Esikhathini esingu-40 sokuthola kuphela umfutho, kepha iminyaka eyishumi edlule idinga ushintsho. Vumelana, kumnandi kakhulu ukukhumbula okwenzile, futhi hhayi ngokuphuthelwa, ngakho-ke ngichitha isikhathi futhi ngikwazi ukufeza okwakho, kodwa kuyadingeka ukucabanga kabusha ngempilo yakho ukuze kungabikho izinkinga okufanele zime ngendlela yakho .
Thola impilo yakho
Eminyakeni engama-20 ngandlela thile awucabangi ngokweqiniso ngalokho ongakudla, futhi yini ongakwazi, ungalala amahora ambalwa ngosuku futhi uthule ngokuphelele ekuseni. Ngokuya ngesimo somzimba, ungaphila kalula kule modi kuze kube yiminyaka engama-30. Kodwa-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, le ndlela yokuphila ngokuqinisekile izoba semkhathini omkhulu kakhulu, futhi izifo ezincane zingakhula zibe zingapheli.
Noma ungazizwa ukhula, buyekeza Ukudla kwakho: Susa inani elikhulu kasawoti noshukela, unikele ufulawa, vumela isijwayelekile ukuba sibe ukusetshenziswa kwezithelo nemifino entsha yesizini.
Futhi thatha umthetho wokulala ungakapheli phakathi kwamabili ukuze umzimba ululame ekuseni.
Ubudala - isibalo nje
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Inhlala-kahle yezezimali hhayi endaweni yokugcina
Amathiphu avela endaweni "Phila ngolunye usuku ntambama", "Manje noma ungalokothi" uyasebenza futhi anengqondo iminyaka engama-20-30, kepha ngemuva kwama-40 kufanelekile ukucabanga ukuthi uzothatha kuphi imali uma uyothatha kuphi uma kwenzeka kunesimo esiphuthumayo.
Ngisho nenani elincane ozolithumela njalo ngenyanga, lizoba "umcamelo wokuphepha" onokwethenjelwa "ecaleni lapho kungekho ongakusiza, ngaphandle kwakho.
Umndeni uyinto ebaluleke kunazo zonke, kepha hhayi konke okuqondayo lokhu
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Veza ubudlelwane obungalethi ukwaneliseka
Ngaphezu kwalokho, akukhona nje ngendoda noma umlingani wesikhashana: ukufaka ubuthi empilweni yakho kungaba ngubani, eqala ngezihlobo ezonakalisayo, futhi uphela nabangane abagqugquzela ubunzima bokuphansi. Khumbula, uma okuthile kungakufaneli kumuntu, awuphoqelekile ukuba ubekezelele, noma imuphi umthelela empilweni yakho. Uma kunzima ukunquma ngesinyathelo esibucayi kangako, funa usizo kudokotela wezengqondo ozosebenza nawe isimo ukuze ukwazi ukuthatha isinqumo esifanele.
Zinikeze isikhathi esithe xaxa
Manje sikhuluma nge-egoism enempilo, eyayingenayo abesifazane abaningi. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, ufunda ebuntwaneni ukuze uphendule, imvamisa sibeka izifiso zabanye ngaphezu kwezethu. Wena futhi wanikeza abantu abaningi ezimpilweni zethu, manje sekuyisikhathi sokuhamba nokuqonda okufunayo.
Ungenqabe izinto zakho zokuzilibazisa
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Into ebaluleke kakhulu umndeni wakho
Kuyiqiniso, ukuhamba nabangane, umsebenzi kanye nokuzilibazisa kuletha umuzwa wokweneliseka kwasekhaya futhi ngaphandle kwabo kuyaba khona, kepha kunoma yisiphi isimo izidingo zomndeni wakho kufanele zime endaweni yokuqala. Noma ngabe uhlele iholide le-chic, iminyaka embalwa isigcinile kulo, isimo esingathandeki kungenzeka ngaso leso sikhathi osizayo osidingayo, asikho isikhathi sokuhamba nokuzijabulisa. Ngeshwa, abanye abantu bayakuqonda sekwephuze kakhulu.