Ngamunye wethu unolwazi oluhlukahlukene lokuxhumana nabantu, imvamisa buhlungu. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene, singakholelwa ukuthi maduze nje "into efanayo" izofika, okuyiphunga lokuxazulula izinkinga zethu futhi uzosifaka.
Umzekeliso walesi sifiso yiphupho elilula kangaka le-heroine yethu:
"Ephusheni, ngidweba imidwebo eminingi yabantu, ehlukile. Kuvela okuhle, kepha sonke isikhathi kukhona okungekho. Ngiphinde ngiphinde ngiphinde ngibe, bese ngiyaqonda ukuthi into elahlekile yimaphiko. Futhi engeza amaphiko kuyo yonke imidwebo. "
Iphupho le-heroine yethu lithi ubona okulungile emadodeni. Hhayi umuntu wangempela onomlingiswa wayo, isipiliyoni, ubunzima, kanye nento efanele ingelosi. Ngokwayo, ukuba khona kwakhe empilweni kufana nesimangaliso.
Ngokunokwenzeka, ama-Awards ethu amaphupho asondelene nezici zakhe eziphelele. Umuntu angacabanga ukuthi ukudumazeka okuzokonakalisa kanjani ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ebona uhlangothi lwawo lomuntu: ukuhaha, ubugwala, ngenkuthalo, ukubeketha, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubekezelela, ukubeketha
Yize kunjalo, kungenzeka ukudala ubuhlobo obuseduze nobuntu obuphilayo, futhi njengoba ephila, une "Amakona abukhali", njengoba namaphupho ngokwakhe nawo. Ubuhle busho ukuthi ukungabikho kwabo. Futhi ubudlelwano namadoda anendlela yengelosi enjalo ayikwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, i-halo ihlakazekile, futhi esikhundleni somlingani omuhle kakhulu kunomuntu ojwayelekile. I-Excinalization yindlela yokuqalwa kwezingane, kuze kube iphuzu elithile, bona unkulunkulu kubazali babo. Kepha ukwesekwa okuyikho kwezingane ekuthuthukisweni kwabo ukufika kancane kancane bathola kubazali babo abaphilayo nobunzima babo, imizwa, amaphutha, njll. Lokhu kuvumela izingane ukuthi zakhiwe ubudlelwane bangempela, nabathandekayo bazo, futhi nanoma ngubani obazungezile Abantu.
Iphupho le-heroine elifanayo lithi ngenkathi esengokoqobo yezingane ezimangazayo maqondana nabesilisa eduze kwakhe. Ngenkathi esaba ukubheka izinhlangothi zazo zokuphila eziphilayo futhi uzihlelele.
Kepha ukwakha ubuhlobo obuqinile, kuzofanela aqale inqubo yokubuya: ukutadisha izimfanelo zabantu, ajwayelane namadoda angempela, futhi aqaphele iqiniso lokuthi abantu abaphelele ukuthi bayawenza amaphutha, banephutha elihlobene nalo . Futhi ungomunye wabo.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin