Lapho abazali bephoqa ingane yabo eya enganeni, bezama ukuhlanganisa amaphupho angenangqondo noma bamvikele emaphutheni, benza insizakalo yebhere. Ngikholwe, ngisho nangaseminyakeni engu-16-18 ubudala, ingane yakho isivele yanele umuntu ongakwazi ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo wezinqumo ezenziwe. Indima yomzali ekukhetheni umsebenzi ukunikeza izeluleko ezingahlaleli nokusekelwa kunoma yisiphi isithembiso. Siyangitshela ukuthi kuzokusiza ukunikeza izincomo ezikhohlisayo.
Cabanga ngokuzilibazisa
Bheka ukwedlula ingane ethanda ukuyenza. Mhlawumbe wapenda bonke ubuntwana noma waya kumbuthano wobuciko? Ikhwalithi yohlamvu nemikhuba yakhelwa kusukela ebuntwaneni, ngakho-ke indlela yokuzilibazisa yathinta ngqo lowo muntu. Chess ukuthuthukisa ukucabanga okunengqondo nokuphikelela, ukudansa - amakhono okuxhumana kanye nekhono lokuba yithemba kunoma yisiphi isimo, ukucula - amandla okuhlala emphakathini futhi uziveze. Hlala ndawonye nengane bese ubhala phansi zonke izinhlangothi ezinhle nezinhle zobuntu bakhe eshidini, bese ucabanga ukuthi yibunye ubungcweti obuhambisana nalo.
Izinto zokuzilibazisa zizokusho ngaphezu kwezifiso ezingenangqondo
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Phatha izivivinyo zokuqondisa umsebenzi
Ukusiza izingane zithathe isinqumo somsebenzi wesikhathi esizayo, izazi zezengqondo zesikole zisebenzisa izivivinyo ezikhethekile. Ngesikhathi sonke, kuneziphetho ngohlobo lomlingiswa, izinga lobuhlakani, lakhiwa ikakhulukazi yi-hemisphere yobuchopho kanye nokuthandwa ngumuntu. Ngokwemiphumela yokuhlolwa, isazi sezengqondo senza izincomo zabaphothuli kulokho obuthi angenzeke njengochwepheshe. Uma izehlakalo zokuholwa nguchwepheshe azibanjwanga esikoleni, kuyadingeka ukubhalisela izivivinyo eyunivesithi noma enkabeni yokuqeqeshwa okuthuthukile - kukhona othisha ukuhlaziya othisha be-Psyche yengane.
Naka inqubo
Lapho siphishekela ukwakheka okuhlonishwayo kososayensi bezepolitiki noma udokotela ohlinzayo, kungenzeka ungaphawuli okusobala. Isibonelo, isikhathi esingakanani ingane yakho ichitha emidlalweni yamakhompiyutha noma kanjani ukuhlela amaqembu amakhulu abangani. Okwamanje, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zinethemba lokuthi lo msebenzi ongcono kakhulu nguyena ofanelana nempilo ejwayelekile yempilo. Naka ubuchwepheshe besimanje - uchwepheshe we-SMM, umhleli wezinhlelo, umgqugquzeli womcimbi, umqeqeshi nabanye. Imvamisa bangaletha imali ethe xaxa kunomsebenzi ojwayelekile we-Economist noma i-accountant. Khuluma nabangane bengane, othisha bakhe kanye nezihlobo zakhe eziseduze: ngokuqinisekile, ngamunye wabo wabona ukuthi ezinye zezici ezizohlolisisa isinqumo esifanele.
Qaphela ukuthi wenza nsuku zonke
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Ukuxubana okuhlukile kochwepheshe
Uma indlalifa yakho iyahlanya kufulawa oyikhethile phakathi kobungcweti obukhulu, baphakamisela ukuthi baqale bobabili. Kunezinketho ezimbili lapha: I-Internship ngokukhethekile ngakunye nokukhethwa kokuphela kokukhethwa kukho, noma ukuhlanganisa i-Quarry. Isibonelo, ingane ifuna ukuba yintatheli kanye nohlelo ngasikhathi sinye. Kunengqondo ukuthi ufunde ukufundela uhlelo ukuze ukwazi ukwenza ingxenye yezobuchwepheshe, kepha ngokufana nokuzijwayeza izindatshana zokubhala. Ukuhlanganisa ubuchwepheshe obubili, umuntu uba yingcweti yephrofayili emincane futhi uhamba emgodini ovundlile wokuthuthukiswa kwamakhono. Lona umkhuba ongenakuphikiswa wekusasa, ozosebenza esandleni sakho.