Uma ucabanga ngokuhamba nokwesaba, khona-ke okungenani kunomuntu oyedwa oguqula indawo yakho yokuhlala akulula - lo ngumngane wakho oseduze. Ukuhlukanisa nabantu obathandayo, noma ngabe sithembisa ukubona kaningi, kusanzima kakhulu. Kepha ngeke kulimaze ukubakhumbuza ukuthi ufuna ukuhlala eduze kwakho futhi ulondoloze ubungani, naphezu kokwehluka kwendawo. Thola izindlela zokuvuma ukuthi kungcono kanjani ukukwenza - ngikutshele ngabo kulokhu okuqukethwe.
Ungakhulumi kuphela ngemiyalezo yombhalo noma amanethiwekhi omphakathi.
Kulezi zinsuku, imilayezo yombhalo iyindlela yokuxhumana ngokuzenzakalelayo. Kulula kakhulu, ngoba cishe akunakwenzeka ukwaba isikhathi socingo uma usunezinhlelo eziqinile futhi kukhona imindeni. Kepha imilayezo kuphela ayikwazi ukusiza kuphela uma uzama ukuhlala usondelene komunye nomunye. I-SMS isebenza kahle ukuxhumana bukhoma, kepha ungakuthathi indawo. maqondana
Ubudlelwano badinga ngocingo, izingcingo zevidiyo nokunye okuningi ukuze uhlale uthintana. Thatha ifoni, yabela usuku lokushaya ucingo futhi ugcine umuntu azi impilo yakho yansuku zonke.
Ungayenzi umona inkampani yomngane omusha
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Ungabangenzi ubungani obusha
Umngani wakho uzovela nakanjani ama-buddies edolobheni elisha. Zama konke okusemandleni ethu ukuzizwa ungenabungane ngabo. Uma umngani ekhuluma ngomhlangano nenkampani entsha, thokozela bona, ngoba bathola umuzwa womphakathi lapho sebehlala khona manje. Futhi-ke, ungadabuki lapho uhlangana nentombi entsha yomngane wakho: Kunendawo empilweni yakhe. Uma ufika futhi uhlangane nalaba bantu, ungaphikisi ukuthi ungcono kangakanani owazi umngane ojwayelekile kunabo, kuyamangaza futhi kuyamangaza. Funa okufana nalokho okufana ngakho nabangane abasha bomngane wakho. Bheka kufana nalokhu: Umngani wakho unokunambitheka okuhle kubantu futhi leli yithuba lokukhulisa umbuthano wabo wokuxhumana.
Thembeka uma ungazi ukuthi ubhale kanjani imiyalezo
Ingabe ungomunye walabo abathanda ubuhlanya kuqala lapho uphendula imiyalezo? Umngani wakho mhlawumbe uyakwazi lokhu, kepha akamvimbeli ukuba angamkhumbuli ukuthi ukusabela kancane akusho ukuthi umphatha kanjani. Ngokweqiniso, ngilindele ngamunye kini. Uma kunzima ukubhala imiyalezo ejwayelekile, bhala phansi imiyalezo yezwi noma uthumele i-meme - yini engasekeli ukuxhumana?
Namanje bebamema yonke indawo
Yebo, wena kanye nomngani wakho wabelana ngamakhilomitha, kepha ungayeki imizamo ukubamema emcimbini obalulekile. Abangani balimele kakhulu lapho uqala ukuhlela okuthile - ngokwesibonelo, iphathi ye-bachelorette - futhi ungabafaki ohlwini ngenxa yezaba. I-imeyili elula lapho kushiwo khona ukuthi uyakuqonda lokho ngenxa yezindleko noma okunye okungenzeka ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukuya, kepha usafuna ukubamema, kubaluleke kakhulu. Kubonisa ukuthi umngani wakho omkhulu akanyamalali, futhi namanje wayethandwa.
Ukuhlelwa kohambo lonyaka
Imihlangano yansuku zonke yenkomishi yekhofi ayisazukubunxenxa, ngakho-ke isinxephezele ngokuhlela uhambo oluningana olukhulu. Hlela ukuvakasha kwempelasonto yamantombazane noma abafana, okuzoba yisiko lonyaka. Mhlawumbe uya endaweni ethile emnandi minyaka yonke, ngokwesibonelo, e-Ayia Napu noma eLas Vegas, futhi usebenzise ibanga njengethuba lokuqala isiko elisha lokuhamba elijabulisayo.
Uhambo lwaminyaka yonke luzoba yisiko elihle.
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Zikhumbuze ukuthi ukuxhumana kwakho kungashintshi
Ukuhlangana mathupha, zama ukungakhathazeki kakhulu ngokuthi uzoba nzima yini. Ubudlelwano besikhathi eside, abahlukanisehlukene bufana kakhulu nokugibela ibhayisekili: ngokushesha nje lapho ufunda ukujabulela inkampani yomngane, kulula ukubuyela esigqilini sangempela lapho usempilweni yangempela. Ubungani obuhle kakhulu yilena elibonakala sengathi awuphuthelwa umzuzwana, lapho kunesikhathi sezinyanga ezimbalwa noma iminyaka phakathi kokuvakasha. Udinga nje ukuba necebo elivumela okulindelwe.