Abesifazane abaningi baphupha ngomndeni omkhulu lapho kuzoba nezingane eziningi nezinkinga ezimnandi, nokho, lapho kufika ingane yokuqala, owesifazane uyakuqonda lokho ngisho nangengane eyodwa - i-Fact feat. Isinqumo enganeni yesibili asinikezwa silula, kepha nokho sinqume ukukusiza wenze isinqumo esifanele.
"Kuzoba nendlu enkulu, khona-ke ..."
Cishe, kuvela iningi lokungabaza enhlabathini lendaba efulethini, njengoba izingane eziningana zingasakwazi ukukhula e-Odnushka, lapho kufanele zigcwale nabazali bazo. Ngokufanelekile, ingane ngayinye kufanele ibe negumbi elihlukile, uma unenhlanhla futhi izingane zizoba ngocansi olulodwa, ungenza ubuntwana obunye, kodwa hhayi wonke umuntu onenhlanhla.
Imvamisa, imibhangqwana yemindeni ingakwazi ukunquma ngengane yesibili, kepha amaphupho efulethi elikhulu elinamafasitela anophaneli ashiye izingqondo zawo kanye nesinqumo sokuzalwa kwengane yesibili kufanele kuhlehliswe. Uqinisekile ukuthi iphupho elinjalo lomhlaba wonke lizofika maduze? Uma kungenjalo, kungenzeka, kusanqunywa ukuba abazali okwesibili uma uphupha ngakho isikhathi eside. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uvimbela ukuthi uthenge indlu, unezingane ezimbili ezandleni?
Nomyeni wakho nomndeni wakho, uzophatha konke
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"Ukuthola imali eningi kuphi?"
Abazali abaningi badidekile ngalesi sikhathi. Akekho ophakamisa ukuthi izingane zizolamba zilambe futhi zigcine izinto zilandelana, kepha imfundo enhle, zonke izinhlobo zokubhaliswa esigabeni kukhona imali ehlonishwayo, ikakhulukazi ezimweni zokuhlala emadolobheni amakhulu. Akuwona wonke umuntu ongakhipha izindleko ezinjalo. Noma kunjalo, ukusatshalaliswa kwemali okunengqondo kungasiza ukuxazulula le nkinga: izicathulo ezilandelayo ezivela kumkhiqizo womhlaba zingahlatshwa. Phakathi kokunye, ungahlala ubala ukusekelwa kwezinsizakalo zenhlalo ezifeza zonke izinhlobo zezindlela zokuxhasa omama abasebasha nabakhulu.
"Kuthiwani ngomsebenzi?"
Izigidi zabomama emhlabeni wonke zihlanganisa ngempumelelo umsebenzi nokuba ngumama, inzuzo yanamuhla inethuba lokusebenza ukude. Kodwa-ke, iningi labomama ligxiliswa ngokuphelele ekunakekeleni izingane, futhi lapho "liyavela", kube nezinguquko ezinkulu emkhakheni wazo, ukuze zihambisane nalo. Kunezinketho eziningana lapha, konke kuncike ekutheni yini impilo yakho ephumelela:
- Ungazinikele ngokuphelele ezinganeni.
- Uma iphuzu lokuqala alikufaneli, sifuna i-nanny yezingane futhi senza okulahlekile.
- Shintsha isizukulwane.
"Ini? Nakulokhu futhi ngalesi sihogo? Ngeke! "
Akunasizathu esithandekayo. Isipiliyoni esingaphumelelanga sokubelenza singasithinta kakhulu isinqumo sakho. Yebo, futhi izinyanga zokuqala ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, zingathinta kakhulu i-psyche kamama omncane nongenalwazi: ukungalali ebusuku, ekhala ingane, ibhizinisi lesigidi endlini, njll. Owesifazane angaqondakala.
Unganqoba ukwesaba ehhovisi lochwepheshe, kanye nodokotela wezengqondo, uchaza ukuthi kwashaqeka kangangokuba umbono wokuzalwa kwengane okwesibili uthukuthele. Uma icala lisezinhlelweni ezifuywayo, bese ngokuxhaswa komngane womshado nomndeni, uzosingatha kakhulu okwesibili, kodwa futhi nengane yesithathu.