Ubuntu bethu buyaziwa kakhulu futhi buyamangaza. Kepha bambalwa abantu abakwaziyo ukuthi noma ngubani ngehora ngalinye, yonke iminithi nomzuzwana wobukhona bayo basakaza izinkolelo zayo ezijulile namaphethini engqondo. Ukuqonda lokhu kusiza ukuhlaziya komuntu ubuntu.
Uchwepheshe osezingeni eliphakeme ngokusho kokubonakaliswa okunesivinini okuphansi kakhulu komnyombo wangempela womuntu angabandakanya isithombe sakhe esijulile sengqondo futhi athole izimfihlo umuntu ngokwakhe angafihla endaweni ejulile emqondweni wakhe. Isebenza kanjani?
Intatheli yaseRussia iYuri ihlala ikumema njalo ezingxoxweni zabantu abaziwayo - abadlali, ama-blogger, izibalo zomphakathi. Ngivakashele uYuri Dudia kanye nomlingisi odumile waseRussia uPavel Derevko. Futhi yini umbono ngemuva kokubuka i-ether ngowesifazane okhuni? UPawulu ungokomzwelo futhi akaqiniseki ngomuntu, naphezu kweminyaka evuthiwe, esesikhundleni sengane. Unezinkinga ngotshwala, ezinye izinto, ezifakazela eyodwa kuphela - ukuba khona kokujulile, okungasebenzi ngokuyabiye nokulimala kubazali babo, okungukuthi, uBaba wabo. Lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi noma yisiphi isiqalo saqala inqubo yokushiya izikhundla zezingane kanye nokuqanjwa kwecala labo kulabo abaseduze kwakhe.
Ungenza nezinye, azikho iziphetho ezimbalwa ezijabulisayo. Isibonelo, ukuba khona kwezimfanelo zowesifazane okumangazayo kwabesilisa, kufakazela ukuthi emndenini womuntu esikusingatha nathi kwakuwumholi owayengacindezeli umntwana kuphela, kodwa uYise ungumyeni wakhe. Ngokufuna imali yokudlala komama, ubumnene obungalahlile kakhulu ebuntwaneni, isidingo sokushintshwa kwangasese komlingani uxhumekile: Akekho noyedwa kubo owanelisa izicelo ezijulile zomlingisi othandweni nasilo, ezitholakala ebuntwaneni umama wabo. Kunokwesaba ukungafakwa ohlosweni, eduze nesidingo sokuba yilungu lohlelo olujwayelekile: Lokhu kukhombisa ukushoda kokuxhumana nogogo nomkhulu, ukungabikho komthombo wabo - okokuqala. Engxoxweni nentatheli uPaul kukhombisa amamaki asendulo ezinhlelo ezibhubhisayo ezijwayelekile.
Isibonelo, uzama ukusakaza ukufakwa okubhubhisayo maqondana nezezimali: ingcebo ilingana noPaphos, akukho lutho olukunikeza. Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi emndenini othile angahlushwa inhlala-kahle yawo yezezimali: Kungenzeka kube yizisulu zokudonswa noma ukuphanga.
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Isikhundla esiphathelene nezocansi kanye nokwenza umsebenzi wezidingo zocansi kusikisela ukuthi uPawulu ubambe izintshisekelo zawo zocansi. Imizwa eyakhiwe ngenhlawulo inika umuzwa wecala nentshisekelo, okuholela emaconsi ezimo ezijwayelekile, kufaka phakathi ukucasuka nentukuthelo. Uma izinkanuko zikhula, khona-ke izinkanuko ezicindezelekile zisuswa ekuziphatheni noma ukusetshenziswa komthamo olandelayo wotshwala.
Ukuthanda ukuphelela kungenye into kaPawulu "induku kusukela ebuntwaneni": ufuna ukuthuthukisa yonke into ekuhlelweni, ukusula ekulahlisweni kwangaphakathi nasezinkulweni ezingezinhle.
Ukuxoxisana noPaul Darychko kusibonisile, noma kunjalo, kungaba ngumuntu uqobo. Kepha uPawulu "uyinkanyezi esikrinini", bese ucabanga ukuthi kuphelele futhi kuwusizo kangakanani kuwe kungaba ukuhlaziya komuntu ubuntu bomlingani, isihlobo noma umlingani webhizinisi. Kunokulahleka okuningi - okwesikhashana, okwezezimali, kwezomzwelo, - kungagwenywa uma usondela kulolu daba, ikakhulukazi ukuheha ochwepheshe bezifundo ezingcono zomuntu onentshisekelo kuzo.