Namuhla kuyimfashini enkulu ukukhuluma ngokuzithuthukisa, mayelana nokwenza ngcono ubuntu, njll. Ukukhula komuntu siqu. Vele, wonke umuntu ufuna ukuba ngumuntu ophumelelayo, uchwepheshe wangempela webhizinisi lakhe. Kepha ukufeza kanjani lokhu? Futhi lapha abaningi bethu babhekana nezingqinamba ezingenakuphikiswa, kufaka phakathi uhlobo lwezinkolelo, ama-stereotypes, izakhiwo.
Sonke sivela ebuntwaneni ... Ukufakwa kwenani lethu, amamodeli wokuziphatha, amamodeli nama-phobias akhiwa emndenini, ngaphansi kwethonya lendawo eseduze - abazali, izihlobo, izikole. Kuyiqiniso, phakathi nokuphila, bathola ukulungiswa okuthile, bashintshe noma baguqule kakhulu, kepha imvamisa isici esikhulu akusona isipiliyoni somuntu siqu njengokuhunyushwa okwenzekayo.
Lezi zitokisile zisibuza ukuthi kuhlolwe ukubona kanye nezinqumo ezibalulekile, iziphetho ngabo, ngomhlaba, mayelana nobudlelwano nomhlaba namalungu alo. Sonke sinezinkolelo nezinkumbulo. Futhi kaningi sithatha izinkolelo zabazali, izihlobo kanye nezizukulwane eziningana ezaphila isikhathi eside phambi kwethu. Isibonelo, sivame ukubhekana nezinkolelo ezinjalo: Imali = Ingozi, nemali enkulu = ingozi enkulu; Amadoda abuthakathaka futhi athembele kubo akukufanele; Ubulili bubi futhi buyingozi.
I-CAUCHE, VIP-Mentor Sergey Beach
Ama-stereotypes kanye neziphetho ezinjalo ngezwe elibazungezile ziba yisisekelo sokuzisebenzela. Futhi, ngeshwa, izinkolelo eziningi ezifanayo ziqala ukusiphazamisa, zibe yisithiyo lapho kungadingeka khona ukusuka kulezi zinkolelo, noma, kunalokho, kusishukumisela ezenzweni ezingalungile. Omunye, ukuzama ukulwa nama-stereotypes abekwe ngobuciko, aqala ukulandela okunye ukufakwa okungaba kubi kakhulu, acindezele endleleni ebhubhisayo, eholela ekulahlekelweni nasekuhlazimeni kancane noma okusheshayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu abasizungezile badlala indima enkulu kakhulu ekwakhekeni kwethu. NgoLwesithathu kwakha izintshisekelo, ulwazimagama, umuzwa wokubona komhlaba. Ngeshwa, akuwona wonke umuntu wethu ongumeluleki - umuntu onganikeza impendulo esezingeni eliphakeme, asilethe ekahle esilwela khona.
Umeluleki angasisiza kanjani? Kuzosivumela ukuthi sithuthukise uhlelo lomuntu siqu, inhloso kanye nomsebenzi; yakha futhi wamukele isinqumo sangaphakathi somuntu siqu nesenzo; Hlakulela amandla okuba nobugovu nokulungiselela amanani angaphakathi. Umgomo wokugcina ungakhiwa futhi ngumeluleki. Kepha ungaba ngumeluleki futhi wena, uma wazi ukuthi ungazenza kanjani ukuthi ubeke imisebenzi, uthuthukise ulwazi, ukuthuthukisa nsuku zonke futhi uthole ulwazi olusha.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukala izinga lokuthuthuka kwalo, okuvezwe ekwandeni kolwazi, ezezimali, ukuvela kokuqomisana okusha okuwusizo. Uma leli zinga likhula - konke kuhamba njengoba kudingeka, futhi uma kungenjalo, lesi yisizathu sokucabanga ngakho nokuthile okuzimisele ngokwakho. Ungaluleka ukudala uhlelo lwemisebenzi yakho bese uqaphela ukuthi yini etholwe, kepha yini engeyona, lapho kudingeka khona ukusebenza, futhi kuphi, ungawenza buthaka.
Ngingangeza nokwethembeka nami njengendlela yokufundisa ebaluleke kakhulu ephumelele kimi futhi ngidinga ulwazi oluthile. Ungazikhohlisi, uzicabangela ngenhla noma wehlise endaweni eyodwa noma kwenye. Kuphela umsebenzi othembekile futhi ocacile ngokwabo ozothuthukisa ngempela izinga labo, alwele futhi afinyelele izinhloso zawo.