Wonke umuntu ulungele ukuthola izifiso ezifunwayo yonke imizamo yesithathu. Njengoba kwenzeka: "Akuyena owokuqala ofuna konke futhi ngokushesha nje ukuthwala." Ngeshwa, isifiso akumenzi, kubalulekile ukwenza imizamo ethile, noma kunjalo, isisusa singenye yamaphuzu asemqoka asendleleni eya egoli lakhe. Siphakamisa ukuthola nathi ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukufaka isandla ekumeni okusheshayo komphumela wento eyodwa kuphela.
Indlela eya empumelelweni ngeke iqondiswe ngqo
Yini esiyicabangayo lapho sifuna, ngokwesibonelo, ukuze siphephe ngokwengeziwe? Sicabanga ukuthi singawathola kuphi amathuluzi ngokuqondile (Thola / ufike efeni / ukunqoba, khetha inketho efanelekile), futhi manje wuphendule umbuzo: Ngabe kukhona okwenzekile? Cishe sizaziwa ngalezi zimo, kunoma yikuphi, phakathi kwabantu bakithi. Kepha akufanele uphelelwe yithemba, uma umalume ovikelwe engakubhaleli, phuka ezandleni zakho. Cabanga, ungakuthola kanjani okuningi, kepha ngasikhathi sinye uzisebenzele. Shintsha ukucabanga kwakho ngethemba lempumelelo kungazelelwe kokuthi ungayifinyelela kanjani umgomo wakho. Mhlawumbe unomngane noma umngani osebenza enhlanganweni enkulu noma ehola ibhizinisi lakho owazi mhlawumbe, ingabe ufuna isisebenzi esithembisayo? Ungesabi ukwandisa ama-Horizon futhi ucabange okungekho emthethweni.
Ungabethemba kuphela imicabango
Mhlawumbe lokhu kuzobonakala kusobala, kepha akuwona wonke umuntu obonayo umzuzu olandelayo: Kune-Abyss enkulu phakathi "okucatshangwe ngomphumela" kanye "nokusebenzisa". Yebo, ngaphandle kwesifiso esithandekayo, imicabango yakho ayisebenzi kangako, kepha ngaphandle kwezenzo zakho, zimane nje zisekhanda. Imibono yethu iyimfuneko yokucabanga nokuqaliswa okulandelayo kokukhulelwa, kwakha izimo, kepha umsebenzi empilweni yangempela uyakwazi ukwenza umbono wakho ucishe wabonakala.
Ungesabi ukusebenzisa imicabango enesibindi kunazo zonke
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Izindondo zihlala zinezinhlangothi ezimbili
Umuntu waphuphuthekisa isifiso sakhe, ngandlela thile uqala ukungabaza, ingabe kungenzeka ukuthi walifeze uhlelo futhi uphumelele uma kwenzeka ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile kungenzeki? Eqinisweni, noma ngabe kwenzeka ngokwehluleka, konke kuhamba ngokohlelo lwendawo yonke. Njengoba uvimbela ukufezekiswa kwenhloso, umhlaba uhlola uma ufuna ukuthola lokho okulwa kakhulu. Imvamisa, kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokwehluleka, ukholo luqala ukwehlisa ukholo kuye namandla akhe - umuntu angavele ayeke konke phakathi kwendlela. Uma ngalesi sikhathi ubhekene nento efanayo, akunakuvimba, ungayeki futhi ukholwe emcabangweni wakho kuze kube sekupheleni - ubusuku obumnyama kakhulu bonke ngaphambi kokusa.
Umkhathi uyakuqapha
Kwesinye isikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi umphumela awukwazi ukufeza zonke izindlela ezingenzeka. Futhi lokhu futhi kungukuguquka kwemali okudingeka uzilungiselele. Eqinisweni, kanjalo indawo yonke ingakuvikela kulokho ongakudingi, okungenani awukuqondi lokhu. Futhi nokho indawo yonke ayikwazi njalo ukubhekana nesifiso sethu esingenasici, ngakho-ke asilahli ukholo kuwe namandla akho, kungabonakala kuyisimo esingenathemba.