Heiden pantiery
Mama u-kayy endala kayy
"Lapho bekhuluma ngokucindezelwa kwangemva kokubeletha, abaningi bacabanga ukuthi kusho ukuthi" angikubi ngengane yami, ngifuna ukulimaza noma ukulimaza. " Mina uqobo angikaze ngibe nemicabango enjalo, kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi abanye besifazane babhekana nemizwa enjalo, "kukhulunywa nge-hyedennotieri ngokukhululekile. - Kepha lokhu kungenye yezinhlangothi zokudangala kwangemva kokubeletha. I-spectrum yemizwa yokuhlobisa okuhlangenwe nakho ibanzi kakhulu: ukulahleka kwesifiso sokudla, ukuphazamiseka kokulala, ukukhathazeka, ukunganaki kwengane. Lokhu akulona ngokwesiko ukukhuluma, ngoba kukholakala ukuthi ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, umama kufanele athole injabulo nenjabulo kuphela. Kepha hhayi njalonjalo, futhi abesifazane banamahloni ngenxa yesimo sabo. Futhi-ke, kudingeka ukhulume ngokudangala kwakho, omama abasebasha kufanele bazi ukuthi abayedwa. "
"Nganginenhlanhla: Benginomuntu engingaxoxa naye ngesimo sami. Ekhuluma izinkinga zakho, unomuzwa wokuthi angingedwa, sekube lula kakhulu kimi. Kancane kancane ngijwayela ukuba ngumama futhi sengizizwa kahle, "umlingisi uyavuma.
ICeline Dion
Umama wendodana eneminyaka engu-14 ubudala uRena-charles namawele u-Eddie noNelson, abazoba neminyaka emihlanu ngo-Okthoba 23
"Ekuqaleni ngangizizwa ngijabule kakhulu, kwathi lapho kungakhathali futhi ukukhathala kungazelele kwangikhanyisa," umculi ukhumbula isimo sakhe emva kokuzalwa kwamawele. - Ezinsukwini zokuqala, lapho ngibuyela ekhaya ngivela esibhedlela somama, angizange ngingene kimi. Abaningi bakhala ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ngilahlekelwe ngokuphelele isifiso sakho sokudla. Wayethembisene kuphela noma akenzanga lutho, ehleli nje futhi wabheka iphuzu elilodwa. Umama wanaka lokho kwesinye isikhathi ngokuvamile ngabonakala kungaphili. Ungichazele ukuthi kwenzekani, futhi waqiniseka ukuthi lokhu kujwayelekile ukuthi abaningi babhekene nokudangala kwangemva kokubeletha. Umama wangisiza kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi, ngafika ngokushesha kwami. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, abesifazane badinga ukusekelwa ngokuziphatha. "
Gwyneth palltrow
Umama ndodakazi eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala futhi u-9, uMose oneminyaka engu-9
Gwyneth palltrow nendodakazi. Photo: Instagram.com/gwynehpaltrow.
"Lapho indodana yami uMose ibonakala emhlabeni ngo-2006, ngangilindele ukuba ngisinde ekuhlaseleni i-euphoria, njengoba kwakunjalo emva kokuzalwa kwendodakazi endala ye-EPPLE. Kepha esikhundleni salokho, ezinye zezikhathi ezinzima kakhulu, ezinobuhlungu nezibuhlungu zeza empilweni yami, "kukhumbula uGwyneth Paltrow. - Ngazizwa ngiyi-zombie. Angikwazanga ukufinyelela inhliziyo yami, ngivuse imizwa yami, ngithole ukuxhumana nendodana yami. Kwakukubi. Futhi akunjalo njengeqiniso lokuthi sengibonile ngemuva kokubonakala kwezixazululo. Ngangiqiniseka ukuthi ngingumama omubi nomuntu omubi. "
"Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezine ngizalwe, uChris waya kimi (uMartin - umyeni wakhe wangaphambilini noyise wezingane zabo ezimbili, - approx.) Wathi:" Kukhona okungahambi kahle, kukhona okungahambi kahle. " Ngazama ukumqinisekisa ukuthi konke bekuhlelekile. Kepha wangitshela ukuthi nginokucindezelwa kwangemva kokubeletha, futhi kwakunjengokuthi ngangiqhume ngiqhume isikhathi eside. Ngaqala ukuthola ukuthi kuyini nokuthi ukubhekana nakho. Futhi ngenxa yosizo lwabathandekayo nochwepheshe, ngakwazi ukunqoba lesi simo. "
I-Brook Shields
Mama ndodakazi eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala i-Royan nendodakazi eneminyaka engu-8 ubudala
Umlingisi uBrook uzihlangu aze anikele incwadi yakhe yokudangala ye-postpartm "nemvula yahamba." "URowan uhlala ekhala, futhi ngaqala ukwesaba lezo zikhathi lapho uChris (Henci ungumlingisi we-Actress, - approx.) Ngizilethele kimi. Hhayi ukuthi angimthandi, kodwa ngangingenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ngifuna ukuhlala naye ndawonye. Ngaphambi kwalapho, ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ngiseduze nengane, noma iyiphi ingane, ngangifuna ukuyithatha ezandleni zami. Kepha angizange ngizizwe ngendlela efanayo maqondana nendodakazi yami, "kuvuma uBlooke encwadini. "Ngangesaba ukuthi ngithanda ukubalekela endaweni ethile, ngicashe." Noma ngeke ngikwazi ukuzimisa futhi nginciphise amaphilisi. Sifundiswa ukuthi iba yemvelo enhle kangaka. Futhi uma ungahlangabezanga imizwa enjalo, khona-ke ungumuntu ongalungile, umama omubi. Kepha iphuzu alikho nakancane kulokhu, udaba lucindezelekile, futhi kufanele lube luzabalaza ngalo. "
Alanis Morissett
Umama indodana eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala uke imre
U-Alanis Morissett nendodana yakhe. Photo: Instagram.com/alanis.
"Lezi kwakuyizikhathi ezinzima kakhulu. Ngazizwa ngikhipha, ukunganakwa. Anginawo amandla okuthi, "kusho umculi ngokudangala kwaso kwangemva kokubeletha. - Futhi wonke umuntu manje osesimweni esinjalo, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi: Cela usizo nangokusemandleni. Ngeshwa, ngakuqonda sekwephuzile. Ukunyakaza kwabesifazane kwenza abesifazane bazimele kakhulu, bazimele, baqiniseka ukuthi bangakwazi ukubhekana nabo bonke. Kepha hhayi njalo. Kumele ngithi kuwe: Yebo, nginamandla, ngakho-ke ngithola amandla okucela usizo nokusekelwa. Kuhle ukuthi ngikwenzile ngesikhathi sami. "
I-Sadi Frost.
Umama wendodana eneminyaka engu-18 ubudala uRuffti, indodakazi eneminyaka engu-13 ubudala u-Iris kanye nendodana eneminyaka engu-12 rudy
Umfazi wangaphambilini wakwaJuda wehlisa umoya futhi umama wezingane zakhe ezintathu uyavuma ukuthi wathola ukucindezelwa kwangemva kokubeletha ngemuva kwazo zonke izinhlobo. "Ngikhumbula ukuthatha isikelo. Benginomuzwa wokuthi ngangiboshelwe esihlalweni, futhi isikere uqobo sakholelwa esandleni sami. Ngabona ukuthi ngizisika kanjani ukuthi igazi ligeleza esandleni sami. Angikwethusanga, ngangesabi, angizange ngibe nobuhlungu. Kwakukhona kuphela, ukungabi nalutho, okuyize, "kusho isimo sikaSadi ngemuva kokuvela kwendodana endalo. Ukubhekana nokucindezelwa kwangemva kokubeletha, isithwathwa kwadingeka ukuya esibhedlela. Kodwa-ke, lesi sifo saphindela kuye nangemva kokuzalwa okulandelayo, futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi uSadi akakwazi ukubhekana nale nkinga uqobo noma ngosizo lwabathandekayo futhi aphoqelelwa ukuba axhumane nabodokotela ngosizo olufanele.
UCourney Cox
Mama ndodakazi eneminyaka engu-11 coco
I-Courney Coke. Photo: Twitter.com/@courteneycox.
"Izikhathi ezinzima empilweni yami azizange zize ngokushesha ngemuva kokuzalwa kwendodakazi, kwathi lapho ehamba ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, ukhumbula uCourceney Coke. - Ngayeka ukulala. Inhliziyo yami yayishaya ngamandla njengokuhlanya. Ngaqala ukuya emicabangweni yokuzibulala. Ngiqale ukudangala kwangempela. Ngaya kudokotela, futhi kwavela ukuthi nganginokwehluleka kwama-hormonal futhi ngidinga usizo olufanele. Ngenhlanhla, ngalulama ngokushesha, futhi konke kwathuthuka. "
Angelina Jolie
Umama wezingane eziyisithupha: Ukwamukela ama-maddox amathathu - i-pakhara eneminyaka engu-13 ubudala, iPakhara eneminyaka engu-11 ne-zakhara, kanye nama-shailo aneminyaka engu-8 ubudala kanye namawele aneminyaka engu-6 ubudala kanye nama-vivien
U-Angelina Jolie akakaze abe nomuntu uqobo akazange akhulume ngokudangala kwakhe kwangemva kokubeletha. Kepha imithombo esondelene nenkanyezi yatshelwa ukuthi ngemuva kokuvela kwamawele, abalingisi baqala ngokumqashwa. "U-Angelina wayenokushintshwa kwemizwa okuvame. Wazama ukubhekana nemizwa, ukuxhumana nezingane ezindala, kodwa wakwazi ukungakwazi. U-Angie waquzwa nguNavrian, wahleka ngaphandle kwesizathu, "abalingisi abafanayo babehlanganyela. "Futhi wachitha isikhathi esiningi embhedeni walala, walala ... wayengenawo amandla, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye kwakungekho ukuncelisa."
UJennifer Lopez
Umama oneminyaka engu-7 ubudala indodana eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala uMax nendodakazi ka-Emma
UJennifer Lopez ngamawele. Photo: Instagram.com/jlo.
"Ngemuva kweviki ngemuva kokuzalwa kwezingane, ngaba nezimpawu zokuqala zokudangala kwangemva kokunye. Ngadabukisa, ngakhala kakhulu ngaphandle kwesizathu, kwabonakala kimi ukuthi uMax no-Emma bebengangithandi futhi abasoze bathandwa. Ngibe ne-paranoia yangempela, "umculi uyavuma. - Indabuko nebathandekayo bangisiza kakhulu ngaphambi kombuso obucayi, bangisekela futhi baqiniseka ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle. "
U-Amanda Pit.
Amadodakazi aneminyaka engu-8 ubudala, uFrankie, indodakazi eneminyaka engu-5, u-Molly nenyanga ayi-9, uHenry
"Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwami kokuqala, angizange ngiwushiye umuzwa we-euphoria. Futhi bengilindele ukuthi ngemuva kokuvela kwendodakazi eya ekukhanyeni, kuzonyusa kakhulu. Kepha kwavela okuphambene nako: Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, incithakalo yeza. Kwabonakala kimi ukuthi umsebenzi wami wagcwaliseka, futhi angisazidingi, "kusho u-Amanda Pete. - Ngaba nesimo sengqondo esimbili kakhulu sokuba ngumama. Futhi ngifuna ukukuvuma ngokungananazi, ngoba kusabhekwa njengokuhlaziyi okuhlazisayo kokuhlakulela ukungahlazi kwenjabulo ngemuva kokubonakala kwengane ezweni, nokwesaba, ukungaqiniseki, ukunganaki kanye neminye imizwa ekonakalisa ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha. Kunabafazi abaningi ngalokhu, kepha bakhuluma ngaleli yunithi. "