Ungachaza i-daffodium ekhabethe lakhe? Mhlawumbe yize kungenjalo empeleni ukuthi ungacabanga. Abantu baseNarcissical, kungakhathalekile ukuthi banqotshwa yini ukuxilongwa emtholampilo, bangabonakala 'ezifanekisweni zempumelelo', nezindlela zokuhlobisa ezibizayo, kodwa futhi bangakhombisa ukuthi bahlole isizotha sabo ngokomzwelo kanye nezisusa zabo . Izifundo zichaza i-psychology yalokhu kungahambisani.
I-Flash ekhanyayo noma ephansi kusho okuningi?
Ama-daffodils amaningi athanda ukuba yisizinda sokunakwa - futhi azodonsela ukunaka ngosizo lwezingubo ezikhanyayo, ubunikazi obuhlanganayo nokubukeka okuhle. Ngokuvumelana nalokhu, sivame ukuwabheka ngokuya ngemikhiqizo ye-design kanye nezesekeli ezibizayo, noma kungekho lapho kungabikho ukuziphatha okuhle, njengokuthambekela kobugovu noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko noma uthando lwezibuko. Kepha lapho sisebenzisa izingubo kanye nemidwebo emfashini e-psychoanalysis ukwahlulela ubuntu, sizibeka engcupheni ubuntu obuhle kakhulu nokuphana kwabantu abafuna futhi singakwazi ukukhokhela ikilasi elikhethekile le-narcissus, okuyilo wenza ukuzikhangiswa ngokwakho ngokusebenzisa isilayidi samasiko esikhundleni.
I-Narcissus iyathanda ukuheha ukunakwa
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UHannah Tire noNara Yun esihlokweni esithi "Ukuthi ama-daffodils avikelekile kangakanani kumasiko" (2020) aphenya ukuthi izici zomuntu zizimele ne-narcissism kanye nokungavikeleki kwengqondo okuthola ukusetshenziswa kwamasiko. Ngokwesimo sesifundo esedlule esifunda lokho abakuchaza njengokuthi "amasiko ama-omnivores", bagxile ekutheni izindlela zomphakathi nezomnotho zithinta kanjani okuthandwa ngabantu abathuthukiswa kakhulu uma kuqhathaniswa nama-diposses aphansi.
UShin noYun baphenya izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokutholwa kwamasiko, kubandakanya nezibonelo ezinjalo zemfashini njenge- "inhlanganisela yemikhiqizo yokunethezeka nemikhiqizo yansuku zonke yasemgwaqweni." Baphawula ukuthi ukuqiniswa kwe-narcissism kuthinta ukuziphatha kwabathengi, ngoba i-narcissus ivame ukuthenga imikhiqizo ukukhuthaza ukwahluka komuntu. Ngokuvumelana nalokhu, kuphawula ukuxhumana okususelwa ocwaningweni phakathi kwe-narcissism nokungavikeleki, babeka ukuthi ukungavikeleki kwe-narcissistic kungahlotshaniswa nemizamo yokuziphatha ngokuziphatha kwabathengi.
Isitayela sobuciko: Isifiso sokubonisa isimo noma ukwethembeka
Uma kucatshangelwa izifundo ezedlule, ukubopha i-narcissism kanye nesifiso sokunakwa, bafunda ukuthi amasiko ama-omnivorous aqhakaza kanjani ukuba abonakalise ama-lites anamuhla abonakale. Baphinde babukeza nezinto ezithinta imicimbi yezamasiko leli qembu eliya kulo ukuba livelele futhi liqinise ubunikazi babo. ITire ne-UNNs chaza ukuthi ukuvakashela amasiko "ahlakaniphile" okuvimbela umuzwa wokungavikeleki, nokwanelisa isidingo sesimo, futhi amasiko athe xaxa anelisa isidingo sokwethembeka kwaso.
Bheka ukuziphatha komuntu
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Qaphela izimpisi ezikhunjeni zezimvu: isilinganiso sisho okungaphezu kokugqoka
Ngokusobala, ubuntu be-narcissistic bungaba yinoma yimuphi: kusuka kuma-fashion amafayiya amnandi kubantu abanobungane obunesizotha. Izinhlobo ezibanzi ezikhethiwe zezingubo ezikhethiwe zingaholela ekuhlonzeni okungalungile. UNarcissus, egqoke ukugqokwa okujwayelekile, angabonakala egqoke, ethula ababukeli abadukisayo, ethatha isu labo elicabangayo lokuthobeka. Kepha bhekani ngokujulile: ama-daffodils ahlukaniswa kakhulu ngokuziphatha kunezingubo. Akunandaba ukuthi bagqoka ngamabomu okukhohlisa, noma bafisa ukuthuthukisa umbono wobuqotho, lapho begqoke uhlobo, sizibeka engcupheni yokugqoka ngephutha ngokuthobeka.
I-Narcissos inganqunywa maqondana nezingubo.
UPaul K. Piff ocwaningweni lwe-narcissism kanye ne-high social class (2014), amanothi ukuthi i-narcissism iboniswa ekuziphatheni okuthe xaxa, "ukuveza okuvelele kanye nokubonisana maqondana nolunye" kanye nomuzwa obaluleke kakhulu , kuthathwe njengokucabanga kanye nobuntu. Uphawula ukuthi esinye sezici eziyinhloko ze-narcissism ngumthetho wengqondo - ukholo eqinisweni lokuthi kufanelekile futhi ubaluleke kakhulu kunabanye abantu. Lezi zici zomuntu siqu zinembe kakhudlwana kunokukhethwa kwekhabethe, ikakhulukazi ngokubheka izinhloso ezixubile ze-narcissa lapho zikhetha imfashini. Ngakho-ke, esikhundleni sokwahlulela ngencwadi ekhangayo esembozweni, chitha isikhathi ukuze ufunde, okufihliwe ngemuva kwemfashini ekhanyayo noma umfanekiso wokufakelwa kwesizotha. Umbono oqondile wamamodeli we-narcissistic wokuziphatha uzokuvumela ukuthi ungabophisi kulokhu ubuntu obungathandeki kanye nesikhathi esithe xaxa sokugcina ubudlelwano obunempilo.