Ake siqale ngesimo lapho ehamba.
munye. Funda lutho ukulinda . Umgomo "Thola othandweni" - akusho ukuthi ohlangothini lowesifazane ulinde ama-handout ngesimo sokuphendula kwizingcingo nemiyalezo. Zama ukungayi endlini uma eza ukuzovakashela ingane, futhi ezimweni zokubalwa kwakhe "ngenxa yokuqashwa kwakhe" akuthathi imali ezandleni zakhe ezandleni zakhe, kungcono ukuthi wababhalela ekhadini lasebhange. Uma kwenzeka ungahleleli ukusiza, ngincoma ukushintsha i-vector yokucabanga kusuka esihlokweni esithi "Ukuthi Angakwenza kanjani lokhu" ngesihloko esithi "
Zama ukucabanga ukuthi ubona konke okwenzeka kusuka ohlangothini, futhi ngokushesha kuba lula. Ngincoma ukuthumela ingane kunina noma kumngane omuhle weviki amabili noma amathathu, aqoqe zonke izinto zomyeni futhi azinike impilo yesikhathi esedlule. Akuthathi - Fihla itekisi bese uthumela bonke omama bakhe. Ngokuqinisekile uzothatha.
2. Sidinga ukukhala futhi silusizo. Izinyembezi ezinjengamanzi, susa okungasadingeki, ukala izigaba zokuphila komuntu. Noma ngabe i-Iron yakho izodedelwa, ungagodli imizwa nokukhala.
3. Zithembise ukuthi uyaphela, kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi . Ukusuka esweni, eyodwa, kusuka enhliziyweni, kuyaqabukela okutholayo. Ngezinsuku ezinjalo, intombi iyasiza kakhulu ngentando eqinile. Sika isikhathi esengeziwe ngayo, iya ezenzakalweni futhi ujabule ngazo zonke izindlela ezingaba khona, uze ube nesithukuthezi, noma uze uqonde ukuthi imicabango ayisekho i-100%. Futhi uma ucabanga ngaye kaninginingi, ake ungitshele ukuthi i-heroine 'egqokwa umoya': "Ngizocabanga ngakho kusasa." Ngosuku olulandelayo, zitshele okufanayo.
Amandla okuhlukanisa - isayensi nezobuciko, okufanayo nobuciko bokuyenga, ukuqomisana nokunqoba. Ungazikhohlisi. Phinda uziphinda kaningi: "Wahamba," aze ayazi.
Ngize Handred - ungayithululi kuyo. Ungazihluphi ekulahliseni futhi uqale iziqalekiso ngaphezu kosuku olulodwa. Umzamo wokuqhuba imicabango emibi ngokwawo uqobo (ububi, ukuthuka, umona, ukuhaha, inkanuko ebonakalayo).
ezine. Zilayishe ngezinkinga. Udinga ukuba njalo okuthile okumatasa ukuze ushintshe ngempela. Noma yimuphi umsebenzi kufanelekile: Ukuhlelwa kabusha kwefenisha, ukugeza, ukuhlanza jikelele ekhaya. Shaya izitsha ezindala, shaya inceku, yenza umdlalo - umzimba wethiphu ukukhulula umphefumulo.
ezinhlanu. Phonsa wonke amabutho emsebenzini . Impumelelo yenza wonke umuntu akhange. Amadoda athanda ukuphumelela, abethemba, abesifazane abazenzela, abenele, bazwa ukuzimela kwabo kwangaphakathi futhi bazelule - ngakho-ke lo ngumgomo wethu!
6. Yenqaba okumnandi, ama-chops no-ayisikhilimu. Ukwesaba kwakho "Angingithandi" akufanele kuboniswe ezinhlangothini. Hlala futhi uzuze ngokuhlupheka kwakho - Setha kabusha amakhilogremu ambalwa. Isisindo esiqoqiwe esiqoqiwe sikhula ngokushesha, futhi sishiya amashumi eminyaka.
7. Ukuphonsa ngokungadingekile! Musa ukukhala ngezithombe, izincwadi, ususe i-Ember. Kuhle ukuqoqa yonke "yothando lwe-mi-miski" bese uphonsa, ngaphandle kokulula le nqubo uhhafu wonyaka. Yekani ukuhlupheka ngesihloko, njengoba wawunhle embhedeni. Bheka omunye umuntu, okungenani uthandana.
eziyisishiyagalombili. Shintsha isimo. Thatha iholide noma uhambe kude, kumngane ohlala kwelinye idolobha. Okungenani, akekho owaziyo lapho, ungathanda ukuthanda. Umsebenzi: ukuhlala uthule, cula izingoma ezidabukisayo futhi uvungulele kubafana. Into esemqoka ukungazifaki isiphambano ngoba othile wanquma ukukushiya. Nguye kuphela owazizwa elahliwe, hhayi lowo owaziphonsa ngokwazo. Kalula nakakhulu?
Futhi uma uhamba?
Uthando ngomyeni wakhe lwadlula ... isinqumo ngokuhlukana samukelwe! Into esemqoka ukuziqonda ngokwakho ukuthi akukukhathaleli, okukhulu, sachet, kodwa igebe nomyeni wami. Musa esikhundleni ikhanda elilodwa elinye. Ngemuva kokuthi "ukuphuma kwabesifazane" kwabesifazane, kukhona ukufutheka nezinyembezi zendoda elahliwe, futhi ukulahlwa kwezihlobo kwawa wawagagasi! Bangathatha uhlangothi lwakhe. Kungenzeka ukhethe iqhinga elifakazelwe: Izimbali, ukuhamba, indlela yokuziphatha "Ake siqale kuqala". Udinga ufulawa! Uma uhamba, kepha ngaphansi kokucindezelwa kwezithembiso kanye ne-cavity kubuya emuva, khona-ke kuvame ukungakwenzi kube lula, kepha kuhlanganisa isimo kuphela. Khumbula, indawo eshisayo ihlala inethuba lokubuyela ebudlelwaneni obudlule, kepha inqobo nje ukuthi wamchazela ngokusobala izifiso zakho nezicelo zakho, futhi akazange azamukele kuphela, kodwa futhi afaka futhi ahlulwe.
Uma ungaboni ikusasa kulobuhlobo, bese ushiya - hamba! Nonke ninqume futhi wacabanga, futhi oshade naye wethuka, yiba nomusa, kepha uqinile esinqumweni sakho. Awudingi izihlazo ezengeziwe ezinjengokuthi "nonke nichithwe". Nikeza umuntu osondelene naye ithuba lokugcina isithunzi. Mhlawumbe uzokwazi ukuhlala abangane. Akulula, kepha landela isinqumo sakho ngaphandle kwemibandela.
Amagama amathathu asemqoka: Ngiyabonga, ngiyaxolisa futhi ngiyeke.
1. Imicabango ye-fuck? Kunzima ukukhuluma nomyeni wakhe? Umbhalele incwadi. Awukwazi ngisho nokunikela - kunoma yikuphi, ngenkathi ubhale, imicabango iza ngokuhlelekile. Futhi unganikeza, ukhethe umzuzu ofanele. Kuhle - ekugcineni. Kufundza le ncwadi izokwehlisa umoya, futhi imicabango yakhe izothola nethuba lokuphuma ezinxushunxushweni.
Cishe akukhona yini bonke abayofundwa ukujabulisa, kepha kufanelekile iqiniso, ngoba kunjalo? Yini okufanele uyibhale kule ncwadi? Iqiniso kanye neqiniso kuphela, elingashiyi kamuva. "Ngemuva kwalokho" kungenzeka ungaze kwenzeke. Incwadi kumele ibe namagama amathathu: ngiyabonga, ngiyaxolisa futhi ngidedele!
2. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uthandane ngokushesha. Umcabango wokuhlukana weza kuwe ngokushesha, wenza isinqumo sokushiya hhayi okwesikhashana, futhi ngokuqinisekile ngazama ukusungula konke isikhathi eside. Uma ekuboniseni ngokukhanya okuzayo ukuthi uzophila kahle kanjani ngaphandle kwawo, isinyathelo sokuqala sokunqoba. Amanxeba okuzikhohlisa wokuzikhohlisa ngaphezu kwanoma yimaphi amanga. Izibuko ezi-Pink ezirekhodiwe - siya kuqiniso kwanamuhla. Yazi umgwaqo obuyela emuva. Lo mnyango uyindlela eyodwa - kuphela lapho uphuma khona. Futhi khumbula lapho umuntu evala eyodwa - omunye uvuleka. Kwanele ukuhlala ezweni elisunguliwe. Susa wonke amaphupho akho nezifiso zakho ezihambisana nakho.
3. Uma kufanele ukuxhumana naye (usahlala efulethini elifanayo, noma kuvame ukuya ezintweni zami), lalelisisa . Noma ungaqondi okuthile - nakanjani ngizokhumbula amazwi akhe, futhi okucasulayo okuzobhala kangcono, kanye nezenzo ezenzayo noma ezikwenzayo, zingasiza ekubhaleni - kungasiza lapho unikeza i-slack. Khumbula, futhi ngeke uye kumphikisi.
ezine. Ungakopili intukuthelo nokuthuka . Uma ngaphambi kokuba kuvinjelwe, wesaba ukonakalisa ubuhlobo, manje isikhathi sokuyeka ukuhlakulela ngentukuthelo nomuzwa wokuzizwa unecala. Ukulimaza isonhlalo, memezela lokho ozizwa. Unelungelo eliphelele kulo, futhi ngentukuthelo kulula kakhulu ukubiza izinto ngamagama akho.
ezinhlanu. Ngiyaxolisa futhi enze umngane wakho. Kukholakala ukuthi ukube ubusondele ngempela, khona-ke amaphuzu amaningi othintana nawo azoba neminyaka eyishumi ezoba nokwazi ngempilo engeyinhle, injabulo, uthando lwalowo othandwayo, noma ngabe eyizinkulungwane zamamayela .
6. Ungamfimbi okubi : Usuvele uhlukane, futhi isizukulwane sentukuthelo siyokushaya ngokwakho. Lo ngumthetho. Esikhundleni salokho, zithathe ibhizinisi elithile.
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