Ucansi luyingxenye ebalulekile yobudlelwano, kepha hhayi okuyisisekelo. Ukuze alondoloze ubudlelwano obude nobuqinile, akwanele ukumane afeze ubusuku bonke ndawonye, kubalulekile ukukwazi ukulalela nokuzwa omunye nomunye, ukusiza, ukugcina nokuqonda esimweni esinzima. Sihlanganise uhlu lwezinto eziyisisekelo, ngaphandle kwalo akukho mbhangqwana ozokwakha ubudlelwano besikhathi eside.
Yini ebaluleke ngempela?
Ukuqonda kuyadingeka
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Izinhloso ezijwayelekile empilweni
Ake sithi ubulili obuhle kakhulu, kuphela ngesikhathi sakhe samahhala azama ukwenza imali emafulethini eNew York, lapho kuzohamba khona eminyakeni embalwa ezayo, futhi uphikisana ngokwesigaba sokuhamba, futhi ubona unina kamama noma izingane ezine. Vele, akunakwenzeka ukubala ngekusasa elijabulisayo umbhangqwana onjalo kuphela uma ungazivumelani.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uhambisane ngokugcwele ukuze uhleleke futhi ufise, imibono yakho yesikhathi esizayo kufanele isethe kabusha kancane, ngaphandle kwalokho akukho mqondo wokwakha ubudlelwano besikhathi eside.
-Zwayo
Khuluma, uthi futhi uphinde ukhulume. Ukukhulumisana ngokomzwelo kwakhiwa ukuxhumana hhayi kuphela embhedeni kuphela, kodwa futhi ngokusebenzisa okuhlangenwe nakho nokwamukelwa kwemizwa yozakwethu. Cabanga ukuthi kangaki noma wabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho komunye nomunye, nokuthi kufanele uxazulule izinkinga ngokwakho. Akunakwenzeka ukwethula umndeni wesikhathi esizayo, lapho wonke umuntu ematasa khona kuphela.
Ukusekelwa kunoma yisiphi isimo
Ngamunye wethu unezinkinga zawo, ukuhlala naye ngedwa engenakwenzeka. Lapho uhlela umndeni, ubalwa ukuthola usizo oluvela kumlingani osesimweni esinzima, ikhaya lakho kufanele libe yindawo lapho uzoshesha khona ngezeluleko zothandekayo, njengoba kufanele aqonde ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi ungakuthembela kuwe.
Kufanele uthathena
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Ukuthabatha
Impilo yomndeni yehlukile emihlanganweni elula nempilo ehlanganayo futhi ihlala ithola amandla. Awungeke uhlale nendoda efulethini elilodwa futhi uhlala ethi "Ekuphakameni": Uzokubona ngaphandle kokwenza izimonyo, ulele, kuma-pajamas - hhayi nhlobo leyo "ozame ngayo ekuqaleni kokuthandana .
Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi "iqiniso lempilo" ngeke lihambise olikhethile, futhi ngeke liguqule ubuhlobo.
Izinhloso zakho zokuphila kufanele noma zihlangana kancane.
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Ukujabulisa ukuhambisana nomunye
Isikhathi esichithwa ndawonye akufanele sibe sesithwalweni. Uma ubheka ezinsukwini ngaphambi kokusuka, lokhu kuwuphawu olubi. Okungenani kufanele ube nezintshisakalo ezifanayo, ngisho nakusiphi indawo:
- Ezemidlalo.
- Umculo.
- Movie.
- Ukuhamba.
Njengoba sesikhulumile, akudingekile ukubheka i- "Clone" yakho, ngamunye wenu kufanele athathe izinto zokuzilibazisa zozakwethu, uma kungenjalo zingqubuzana zingenakugwenywa.