Sihlala sinezimo ezibangela imizwa engemihle futhi sisisuse esimweni sokulingana ngokomoya - okufanele ukwenze, okunjalo kuyimpilo. Kwesinye isikhathi asikwazi ukugwema izikhathi ezinjalo, kodwa singafunda ukubhekana kahle nemiphumela yobubi, amagama ahlanganayo anomthelela omubi hhayi kuphela ku-monpor yethu, kodwa futhi nempilo yomzimba.
FISOOLOGIAIST-FOXOLOGIOLOGIOLOGIOLOGIOL, ELING Blogger Larisa Konstantinidi @Lori_Taks:
Ngokuvamile, ubuhlungu bengqondo abantu baqondwa kakhulu kunokomzimba. Nginqume umunwe wami, futhi ngiyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi ngenzeni esimweni esinjalo: hlanza isilonda, ukuphatha i-antiseptic, i-bandage nokunye okusobala. Konke kuyadlula uma wenza okudingekayo inani lezenzo. Futhi yini okufanele uyenze ngobuhlungu lapho uhlukana? Ngobuhlungu bokuthi umama angakuqondi? Ngobuhlungu, lapho ozakwabo, ofunda nabo, ofunda nabo bekukhaphela?
Ngobuhlungu bomsindo kufanelekile ukwenza kanye nokungokwenyama
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Kuyadingeka ukuhlola izinga lobuhlungu balo. Ubuhlungu bungaba yikho okungenzeka ukuthi bakhokhelwe ekhaya - uhlobo oluthile lokulimala noma ukusikwa okuncane, kepha uma ukuqhekeka, ngeke kube khona udokotela lapha. Okufanayo nangobuhlungu obukhulu. Kunezinkinga ezixazululwa kalula ekhishini nentombi, futhi kukhona lezo ezisetshenziselwa uchwepheshe. Kepha, ngeshwa, isihloko sobuhlungu bengqondo saba nzima kakhulu emphakathini wethu. Abantu bavame ukuba nobuso eqinisweni lomkhankaso wesazi sezengqondo noma udokotela wezengqondo, ngoba ukwazi ukuqhamuka amahembe aqondile, amaphilisi kanye nesibhedlela sezengqondo.
Ngobuhlungu obuqotho, kufanelekile ukwenza kanye nokungokwenyama. Uma izinyo lakho libuhlungu, akudingeki ukuthi uphuze ubunombitho Ngochwepheshe, kulula ukuthola izimbangela nokwakheka kobuhlungu, futhi futhi kuqede.
Umphakathi wethu ubekeze kakhulu ingqikithi yobuhlungu obungokomoya
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Nquma ukuza kudokotela kanzima, kepha ngikholwe, uzoba nomuzwa wokuthi ikhwalithi yempilo yakho seyithuthukile. Kubalulekile ukuxhumana nochwepheshe ukuze uqhubeke nokuxazulula izinkinga zakho ngaphandle kwawo, kanye nokwandisa ukuqwashisa, ukuqonda okwenzekayo nawe, nabanye abantu, ukubona ezinye izindlela. Uyakwazi okuzwayo, qaphela zonke izibonakaliso ezivela emzimbeni wakho, futhi lapho ubona wonke umuntu, ngeke uxhumane nemizwa yakho, imicabango, izinhlungu, ungazami ukugijima kwenye indawo. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuxhumana nochwepheshe lapho kudinga ngempela futhi akunazinsizakusebenza.