Lapho uya kwinhlolokhono, ulindele ukuthi uzohlolwa kuphela ngezimfanelo zobungcweti, akufanele. I-Eichar enolwazi ingenza umbono mayelana nohlobo lwemizuzu eyishumi ngemuva kokuqala kwengxoxo. Mhlawumbe, akukufanele ngisho nokuxoxa ukuthi kujabulisa kanjani ngakunye kwethu inhlolokhono lapho ethatha umsebenzi, ngakho-ke sonke siyagwenywa amaphutha angavinjelwa uma ulungiselela ingxoxo kusengaphambili. Namuhla sinqume ukukhuluma ngokuthi akufanele yini ngokunembe kangakanani uma ufaka isicelo sokuthunyelwe kwephupho lakho.
Awuboni imingcele
Ngeke sazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi abantu ababuhlungu bahlobana kanjani nokwephulwa kwemingcele yomuntu siqu, ngakho-ke noma yimiphi imizamo yokusondela kumqasha, isifiso sokuncika etafuleni, sithathe into ethile etafuleni, singabonakala sihlukumeze kakhulu, ngokwemvelo, a Umuntu akasebenzi, kepha athathe indlela oziphatha ngayo ukuze uqaphele, qaphela. Cabanga nje ukuthi kunodonga lwengilazi phakathi kwakho, olungenakukhathazeka.
ungaphuli isikhala somuntu siqu
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Awubheki emehlweni
Vele, akudingekile ukubheka okungafinyeleleki emehlweni - kubuhlungu. Kodwa-ke, futhi asikweluleki ukulahla ngokuphelele ukuxhumana okubonakalayo. Ezingeni lokuqonda, umuntu wethemba umuntu ongesabi ukubheka emehlweni nesikhathi esithile ukubopha ukubukeka. Uma ngesikhathi sengxoxo uthanda "ukudubula" ngamehlo ezinhlangothini, zama ukuzigcina ezandleni zakho futhi ungakwenzi lokho phambi kuka-Eikar noma phambi kwesikhathi esizayo.
Unokubulala ngokubulala ngamandla okukhulu
Cha, akudingekile ukugcina izandla zakho emadolweni akho, kepha futhi nomngcele ocasulayo ngeminwe yakho etafuleni ngeke akulethe esigabeni esiya ephusheni. Ezimweni ezicindezelayo, abaningi bethu baqala ukuqondisa izinwele zabo, thinta ubuso noma ngokungathandeki ngokuchofoza isibambo, uma wazi lesi sici, thatha okuthile ezandleni zakho ukuze uzithathe okuthile. Ukuqasha kubalulekile lokho okushoyo, hhayi ukuthi wenzani.
Uzama kanzima
Iphuzu eligeleza kahle kusuka kwangaphambilini. Uma uhlala eduze noma maqondana ne-interlocutor, ikubona kahle, ngakho kungani unemisindo enamandla ngezandla zakho, uzama ukuqinisa inkulumo yakho? Ukuthula kwengqondo i-sphere ezizungeze ngokwayo, ongakwazi ukuphuma. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba ubambe lapho ufuna ukuqala ubudlova ngaphandle kokuma.
Amasiginali alahlekile
Omunye umzuzu ovame ukuba yinkinga yangempela - ukushukuma kwakho namagama awahambelani. Akukho lutho oluxakile ukwedlula ukutshela indaba engathandeki ngokuhleka noma ukuhola ingxoxo emnandi ngezingalo eziwele. Zibuke!
Awumamatheka
Kubukeka sengathi uMkhandlu WaseBan Banal omuhle - ukumamatheka okwengeziwe, kepha nokho, sivame ukukhohlwa ngakho futhi kube yize, ngoba ukumamatheka kwesinye isikhathi kungenza izinto ezinhle kakhulu. Shono abaqeqeshi abaningi bebhizinisi babeka lo mzuzu cishe endaweni yokuqala - umsebenzi wakho ukudala isimo sokuthakazelelwa, qala ngokumamatheka ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe uzokunqoba ngokuqinile i-Eikar.