Njengoba wazi, ngaphandle kocansi osezingeni eliphakeme akunakwenzeka ukwakha ukwethembana nokuseduze kobudlelwano iminyaka eminingi. Eminye imibhangqwana eminingi kwesinye isikhathi ayiyona into enezinkinga eziningi ebudlelwaneni ezingaxazululwa ngokulingisa ukuxhumana embhedeni. Siqoqe izeluleko eziyinhloko ezazivame ukuphila ngokuvumelana iminyaka eminingi. Rekhoda noma ugcine kumabhukhimakhi.
Hlala ukhuluma ngezifiso zakho
Akukho lutho olubi ukwedlula ukucasuka kumlingani futhi uphelele ngokungaqondakali kumuntu. Siphinde sathi amadoda angakwazi ukufunda imicabango yakho, akufanele aqagele okuthandayo ukuthi uthule ngenkani. Abesifazane abaningi besaba ukungaqondakali, ngenxa yalokho okufanele banqande noma yikuphi ukugqwala ngandlela thile ukuguqula impilo yocansi, ngale ndlela, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kushabalale noma yisiphi isifiso sokushintsha okuthile, ngenxa yokucasuka kuzo zombili izinhlangothi kuze kube ukwephula ubudlelwano. Futhi konke ngoba umuntu wathula. Ungakuthandi lokhu, senza konke ofuna ukukuthola embhedeni, futhi futhi ungakuchithi, uma okuthile ngezenzo zozakwethu kungakufanele.
Okunhlobonhlobo esimweni
Enye imfihlo emincane yocansi olunethezekile futhi oluhle yizindawo ezintsha nezindawo. Ungacabangi ukuthi ukukhuthaza okuhlukahlukene kuzosiza ukuxazulula inkinga yokwehlisa ukuthokozela i-expation, uma usetshenziswa okuthunyelwe okukodwa noma okubili. Futhi, akufanele ugxile kokuthathu okuthandwayo okuthandwayo - funa izinketho ezintsha futhi ungesabi ukuzizama, umlingani wakho uzojabula.
Funa izindlela zokumangaza umlingani
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Woza ukukhanya
Uma omunye wemicabango yakho eneminyaka yobudala, kungani ungenzi lo mbono okungenani kanye? Imibhangqwana eminingi eyayiphila iminyaka eminingi inethemba lokuthi ubulili besikhathi esisodwa ngokuzibandakanya kweTrasti yesithathu kuzovuselela ubuhlobo bakho kuphela ngaphandle kokulimaza. Hlangana nomlingani bese uqala ukusesha ivolontiya.
Ucansi phakathi nosuku
Ukusondelana ekuseni kwathi ngaphambi kokulala sekuvele kunesithukuthezi kangangokuba akusizi ngalutho ingxoxo. Ucansi lwezezindlu luyindaba ehluke ngokuphelele. Kuyiqiniso, akwenzeki njalo ukusika umphefumulo womlingani, ikakhulukazi uma nobabili nisebenza, kepha impelasonto neholidi lizofika ngokuphelele ekuhlolweni kobulili. Uzame kanjani?