Imvamisa, abazali bokugqwala kwentukuthelo bangatshela ingane ukuthi amagama amaningi angathandeki abonakala engenacala, kodwa empeleni abhekana nokulimala okuqinile kwe-psyche. Kwesinye isikhathi abantu abadala abaqondi nokuthi bangakanani amagama awo abuhlungu. Namuhla sizokutshela ngemisho yokumisa ongayitsheli ingane, noma ngabe yavuselelwa.
"Uma uqhubeka nokuziphatha, amaphoyisa malume azokuthatha"
Umthetho obaluleke kakhulu womzali: Akunakwenzeka ukukhuthaza ukwesaba nokukhathazeka ezinganeni zakhe, futhi nangaphezulu, ukuze zibasongele. Kuyena, nguwe wedwa wonke umuntu emhlabeni wonke ongamvikela. "Ngakho-ke umama usongela, pho ngedwa ngedwa?" - Ingane icabanga. Khuluma naye, chaza ukuthi kungani indlela aziphatha ngayo ingakwazi, kepha ungavumeli ukuba acabange ukuthi umama noma ubaba ulungele ukukunikeza iphoyisa eliyimfihlakalo kunoma yisiphi isimo esinzima.
Ingane Emamatheka - I-Merit Yabazali
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"Akufanele ukhale! Ungumfana "
Ukwehla kwemizwa yanoma yimuphi umuntu, ngisho nomuntu omdala, angathinta kabi isimo sakhe sengqondo, yini okufanele akhulume ngayo ngengane. Akunamahloni okukhala, ngoba ingane icindezelekile. Umsebenzi wakho ukuthola isizathu sokuphazamiseka, futhi ungathululeli uwoyela emlilweni ngokuphika kwemizwa yakhe.
"Senza konke noYihlo ngenxa yakho!"
Lesi sisho osigqugquzela ingane yakho umuzwa wecala, okuthi entanjeni endala kakhudlwana kuzokhula kube yizakhiwo kanye nomuzwa waphakade wokuthi kufanele yini umuntu. Ingane ayizange imcele ukuba abelethe - kwakuyisinqumo sakho, ngakho-ke ukunikeza ingane yakho impilo enhle - umsebenzi wakho, hhayi owakhe.
"Sengivele ngineminyaka yakho ..."
Faka leli ntsholo ungakwenza lutho. Abazali abaningi abakholelwa ngephutha ukuthi la magama ashukumisela ingane ekunqobeni okusha nasekufezeni. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi ingane azizwa kahle ngokwanele, ngoba ayikwazi ukufeza lokho okuhle okwadonswa ngabazali bakhe. Ngakho-ke kuzalwa inkimbinkimbi yokungaphansi.
"Kepha uDasha egcekeni elingumakhelwane ..."
Ungalokothi uqhathanise ingane yakho nothile, ngoba kungenye indlela eya ekwakhiweni kokuphansi. Mhlawumbe uDasha ovela egcekeni elingumakhelwane usevele egeza izitsha ngokwawo, kodwa ke ingane yakho idonsela kahle. Esikhundleni sokukhuza ngenxa yokuntuleka kwekhono, ukudumisa ingane kulabo asevele benakho.
Abazali bengane - umhlaba wonke
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"Unecala ngoba ungowe-Eldest"
Ingane ivele yasinda ngokubonakala kwenye ingane ekhaya lakho, eyayivele ingcindezi enamandla ngaye, ngoba ngaphambi kokuba kube yilapho yodwa eyayinaye. Ukumangalela ezindabeni kuzo zonke izono, uyakhula kuyo inzondo yakho, udadewethu omncane noma umfowabo, mhlawumbe nakuzo zonke izingane zizonke.
"Usencane kakhulu ukwazi lokhu"
Musa ukubulala ilukuluku lengane uye ezimpandeni. Uma ekubuza ngento eyinkimbinkimbi, zama ukumchazela ngamagama alula. Noma engaqondi, ingane izokwazi ukuthi yini engaheha abazali nanoma yimuphi umbuzo.