Uthando lwabazali abaningi ezinganeni zabo alunaming nemingcele, futhi kulungile. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi uthando olungenamkhawulo ngengane yakhe lwenza ukuthi omama bahlale nokoqobo nge-CHAD yakhe - ikakhulukazi abazali baphendulela ingane ikhophi labo, begqoka ingane ngesimo esifanayo. Ngakho-ke ukubukeka komndeni kuthola umfutho.
Lo mkhuba omazisi onesitayela wavela ekuqaleni kwekhulu leminyaka elidlule e-United States, lapho isikhungo somkhaya sesifanele sokugcina izindlela. Cishe iminyaka eyikhulu sekudlulile futhi inkambiso emnandi yathatha i-celabritis kanye nama-blogger ahlela wonke ama-athitha umndeni ezithombeni ezifanayo. Futhi naphezu kwencazelo yethemu, kunezinhlobonhlobo zokubukeka komndeni:
Ukusikisela kokubukeka komndeni. Imvamisa, omama abanamadodakazi agqoke amadodakazi hhayi "ku-zero", kepha sebenzisa kuphela uhla lombala olujwayelekile noma izesekeli ezifanayo, njengezikhwama ezivela kwiqoqo elilodwa.
U-anyanisi owodwa ". Umama nendodakazi abahlanganisi nakancane ngombala, noma kunjalo, isitayela nokukhethwa kwezinto kuyafana. Ukuphuma okunjalo kungabonakala ezenzakalweni zezwe, ikakhulukazi lezo ezakhelwe esihlokweni sezingane.
Ingqikithi Yomndeni Lobutha. Ukuhlangana okuphelele ngesitayela nesikimu sombala. Njengomthetho, ikhophi eligcwele lezithombe zomunye nomunye lisetshenziswa kumahlumela wezithombe noma izehlakalo ezi-thematic lapho kubalulekile ukuheha ukunakwa. Emigwaqweni akuvamisile ukuhlangana nomama noma ubaba wami ngengane ngokuphelele.
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Yini ezonikeza ukubukeka komndeni
Into yokuqala yokuthi isithombe sakho sinjani - uthando olukhulu nesifiso sobunye nengane. Ezinganeni, ukufana nabantu abadala kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba izingane, ikakhulukazi ezineminyaka emithathu kuya kweminyaka eyisithupha, futhi ngenxa yalezi zimfanelo zabantu zidingeka, futhi ngalesi sithombe esisodwa esinomzali siphelele. Ukhombisa umhlaba ukuthi uyiqembu elihlangene lomndeni.
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Akunandaba ukuthi ungathanda ukusondela kanjani enganeni yakho, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane yakho ubuntu obuhlukile ngokuthanda kwakho nezifiso zakho. Ukuhlinzeka njalo ngengane okuthandayo, ukuncipha ngethuba lokwenza ukukhetha kwakho. Hlela iseshini yesithombe nengane, umeme ukuba acabange ukuthi angabukeka kanjani futhi wena, ukucaca, anikele ukukhetha kusuka ezikhethweni esenziwe ngomumo. Ngakho-ke, awunciphisi ilungelo lengane ukuvota, kepha futhi uthole izithombe ezinhle kakhulu ngesitayela esisodwa. Empilweni yansuku zonke, zama ukunikeza ingane inkululeko eyengeziwe yokuveza izifiso zayo.