"Izimfihlo ezinhlanu zokuheha umuntu", "amaqhinga angu-7 ukufundisa i-boss-manipulator", "Izimfihlo eziyi-3 ze-Charm Yabesifazane" nezinye izihloko zingatholakala cishe kuzo zonke izihloko zengqondo. , Omagazini, izindikimba ezinezingqikithi ku-Intanethi zinikela ngomuntu noma inkinga futhi zikwehlise amazinga ezixazululo. "Izindebe zokuphahlazeka, izikrini zamaphutha esimiso, ukumamatheka nokudonsa. Voila - Ungowakho! "
Umzingeli ojwayelekile we-man uzokunqoba umfazi ojwayelekile wokuyenga.
Ngokusobala, enye yezindawo zengqondo yethu - ukunciphisa yonke into kwi-denominator eyodwa - ukudlala nathi ihlaya elinamandla uma kufika esiphethweni somuntu siqu. Kunzima impela ukuhlukana nezixazululo ezijwayelekile, kepha kuvame ukuvumelana nalokhu ngumnikazi wawo kuphela. Yebo, futhi ufuna ngezikhathi ezithile lapho benza konke lapho ukudala umndeni, ngokwesibonelo.
Futhi kuvela ukuthi umlingani womuntu othile wempilo uhlala esihlalweni esiseduze endizeni, esisaphila nomunye umuntu wesifazane, futhi othile usekhona ngesikhathi eside, kodwa waphishekela ngakho, ngoba ikhodi yehhovisi.
Azikho izixazululo zesifanekiso ekutholeni umlingani, azikho izixazululo zethempulethi kwinqubo yesehlukaniso. Kunabantu abanezindawo ezahlukahlukene, ezihlukile, lapho izixhumanisi ziguquka ngezikhathi ezithile. Ukuze ubekezelele izinguquko ezibalulekile, ukukhombisa intando, ubuyekeze amanani akho, uthembeke kubo, noma ngabe akekho umuntu okwaziyo manje - le yindlela yokuveza ubuntu.
Akufanelekile ukwehlisa inkinga yomuntu nesinqumo sayo
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Futhi manje iphupho lamaphupho anamuhla ngakho: "Eqenjini labantu esiqhubeka nohambo oluya kwelinye izwe elithile nezobuchwepheshe, mhlawumbe iJapan. Nginabangani bami simi epulatifomu, futhi ngesitimela siye emotweni ehlukile, siletha i-lifti ekhethekile. Kumele sihambe, sinamathisele ukuhamba kwakho komuntu siqu, bese ilifti lizoletha wonke umuntu emotweni yakhe. Konke kushesha kakhulu futhi kwezobuchwepheshe. Ngitshela umngani wami ukuthi singashelela kuthikithi elilodwa - kumnandi kakhulu.
Siya efweni kanye nentombi. Futhi ilifti alihambi. Sizama futhi - iminyango ivaliwe, futhi ilifti likufanele. Intombi iyasaba, empeleni ifuna ukungena emotweni. Faka amaphepha ayisigidi samathikithi, kepha inqubo inika ukwehluleka. Ngokuzama ngakunye, siyaqonda ukuthi iqiniso ukuthi munye kuphela umuntu ongadlula kwithikithi, ngaphandle kokuba nethuba lokuhlukanisa nanoma ngubani. Futhi lokhu akuyona ukwehluleka, kepha ukubheka kwangempela kwethu phezu kwekhono lokuba munye. "
Ukulala kuwuhlobo lokuhlolisisa kwakhe ngokukhuthazela kwalo ekukhuthazeleni kwalo, ngekhono lokuhlangana nemisebenzi yempilo ephelele, ngokuzimela.
Zonke lezi zinto ezikhohlisayo namathikithi nezintombi zibalekela "thina" esikhundleni se- "i". Kwenzeka lapho kungasekeli ngokwanele. Kubukeka sengathi sindawonye sinamandla. Eqinisweni, ngisho noma sindawonye hhayi "thina". Lona wonke umuntu one "I" wakhe uphila okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile, efakazela okuhlangenwe nakho komunye. Futhi ngenxa yalokho amabutho angaba ngaphezulu.
Isiphetho sakhe sihlukile futhi sikhethekile. Futhi ngaphandle kwami, akekho omunye umuntu ozoletha ukuba aphile.
Ukulala amaphupho anamuhla kuzoba ukwengeza okuhle kwengoma kaVladimir Vysotsky:
"Phakathi kokuncipha kwendlela
Yedwa ake
Phakathi kokungaphenduki komngcele
Eyodwa kimi.
Ongabhukudi futhi amagagasi alala phansi
Manje uNkulunkulu ungumahluleli.
Phakathi kwemigwaqo engafakwanga
Eyokuqala ... '
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