Akunandaba ukuthi uzwakala kanjani ngokucekela phansi, kepha umamezala we-surrogate ngumkhuba weminyaka yamuva. Basho ukuthi amadoda anenhlonipho aya ngokuya anenhlonipho ngokubhaliswa endaweni ye-rublevo-aususut Highway, kule ndlela yokuvela ekukhanyeni kokuzalwa kwe-CHAD. Futhi yini, zonke izinzuzo zisobala. Ngokushintshana ngemali eqinile, bathola indlalifa elifanelekile - futhi azikho izinkinga nomkakhe, uma kungazelelwe impilo yomndeni ingahle ibekwe. Ngemuva kwakho konke, njengoba wazi, iphupho elibi lanoma yimuphi umnikazi wenhlokodolobha eliqinile yizinkantolo zelungelo lokugcinwa kwezingane. Futhi imali yalezi zindleko ichithwa kakhulu kunokuba umama we-surrogate (ngaphandle kwamathemba, ifa kanye nokuhlambalaza) kwasiza. Njengabantu bebhizinisi, ama-oligarchs aya ngokuya ethambekele ekukhetheni kwesibili. Kuyacaca ukuthi bakhetha amagama abo ekuvikelekeni. Kepha osaziwayo, abajwayele ukukhumbula, bakhulume ngokuzithandela ngosizo lomama abavumayo. Baqinisekile: Ukuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kungasiza izinkulungwane zeminye imindeni ezingxenyeni ezihlukene zomhlaba ziba ngabazali naphezu kwazo zonke izimo.
Umlando Wemfashini
Eqinisweni, ukukhulelwa kwe-surrogate kwazi cishe ngezikhathi zasendulo. Ubuye watshela umhlaba ngendaba ngeStrathonik, eyayingakwazi ukuzala izindlalifa kumyeni wakhe ukudla. Futhi wabe esephakamisa inketho yokuyekethisa: khetha phakathi kwesancinza esihle kakhulu futhi wakhulelwa ingane kuye. Ejabule ngokuzinikela okunjalo, uDaeotar wanikeza lowo oshade naye ukunquma ilungelo lokuba ngunina ngokuba ngunina wezingane zakhe. Ngakho-ke omunye omama bokuqala abasebenza nge-surrogate baba i-electroni, amahhovisi akhuliswa yi-strathonik njengeyabo.
ERoma lasendulo, kwakukhona amacala lapho abayeni bakhe benikeza omkabo abathandani abangenazithelo. Le ngane ivele kulolu ntathu olungamangalisayo yayithathwa njengendlalifa esemthethweni kulombhangqwana. Futhi kwelinye lamathempeli amadala aseNdiya, iFresco igcinwe, etshela ukuthi uhlobo lonkulunkulu luhlupheka kanjani ingane, ikusasa leqhawe elikhulu, kusukela esibelethweni sesithombe esisesibelethweni.
Isakhamuzi sase-Illinois elizabeth umoba waba ngumama wokuqala osemthethweni we-surrogate. Ngo-1980, wakhuthazelela ingane ngowesifazane oyinyumba (igama lakhe lasala engaziwa) futhi ngomholo ofanelekile wezezimali wayinika amakhasimende.
Phakathi kwabantu bezinkanyezi, iphayona elikule ndawo lingabhekwa njengoMlingisi ogqamile uRobert de Niro. Ngokubambisana nentombi yakhe, imodeli yase-Afrika yaseMelika yaseTuku Smith, waphendukela usizo kunyoko ongenamandla. Kuyiqiniso, iGemini Julian HENRY no-Aaron Kendrick bavela ekukhanyeni ngemuva kokuhlukana nalo mbhangqwana. Okungaphazamisi abathandi bangaphambili bangcwele futhi bazazisa izindlalifa zabo. Namuhla abafana base bevele beneminyaka eyishumi nesikhombisa, futhi bakhetha indlela yabo empilweni. Ngendlela, uRobert de Niro, owayehlala ephupha ngomndeni omkhulu, ngonyaka owedlule waphinde waphendukela ezinkonzweni zomama we-surrogate. Yena nonkosikazi wakhe abakhona, umfazi ophakeme wazalwa ebenendodakazi, yimuphi uHelen Grace Higneauer de nino. Lo mbhangqwana usuvele unendodana eyishumi nane ka-Elliot, futhi abashadikazi babefuna izingane ngempela. Kepha njengoba iminyaka yomusa yayingavunyelwe ukukwenza, ngakho-ke, ngendlela yendabuko (ngonyaka angqongqoza amashumi ayisithupha), kwanqunywa ukuthi asebenzise enye indlela.
Umbhangqwana obamba iqhaza uSarah Jessica Parker noMathewu Broderick eminyakeni emithathu edlule, nabo bakhetha ukukhetha ukuthandwa kwe-surma. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amaqiniso abashade ayengakufihla ikakhulukazi emphakathini. Emishisekelweni, yabizwa nangokuthi igama labasizi labo "- laliyi-MICHEL CASTERY EMERICAN CERIME American Ross. Kuliqiniso, i-paparazzi ecasulayo ngokushesha yaphana konke: Kwathi lapho beyilandela intombazane empofu, bebheka imininingwane emisha ngokwengeziwe yempilo yakhe. Kepha nokho wakufeza umsebenzi wakhe. NgoJuni 2009, amantombazane-amantombazane amantombazane uMarion Loretta elvell neTabitali Hodge bavele. "Bajwayelane nezingane, esikhundleni sokuzalela, kwakufana nokuhamba kancane," wahlanganyela kamuva nomphathi womphakathi. - Kwabonakala kimi ukuthi umhlaba wawunyamalala isikhashana. Ngikhumbula kuphela ingubo lapho izingane zilala khona, kanye nobuso bomyeni wami nendodana endalo. " Ngale ndlela, ngendodana endala: Manje uJames Willow usevele ucishe abe neminyaka eyishumi, ungumntwana wokuqala kaSara uJessica noMathewu, ezalwa ngendlela ejwayelekile. Imibhangqwana yomndeni kanye nezingane ezilandelayo ngabe zenze uhlelo olufanayo, kodwa yonke imizamo yokuParker yakhulelwa ngeze. USarah uthi: "Besilokhu siphupha ngokuba nezingane eziningi. - Bengazi ukuthi imibuzo eminingi izowa kimi: "Kungani ungazange wamukele? Kungani kungenzeki? Kungani ungakwenzanga? "Ngikholwe, mina nomyeni wami sabheka wonke amathuba, futhi le ndlela ingeyakuqala ohlwini lwethu."
UNicole Kidman neKit Urban namadodakazi nama-sanday rose. Photo: Rex Izici / Fotodom.ru.
Isimo esifanayo noNicole Kidman nomlingani wakhe, ikhekhe lomculi lasedolobheni. Kuliqiniso, ngokungafani neParker nge-bridrider, babambe isikhathi eside emfihlo yokuthi ukuphindisela kabusha bekuza emndenini wabo. Futhi kuphela lapho uMargaret wabo we-Babe Margaret wavela emhlabeni ngoDisemba 28, 2010, wabelana ngenjabulo emhlabeni wonke. Ukuthintana nezinsizakalo zomama we-surrogate nabo baphoqa isidingo. U-Kidman wabeletha ngokushesha ngokwanele okokuqala ngqa: Indodakazi yakhe endala uSandey Rose wazalwa lapho umlingisi esevele eneminyaka engamashumi amane. Iphefumlelwe ngu-Nicole iminyaka embalwa yazama kakhulu ukukhulelwa. Futhi-ke abashadikazi bakhumbula ezinye izinketho. "Igama lokholo (okusho ukuthi" ukholo ") sanikeza babe nengozi. Yize kunjalo, ukholo kuphela esisisize sonke isikhathi lapho sasilindele ukubonakala kwengane. "
Isizungu Segazi
Omama abavame ukuvumelanisa abantu abanesizungu nje, kepha bomile ngobuhlakani. Ngakho-ke, i-World Football Star Cristiano Ronaldo ngonyaka ka-2010, phakathi kweNdebe Yomhlaba wonke eNingizimu Afrika, yaqala uyise wendodana yakhe, yabizwa nguCristiano Ronaldo JR. Ngaleso sikhathi, umsubathi usevele wahlangana noxhumano lwezothando ne-compatriot yethu, imodeli ye-Irina Shake. Ngakho-ke, ekuqaleni, ekuqaleni izindaba eziphathelene nokuvela kwendlalifa kwaRonaldo ziboshwe ngegama lakhe. Cha. Kuyavela ukuthi ngisho nangaphambi komhlangano nobuhle be-Ural, umsubathi "wayala" ingane kamama evukile kuye, ebeka yona engeyona eyeshumi (ngokusho kwamazinga eRussia) Inani lama-dollar ayizigidi eziyishumi. Kungangeza omama bethu, okhule basekhaya okhule be-surrogate, bekungasenza ukusindisa! Kepha, njengoba kwabezindaba babhale, ngakho-ke umdlali webhola ubanikise ubumfihlo obuphelele. "Sinesivumelwano esivumelana nonina wengane yethu ukuthi ngiligcina lisho igama lakhe. Futhi sesivumile ukuthi ngizoba ngukuphela komzali okhulayo futhi ephakamisa le ngane. "
Umthwebuli wezithombe odumile u-Annie Leibovitz waba ngumama eneminyaka engamashumi amahlanu nambili, ebeletha indodakazi kaSara Cameron. Kuphela ngabangane abaseduze, wabe esehlanganyela, ukuthi hlobo luni lwenjabulo olungazinikelanga ezikhathini zezithombe, kodwa nasekukhuliseni ingane. Futhi ngemuva kweminyaka emine, umthwebuli wezithombe owaziwa kakhulu wanquma ukuphendukela ku-Surrogate Mama, ngaleso sikhathi wayengasakwazi ukuzala. NgoMeyi 2005, kwazalwa uSamuel noSusan Twin. Mayelana nalo mcimbi, umphakathi jikelele wafunda ngandlela thile okuvamile, cishe ngengozi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, leibhovitz, enobungane nosaziwayo bezwe, ngokwakhe bakhetha ukuhlala kude nama-sophist akhazimulayo. Nokho, ngemuva kokuba ngumama omkhulu, cishe wayeka ukuvela phambi kwabantu. "Angizizwa ngingeyena umthwebuli wezithombe odumile, kodwa umqondisi wekamu lasehlobo, ngasizathu simbe waqala ukusebenza unyaka nonyaka."
Eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, ngonyaka ka-2002, iNdodana yazalelwa eMichael Jackson, obize uPrinceli Michael II. Ushiye wedwa ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, wanquma ukuthi lesi akusona isizathu sokuyeka amaphupho ukuba abe nezingane eziningi. UJackson wabe esevunywa kwizintatheli: Lapho efuna umuntu ofanelekile endimeni kamama we-surrogate, waqondiswa yipharamitha eyodwa - ubuhlakani bayo. Zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezithi "izinto ezincane" ezifana nobudala, ubuzwe kanye nokunye, ngaphandle kwalokho akunandaba. Yini futhi? Intokazi ayikhetha, kamuva yaxosha inkosi ngesihluku. Wazama ukuqinisekisa umama wayo enkantolo, futhi ngasikhathi sinye wafuna inani elithi "elinesizotha" ngamadola ayizigidi eziyinkulungwane kanye nethuba lokubona indodana kathathu ngesonto. Umculi wenqabile ukuqaphela i-billy gin (lona wesifazane yinto yokuhlangana! - Ugqoke igama elifanayo negama leMegahit yaseJackson) Umama wendodana encane. Kwabonakala sengathi kuvaliwe. Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kokufa kweNkosi ye-Pop, le nto yaphinde yamenyezelwa - ngesidingo esilandelayo sokumnika ingane, futhi ngasikhathi sinye umthetho wokugada phezu komfana. Kepha kulokhu akaphumelelanga.
URicky Martin wazala amawele ama-Twin Boys Matteo naseValentino ngo-Agasti 2008. Ubuye abavusa yedwa. Ngenxa yezingane, uMartin wacindezela umsebenzi wakhe ngemuva futhi wazinikele ngokuphelele kubathengisi. Ngokusho kwamahemuhemu, izingane zakhuthazelela uKuzina Ricky. Yize umculi ngokwakhe eqoqelwe engxoxweni eyodwa athola umama we-surrogate ... ngokwekhathalogu futhi akakaze ahlangane naye. "Lapho izingane zami zingibuza ukuthi umama wazo, ngizonichazela yini ukuthi akuyona yonke imindeni equkethe ubaba nomama," kusho yena ngokuziqhenya. - Kweminye imikhaya, izingane ziphakamisa omama ababili noma obaba ababili, futhi kukhona imindeni lapho kuphela ubaba noma umama oyedwa engeyena wonke. " Ngendlela, umculi wayesesho ukuthi isinyathelo sakhe esilandelayo kungaba ukwamukelwa kokunye, noma ngisho nezingane eziningana.
U-Alena Apina nendodakazi Knusyasha. Photo: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
Indlela enolwazi
Yize eRussia evunyelwanga umamazela umaoma futhi kuvunyelwe ngokusemthethweni, ekusebenzeni, le nto ayithuthukisiwe kakhulu. Ngokusho kwemininingwane yakamuva, ezweni lethu, cishe abantu abangamakhulu ayisithupha baphendukela ezinkonzweni zomama abavumayo. Ukuqhathanisa: eMelika, inani labo liyizinkulungwane eziyishumi (!) Ngonyaka.
Kodwa-ke, sinababili labanye baphendukela kwenye indlela yokuba ngabazali. Omunye wakulokuqala ukumtshelwa ngakho kulo mculi u-Alena Apina nomkhiqizi wakhe u-Alexander Iratov. Kwakungaphezu kweminyaka eyishumi edlule, ngo-2001, kwathi ukuqashelwa okunjalo kwenza umphumela webhomu eliphukile. Abaningi ngaphandle kokukhathala bacaphuna amazwi omculi, bamangaze ubuhlakani bakhe. Ngisho nasesigabeni sokulinda ingane, u-Alena waxoxa ngezinhlobonhlobo ezithile futhi wachaza isinqumo sakhe: "Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngachitha inyanga eyodwa ezibhedlela futhi ngazi kahle ukuthi bangaki abesifazane abahlushwa ukuzala. Isibonelo sami sizobakhombisa ukuthi akuyona yonke into elahlekile. " Futhi lokhu yize iqiniso ukuthi kuboniswe izifundo eziningi: bobabili u-Alena uqobo, nomyeni wakhe baphilile ngokuphelele. Kepha lapha awuzange ubanikeze ingane yengane, yilokho. "Abanye ezimweni ezinjalo bawela ezingcupheni: Bathi, lo nguNkulunkulu ngokuthile okujezisiwe. Kepha ngangazi ukuthi anginayo izono: Angizange ngithathe umyeni wami komunye umndeni, angizange ngishiye izingane ngaphandle kobaba ... "
Omunye umngani osebenze njengodokotela edolobheni lesifundazwe wasiza u-Alena ukuba athole umama we-surrogate. Owesifazane onemfundo ephakeme, umama wezingane ezimbili, wayedinga imali ngempela. Ukukhulelwa konke mama kuhlala kuye, kude nomsindo waseMoscow. U-Alena waphupha mathupha ukuthi ahambele umntwana, futhi lapho izivumelwano zindiza zandizela edolobheni laseN. Kepha ... indiza yafika sekwephuze amahora amabili ngaphambi kokuba umculi abesenesikhathi sokuthola esibhedlela. Masinyane nje emva kokuzalwa, umama we-surrogate nentombazane bavuvuswe ngamakamelo ahlukene. Ngendlela, umlingani ka-Alena ngokuyisisekelo asizange ajwayelane nalona wesifazane: "Ngani? Ngifuna ukuhlanganisa ingane yami kuphela nomkami. "
Izingane u-Olga Slutcker, abasubathi abadumile kanye nabanikazi benethiwekhi yamakilabhu okuqina, nabo bazalwa ngomama abavumayo. Okokuqala, indodana kaMikhail yavela emhlabeni, ngemuva kweminyaka emihlanu - ndodakazi. Kulokhu, uSlurker kwadingeka ukuthi adlule olwandle, eMelika: Ngaleso sikhathi eRussia, umamezala we-surrogate wayeyinto enhle kakhulu. Lapho, wahlangana naye mathupha owesifazane owavuma ukukhuthazela ingane yakhe. Kamuva, u-Olga wawukhona ekubhaleni kwengane, wabe esengumlingani osemthethweni uVladimir uqobo wasika ubungqingili.
Kepha-ke, izingane ezidume kakhulu ezivela kuMama we-surrogate zizokhula noFiliphu Kirkorov. NgoNovemba nyakenye wazalwa yindodakazi, eyabizwa ngokuthi yi-Alla Victoria, nakuleli hlobo - indodana, ogama lakhe umculi asaqhubeka namfihlo. Ngokuvamile, uFiliphu, imvamisa ukukhuluma okunjalo, kwaphenduka umuntu ngokungazelelwe ukuba abe yindoda engagcina izimfihlo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, yena kuze kube yilapho umzuzu wokugcina efihlekile kukho konke iqiniso ukuthi waphendukela ezinkonzweni zomama e-surrogate.
Umphakathi, njengoba bekulindelekile, waphendula ngokuqinile. Abanye bathokozela ngobuqotho umculi, abanye bawa ngeziqalekiso. "Kuwo wonke umhlaba waseNtshonalanga, Ukuba ngumama we-surrogate kuyinto yokudlala yabadala abacebile. Isonto ngokumelene nendlela enjalo yokuvela ngengane. Yisono! " - I-peacon andrei kuraev ibithukuthele yabezindaba.
UNicole Kidman neKit Urban namadodakazi nama-sanday rose. Photo: Rex Izici / Fotodom.ru.
Ngempela, ohlwini lwezinkanyezi, zinqume ukuba ngabazali ngosizo lomama ovumayo, kukhona nalabo uKurayi Kurayv abhalwe ngalo. Yebo, hhayi yena kuphela. Izazi zezengqondo ziphinde zikhungathekile: Liyini ikusasa lezingane emindenini yocansi olufanayo? Kepha abazali abasanda kusha abalaleli muntu futhi bajabulele injabulo yobaba (kanye nokuba ngumama ngasikhathi sinye?). Ngakho-ke, u-Elton John kanye nomlingani wakhe uDavid Fernish ukhula indodana kaZakari Jackson Livon. Le ngane kwavela ukunemba kukaKhisimusi - isipho esinjalo safika eholidini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mbhangqwana uqobo wahambela ukuzala ingane wabuka umzuzu ngamunye wale nqubo engaqondakali. "Ewadini sasukuma eduze kombhede. Okokuqala, kwavela inhloko yendodana yethu emhlabeni, khona-ke konke kwenzeka ngokushesha okukhulu. Kwabonakala ngathi kithina ingane iphuma njenge-rocket. Awucabangi ngisho nokuthi kwakujabulisa kanjani! "
Vele, umphakathi usasola ngale nto. Ngokungezelela ohlangothini lokuziphatha kwecala kunezinto eziningi zengqondo, imiphumela yazo engakafundwanga. Ngakho-ke, kuyaziwa ukuthi ingane icishe isuka ezinsukwini zokuqala zokukhulelwa, ukuhlakanipha, izizwa isimo sikanina, injabulo yayo nosizi. Futhi isayensi ayikwazanga ukuphendula umbuzo wokuthi ingane izothinta kanjani i-psyche umuntu wesifazane omshayayo ungowakhe njengendawo yokuthengisa. Kuncishwa oxhumana naye wokuqala, obalulekile emzimbeni onjalo ngomama wezinto eziphilayo ngokushesha ngemuva kokubeletha. Akafaki umntwana esifubeni sakhe, akabuzwa iphunga lesikhumba sakhe. Ngokushesha ungena ekunakekelweni, izihlobo, kepha namanje "izandla zesithathu"
Kodwa-ke, kwenye inkomishi yesikali, ibutho lonke lemindeni engenazingane, ephupha ngokulangazela ukuba ngumama nobaba. Ngokusho kwezibalo, cishe amaphesenti amabili emibhangqwana eshadile awanawo ikhono lemvelo lokuzalwa kwezingane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izizathu ezivame ukungazali zazo azifakiwe, ngoba kuzo zonke izinkomba bobabili abazali baphilile ngokuphelele. Futhi umankulu we-surrogate kubo ukuphela kwethuba lokuba nezindlalifa. Vumela nendlela enjalo engajwayelekile neyimpikiswano.