Namuhla, lapho imingcele isuswa ngokwenzekile, kunoma yikuphi, azikho izinkinga zokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu, futhi ngenxa yalokho amanoveli anabantu bakwamanye amazwe ayisabonakala ebabazekayo njengoba kwenzeka eminyakeni eyishumi edlule. Kodwa-ke, ingxenye eqinile yamazwe ahlukene ingahluka kakhulu ekusondeleni kwabesifazane, sanquma ukukhuluma ngamasiko amantombazane aseRussia abhekana nalo kakhulu.
AmaJalimane
Kubukeka sengathi amaJalimane anokhahlo futhi asebenzayo awadonsela ukuthi afana kakhulu namadoda ethu aseRussia, kodwa kuphela. Ngokuvamile, indlela yaseJalimane ebudlelwaneni bezothando iyafana nabanye baseYurophu ababhekene nomuzwa wabesifazane - umJalimane ngeke abone noma yini emangazayo eqinisweni lokuthi uzojwayela owokuqala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, engxoxweni nowesifazane othanda, amaJalimane ngeke akhulume nganoma yini - kubalulekile kuye okuqukethwe nentshisekelo emehlweni omngane. Qiniseka ukuthi nalo muntu ngeke uphuthelwe futhi uxoxe ngesimo sezulu sezulu ngezinsuku ezimbalwa ezimbalwa noma imibiko yakamuva yezindaba. Into esemqoka ukugwema ukuxhumana nanoma yimuphi umfokazi, - Ukugxekwa kwe-frank kohlelo lwezepolitiki lwamazwe akho, inkolo kanye nokuthandwa kocansi. Ingxoxo ingenza izingxabano ezinzima.
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IsiJapan
Abesifazane abayinkimbinkimbi abangakuboni imikhawulo futhi bahlala bethola imibono emisha, bavame ukuncamela amadoda asempumalanga, ubudlelwano bezothando abakhula ngalo ekukhulumisaneni okungenacala ngesiko elingaqondakali seMpumalanga yesiko. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi amadoda aseJapan avaliwe futhi awathandi ukubonakaliswa okukhanyayo kwemizwelo, ngakho-ke ukucaciswa okukhulu kakhulu kobudlelwano kuzoholela ekuqhekekeni, cabanga ngalesi sikhathi uma uthatha isinqumo sokugibela ihlazo kumuntu wakho oziqhenyayo. Ebudlelwaneni obufanayo, akukufanele ukulinda amanye ama-"aseMelika" - uma uyintombazane enomthelela osendaweni yakho, mhlawumbe umuntu waseMpumalanga uzokuthanda ngokushesha, kepha khumbula ukuthi konke kuncike kumuntu.
I-SPANIDS
Ngokunokwenzeka okukhulu, imizwa ephelele nezinkanuko zikulindile - Spaniards azikwazi ukuthi zihlukile kanjani. Kepha ekuqaleni kobudlelwano, indoda yaseSpain izokhombisa zonke izimfanelo zayo ezinhle kakhulu, konke ukuze uzizwe njengenkosazana, mhlawumbe, ngokwezinga lezothando, amaSpain aphansi kuphela kumaNtaliyane. Yini emnandi kakhulu, indoda izoyihlonipha imingcele yakho, ngakho-ke ngokuqinisekile izobuza igama lakho lesidlaliso ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi ukuze lifunde izintshisekelo zakho ngaphandle kobukhona bakho bangempela. Okufanele uqale ingxoxo ne-Spaniard, ngakho-ke kumayelana nepolitiki, ikakhulukazi uma ungasiqondi lesi sihloko.
Abantu baseFrance
Uma udinga inkululeko ethe xaxa, i-French Cavalier iyindlela ephelele. Amadoda aseFrance ahlonipha isikhala somuntu siqu, esathonya, njengoba sishilo, ukunyakaza kwabesifazane. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akuphazamisi ama-Frenchmans amancane ukukhulula imibono ehlambalazayo, kodwa amadoda ahlala ehumusha ingxoxo ehlaya, ngakho-ke awusoze ube nesikhathi sokucasuka. Noma ungakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano obude bothando, indoda yaseFrance ingaba ngumngane omuhle kakhulu kuwe, okuyohlala iphakamisa isimo somoya, kanye nokutholakale kalula uma uthatha isinqumo sokuyivakashela eholidini.