Umzali ngamunye wahlangabezana nesimo lapho lolu hambo olujwayelekile oluya esitolo noma olunye izindaba luphenduke impi yangempela phakathi kwakhe nengane yakhe. Iningi lemama nobaba abanalo ulwazi lokuthi benzeni nokuthi bavikele kanjani i-screech, edonsela ukunaka kwawo wonke umuntu ozungezile. Ngokwemvelo, ngifuna ukuya kuyo yonke imibandela ye-manipulator encane ukuyeka ukubamba ukubukwa okukhohlisayo kwabadlulayo (kumayelana nezimo ingane ephilile futhi kudinga ukunakwa okukhale kakhulu nomsindo). Sinqume ukusiza abazali, ikakhulukazi abasebasha, futhi namhlanje sizozama ukuthola ukuthi kufanele senze kanjani ukusiza kanye nengane, futhi esimweni esingesihle nge-hysteria, engaba njalo.
Ukubekezela, ukubekezela kuphela
Unganaki ngokuphelele ukuhlaselwa kwentukuthelo yengane ngeke kusebenze. Kodwa-ke, lesi akusona isizathu sokuthelela "isimo" sengane, esazi ukuthi ngeke ube nomnakekeli. Yiba nesineke, izingane azikwazi ukulawula imizwa enamandla ebangcola ngezikhathi ezithile. Ingane ayihlali izama ukukukhipha emizweni, kepha kufanele yazi ukuthi umama noma ubaba uzomsiza abhekane nalesi simo, futhi ngeke akhumule ukunganeliseki kwawo.
Hhayi isikhathi sezingxoxo
Sijwayele lokho ekuxhumaneni nabantu abadala, noma yiziphi izingxabano esizixazulula ngempucuko ngezingxoxo ezinde. Ingane ngeke nakanjani ayisebenzi, ikakhulukazi okwamanje lapho ama-hysterics iseqophelweni. Okwamanje amazwi akho ngaye angumsindo wangemuva kuphela. Lindela ingane lapho ingane ithoba phansi futhi izobe isilungele ukubona amazwi akho, uma kungenjalo uzosebenzisa isikhathi sokukholisa, kuqinisa i-hysteria kuphela.
Qiniseka ukuthi ingane ayihluphi lutho olubi
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Akukho ulaka
Into ebi kakhulu ongayenza esimweni esinjalo ukuqala ukubonisa ulaka ukuphendula. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ingane izobona ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo njengokujwayelekile, ngokuzayo uzothola ukwanda kokulahla kwayo, okuzoletha izinkinga ezinkulu ekuguqukeni. Zibambe ezandleni zakho futhi ungadluli! Esikhundleni salokho, hug a baby bese uzama ukuhola / ukuwuthatha indawo lapho ungayithulisa khona futhi akekho okulimazayo.
Sabalalisa ama-whims kanye nobuntwana obumpofu
Ngaphambi kokuthatha izinyathelo, qiniseka ukuthi ingane ayikhathazeki ngempela ngohlobo oluthile olubi lokushisa okuphezulu noma okunye ukuvezwa okungathandeki. Imvamisa, izingane zizama ukufeza ezazo - awuzange uthenge into oyithandayo noma ongazange uyithathe ekukhangeleni kwakho okuthandayo. Kulokhu, kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukukhuthazela kokuthambile - lapho nje lapho uya khona emibandela yengane, kuzokuqonda ukuthi ungakwazi kalula "ukuncenga" lapha ngale ndlela.