"I-Best Syndrome" yigama lesidididi lesidididi sokuphelela kokuphelela - ikhwalithi eyenza umnikazi wayo noma umnikazi wayo alwele okuhle kukho konke futhi akunandaba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukulwela okulungile akukubi, kube lula ngisho nakulabo abafuna ukuphelela eduzane. Uhlelo lokuphelela nge-Syndrome luyindlela ephelele kunoma yimuphi umqashi, ngoba ungalengisa umsebenzi weqembu lonke, futhi uzokwenza, ngoba angeke ukwehluka. Ngakho-ke, ngakolunye uhlangothi, impilo yomuntu olwela ukuba ngokuphelele, imvamisa ifana nesihogo.
- Izici ezihlukile zohlelo lokuphelela nge-syndrome of izici:
- Isifiso sokuhlanzeka okuphelele, i-oda (futhi singabonakala kusukela ebuntwaneni - sibangelwa ku-Im-Imveli, onodoli ukukhula, imikhiqizo esiqandisini, njll.).
- Ukusabela okubuhlungu kunoma yikuphi ukugxekwa okungaletha ukudangala, ama-hysterics. Nangemuva salokhu - umhawu, lapho omunye umuntu edunyiswa.
"Isifiso sokwenza konke" esihlanu ", thatha izibopho ezengeziwe, zama ukuthi kukhona amandla, afe, kodwa akwenze.
- Ukulungela ukuzidela, ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu nasemsebenzini. Owakhe, uqobo, thina "esihle kakhulu" asibongi, akuvikeleli, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufeza into ekahle nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ngakho-ke, ukulungele ukwenza okuthile ekulimaleni impilo yayo engokomzimba nengokwengqondo, sebenza ekugqokeni.
- Ukuqhathanisa kwakho nabanye, okuhlala kungabi kumusa wayo - "okuhle kakhulu" kuhlale kubi kakhulu kunalabo abaziqhathanisa nabo, kuyamshukumisela ukuba athole impumelelo enkulu kakhulu.
Vumela ukwenza amaphutha
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Abantu basithola kanjani isifo sokuhle kakhulu?
Imvamisa ebuntwaneni, lapho abazali bephendula ukuqonda intombazane ukuthi akekho noyedwa, okokuqala, ngeke bamthande kanjalo. Kufanele adumise futhi, ngokufanele, uthando. Ngenxa yalokho, kufanele kube namathoyizi ezinyo, hhayi ukungcola, ziphathe kahle, ukuze sifunde ngokuphelele. Intombazane ijwayela iqiniso lokuthi uthando lwabazali alunamibandela futhi lubonakale kuphela lapho seluhle. Ezingeni eliqondakalayo, lihleliwe: isenzo esihle + udumo + uthando. Ngakho-ke, le ntombazane ikhula ngokuqonda ukuthi yini okudingeka ibe yinhle, zama - bese uzothanda. Lapha, njengomthetho, ukugxekwa njalo kunezela ekhelini lengane, ukunganeliseki nabo, ngoba akufani nabanye, kukhona okungakwenzi okuthile, akufinyeleli noma iyiphi impumelelo. Ingane ibhekene nemizwelo engemihle ngaphakathi kuye, ithukuthele ukuthi akazange ajabulise okuthile nabazali bakhe, futhi azame ukufakazela ngazo zonke izindlela ukuthi zingathandwa ngazo khona. Imvamisa emindenini lapho kukhula khona "okuhle kakhulu", omunye wabazali ugunyaziwe futhi uhlala ecindezela ingane.
Kuyini ukuba khona kwesifo sobisi?
Isifiso sokusongela okulungile kokuphazamiseka kwezinzwa, ukudangala okuvikelekile, ukuncipha ngokomzimba, izifo zengqondo. Futhi, mhlawumbe, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane abanezinto ezinezinto ezivame ukusetshenziswa ngezinhloso zabo - abaqashi, abesilisa, ozakwethu, osebenza nabo, bonke abangabavila kakhulu. "Okuhle kakhulu" - into elula ongayilahla ngayo wonke umsebenzi, ebudlelwaneni bakho laba besifazane bashintshwa ngokungapheliwa kwabesilisa, abangane, abajwayelekile, abakwazi ukwenqaba noma ngubani, umuntu kufanele njalo. Ukukhathazeka kusukela ebuntwaneni uthando lungafanelelwa kuphela, ngimubi kangangokuba akekho ozongithanda kakhulu, lona wesifazane ukuvumela ukuthi uphinde asule ama-absers futhi ekhishwe nabo yize kukhona ubudlelwane obufushane, kepha obunobuthi.
Awudingi kwenye imvume, ngaphandle kweyakho
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Kuthiwani uma uthole ezinye izibonakaliso ze-syndrome ye-excer?
- Kuyaqondakala ukuthi kubi futhi akulungile. Akukho lutho oluphelele kulomhlaba, ngakho-ke ungaphumula futhi uthole amaphuzu: umhlaba awuwa. Ngakho-ke, zivimbele esifisweni sokuletha konke esimweni sokufuna ukuphelela.
- Vumela amaphutha. Yiyeke ngokwakho kusuka ngaphakathi kwabanye ukuphuthelwa.
- Akudingeki uhlangabezane neminye imibuzo nemibono. Futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuzivumelanisa nazo. Funda ukwenza okuthile, ngokususelwa ezintweni eziza kuqala, hhayi abangabazi.
- Qaphela ukuthi awudingi okunye ukuvunyelwa, ngaphandle kweyakho. Wena uqobo inhloko.
- Uma ungakwazi ukuguqula wena nempilo yakho, thintana nodokotela wezengqondo ngosizo olufanele.