Iningi lamadoda lithanda ukufihla imizwa - hhayi into yowesilisa, ihlonishwa obala! Kepha ngokugxekwa kunesimo esilinganiselwe. Kwesinye isikhathi owesifazane kufanele ahudule ukuvuma izono ezivela kumlingani wakhe, ngokunganeliseki kwakhe nawe, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngocansi, ungaqonda ngezibonakaliso ezingezona ezezwisisi ukuthi sinqume namuhla ukuthi sizokhuluma.
Akafuni ukukuthinta
Cishe isibonakaliso esiyisisekelo kunazo zonke esinamathiselwe kwendoda - uhlala efuna ukuthintana ngokomzimba: Ukuthinta okuthe xaxa engxenyeni yomzimba wakho, zama ukusukuma eduze, ukwanga, ukuthola. Embhedeni, kwenzeka into efanayo - uma indoda ihlanya ngawe, izokonga ukuthintana ngokomzimba, esikhundleni sokufulawa. Uma owesilisa efuna isizathu sokuphunyuka endlini yokugezela noma engasoze wahlala nawe ebusuku, kufanelekile ukucabanga ukuthi uyaqhubeka nobudlelwano nomuntu ongabambi buzz ebukhona bakho.
Umuntu oboshwe ngokomoya ngeke asebenze lapho kuqala ithuba
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UMimica uzohlala ekhipha
Uma umlingani wakho engeyena umlingisi ogqamile, fihla ukunganeliseki ngesikhathi senqubo ye-SAM ngeke kusebenze. Iqiniso elaziwayo - Indoda inzima ukugxila kweminye imicimbi ngesikhathi se-AFID AST, ngakho-ke ingaqiniseka ukuthi ngesikhathi sezenzondo ubona imizwa yakhe yangempela nesimo sengqondo ngawe.
Ngaphandle kokudwengula amehlo
Indoda ethandwa nguwe ohlelweni obuseduze ngeke ibheke ukubukeka noma ukukhetha ukuma lapho ungakuboni. Kungenzeka, Umelela omunye umuntu endaweni yakho, futhi ngoba lokhu kubalulekile ukuthi ungabhekane nawe. Cishe uhlele njengomlingani wemihlangano engavamile, kepha izinkulumo nezinkulumo mayelana nokusondelana ngokomzwelo.
Ukubalekela embhedeni
Njengoba sishilo, indoda oyithandayo, izoqaphela isizathu sokuphunyuka noma sokuqeda ukukhulumisana ebuyaneni uqobo. Ubulili obuhle kakhulu kanye nokusondelana ngokomzwelo ngeke kumvumele aphenduke odongeni futhi alale kuze kuse ukuze abukeke buthule ngaphansi kokubukeka kwakho okunganele. Iboshelwe kuwe futhi indoda eyanelisekile ngeke yenqabe ukukhuluma nawe futhi kuzojabulisa ngempela ukukulalela.