimele, abaziyo abantu usuku nosuku bahudula lapho, bakuphi okubi?
Kubalulekile ukuzama ukungazithethelisi ngesidingo sokwenza imali kanye negama elithi "wonke umuntu uphile", ngaphandle kwalokho inkathi yoshintsho ngeke ifike.
Isimo esiphuthumayo
Ukuthola lapho sichitha khona iningi lemithombo yethu yezengqondo, kubalulekile ukuthi "kumemeza ama-hatches" bese uqala ukuhoxisa ibhalansi yakho yamandla ku-PLUS. Kepha ake sinikeze umbiko: Kuphela ku-movie konke kuvela kahle futhi okokuqala ngqa. Imvamisa inqubo yokushintsha imisebenzi noma igebe elinobuthi obunobuthi bungabambezeleka isikhathi eside, ngokumelene nesizinda sokuthi imikhuba ethile ebhubhisayo neyingozi ikhiqizwa ngenkuthalo - umkhuba wokukhathazeka ngentshiseko - ngaphandle kwawo. Ekugcineni wahlanza insiza yezengqondo. Futhi nangu, umphumela omuhle: akukho mandla, amandla emthosweni, ekucindezelekeni komkhawulo.
Umgomo wethu ukunakekela wena nomkhuba wethu omuhle.
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Sebenza ngokukhathazeka kungathatha isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka. Le ngenye yemibuzo ethandwa kakhulu ku-Psychotheratists, futhi uxazulule inkinga ngokufunda i-athikili, nathi, ngeke siphume. Kepha ngokuhambisana nomsebenzi osezingeni lokukhathazeka kwalo, kubalulekile ukuqala umsebenzi wokubuyiselwa kwezinsiza.
Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi "Ukubuyisa imali esele" kuzodingeka ukuthi kube njalo, ngaphandle kwezaba nezinkomba ngokuntuleka kwemali, isikhathi nesifiso. Umgomo wethu ukunakekela wena nomkhuba wakho omuhle - ngokungafani nomkhuba omubi wokukhathazeka.
Izinsizakusebenza zigcwaliswa esimweni sokuphumula, futhi, kusho ukuthi kudingeka siqonde ukuthi kuzosiholela esimweni sokuthula nobumbano. Ayikho imikhandlu yendawo yonke lapha futhi ayikwazi ukuba: abantu bahluke kakhulu ukuthi into efanayo ingaletha umuntu kumarabi, futhi othile uqedela ukuphumula. Udinga nje ukunamathela ezinqubweni zokwethembeka ngokuphelele. Ebuntwini, singasekela imidlalo yezomphakathi, sengathi sibonakala sihlakaniphile (uhlobo, ku-pifanevelwe ngokwengeziwe), okucabangayo. Nawe, lokhu ngeke kwenziwe nganoma iyiphi indlela, uma kungenjalo amakilasi ozowathola ukuze uphumule ngeke akulethe. Ungazami ukuthi "ugcine ubuso bakho", zama ukuthola okuthile okuletha injabulo nokuthula.
Awudingi ukuzikhawulela ngenombolo ethile yezinto. Yenza kabusha uhlu nsuku zonke, kushiye endaweni evelele. Kwenze kube ngekosiko lakho ekuseni (nsuku zonke noma kusihlwa), ukujabulela amacala amabili kuya kwamathathu azokujabulisa. Umgomo wethu ukwenza umhlahlandlela owenziwayo, dala imiyalo kuwe.
Qiniseka ukuthi unezinhlobonhlobo zezinto ohlwini lwakho: Omunye angathatha amahora ambalwa, uhlobo oluthile lwe-Droplet luzojabula ngokwesibili, kuzodingeka ikota yomholo wakho, futhi okuthile kuzokwenziwa ngeze. Uhlu olude oludonswa ngengqondo nokuzwela kwezifiso zalo kuyisiqinisekiso sokuthi uzoba nethuba lokukhipha futhi uphumule ngisho nasemkhathini ocindezelayo nolukhuni.
Ungabuza ngokufanelekile umbuzo: "Futhi konke? Ingabe lesi yiseluleko sakho sokulondolozwa kanye nokuphindaphinda izinsiza zami zasekhaya eziyigugu? " Uhlu lungabonakala luthi "Vele" ucezu lwephepha olunezimpawu ezirekhodiwe kulo, kodwa empeleni luyazithanda ngokwakho idokhumenti elihlanganisiwe, isiqinisekiso esibonakalayo sokunakekelwa kwakho, ubumnene nothando ngomuntu ophambili wempilo yakho - kuwe.
Ungazami ukuthi "ubambe ubuso", zama ukuthola okuthile okuletha injabulo nokuthula
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Ukuphumula kweshidi lokuhlola:
- Cula iculo.
- Iya ku-sauna.
- Nikela ngokukhanyayo.
- Yenza i-manicure.
- Lungiselela futhi udle ikhekhe.
- Ukuze ube nenkomishi yesiphuzo esishisayo.
- Qhubeka ngosuku.
- Bheka uchungechunge olusha lochungechunge.
- Ukuhamba yedwa.
- Hlanganisa iKhabhinethi.
- Yeqa ekugijimeni epuddle.
- Thola ukuxabana nokwenza othandekayo wakho.
- eshaya ikati.
Imithetho emithathu yokusebenza ngohlu:
Ungakhohlwa ukumnikazelela nsuku zonke.
Kwenze kube yihlukahluka, ungazenzi iphupho.
Okungenani kanye ngesonto, yenza noma ikuphi ukubhekana nohlu.