Siyaqiniseka ukuthi uvame ukucabanga ngokuthi uyaphi, futhi kungani uze kulomhlaba. Awuwedwa esifisweni sokuthola impendulo yale mibuzo, kepha inkinga ukuthi akukho ukuvumelana ngale ndaba. Noma kunjalo, kunezindlela eziningana zokuthola impendulo kulokho ukwakheka kwakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, phendukela endleleni ye-logotherapy.
Ibhizinisi eliyintandokazi lingaveza amakhono akho
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Iyini le ndlela?
Ngokungafani noSigmund Freud, okholelwa ukuthi ngumbuso wenjabulo wasemhlabeni kuphela, udokotela wezifo zengqondo wase-Austrian Viktor Farnomon wayehlukile futhi enomuzwa wethu, ngakho-ke, imvelo yethu ikhona Ukuzikhethela kwamahhala nokuzibophezela ngempilo yakho. UFlank wayengumsunguli we-LogoTotherapy - indlela ye-psychoanalysis ekhona. Ngokusho kwakhe, umuntu kufanele aphile ngokungathi uhlala okwesibili, futhi manje unethuba lokulungisa amaphutha esikhathi esidlule, aphile impilo entsha ngendlela ehlukile.
Uyini umqondo wakhe?
Umsebenzi ophambili we-LogoTotherapy, ngokusho koMdali wayo, ukukhombisa umhlaba ukuthi uwukuthi, ukuze isiguli sandise umbono wakhe wezinto zakhe ngakuye.
Ngokwale ndlela, kunezindlela ezintathu kuphela zokuthola incazelo yempilo yakho:
- Ukuzibandakanya ekuqashelweni, okuthanda kakhulu.
- Uthando olukhulu ngomuntu.
- Ulwazi lwencazelo yempilo ngokuhlupheka.
Esimweni sokuqala, konke kucace bha: Lapho umuntu ethandana naye entweni eyithandayo, empeleni akazange avele ngencazelo yobukhona bakhe, ngoba konke kufanelana nokuphila kunhle. Uma uthatha isinqumo sokuthi uyakuthanda, uzothola udaba ozolungela ukwenza konke impilo yakho ungacabanga ukuthi ukusesha kwakho kwephuzu kuqediwe, okungenani kulesi sigaba.
ungakheli impilo ezungeze umuntu oyedwa
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Esigabeni sesibili, sikhuluma ngokunamathiselwa okungokomzwelo nomuntu noma into. Umuntu angazicwilisa kokuhlangenwe nakho okumnandi, ikakhulukazi lapho omunye umuntu ebuyisela. Imvamisa, esimweni esinjalo, abantu bazinikele ngokuphelele empilweni yokunakekela into yokudumisa, ukuthola okushiwo ukuba khona kwayo. Inkinga kuphela ukuthi omunye umuntu angayisebenzisa "i-Overdo IT" bese umhlaba wakho ungawa ngokusuka kozakwethu, futhi ulahlekelwe kanye nencazelo yobukhona, ngakho-ke akufanele uchithe ngokuphelele impilo yami yonke, ukuba khona kwako okungahleki.
Indlela yesithathu, mhlawumbe eyayingemnandi kakhulu, ngoba sikhuluma ngokuhlupheka okungenakugwenywa. Kepha kulokhu kunezinzuzo, njengokushintsha kobunikazi bangaphakathi kwaba ngcono.
Abangani abaningi kanye nabantu obajwayele kungenzeka bangasibozi isifiso sakho sokuzithola wena
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Akubona bonke abangane nezihlobo zethu abangaqonda isifiso sethu sokuthola okushiwo yimpilo, ikakhulukazi lapho wezwa imicabango yabo kulokhu. Khumbula, ukusesha okushiwo akuyona i-pathology, kepha indlela yokuzithuthukisa.