Kubukeka sengathi akunakwenzeka ngokuphelele ukugcina lezi zinhlaka ezimbili ezingeni elifanayo lapho kunengane futhi kukhona umsebenzi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, manje udinga ukwenza okuthile. Ukukhathazeka kuqala futhi kuthola ibhalansi engenamkhawulo. Ungahlakuleli Kanjani?
Ngasikhathi sinye, akunakwenzeka ukukhohlwa lokho, okokuqala, abesifazane kufanele banciphise isisindo kuze kube phakade, babuyisele amandla abo, bazinakekele, baye emsebenzini, phakathi kwecala, phakathi kwecala, phakathi kwecala, eliphakathi kwecala, okungenani Kwesinye isikhathi sinesikhathi sokuhlangana nezintombi, ezivele zinzima kakhulu ukuzigcina eduzane, ngoba iningi lazo lingaba ukushada noma azinazo izingane.
Kubukeka sengathi ngenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo, futhi kusasele ukujabula, kepha ngaso sonke isikhathi kukhona imibuzo yangaphakathi nokungabaza, uqala ukufuna zonke izinsuku ngokwengeziwe.
Namuhla ngagcina ngithole indlela yokuphuma kulesi simo, ngenza iphrojekthi yami "impelasonto ephelele." Ngiyekile ukuncika ohlelweni oluyisicefe, isimo esingaguquki, ngokuya kubasebenzi befilimu, okudingeka ukuzivumelanisa nezikhathi ezithile.
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Indodakazi yami uNina ineminyaka engu-2,5 ubudala, futhi lokhu kungenxa yalokho lapho kungenzeki ukumuka naye, ngokushesha uqala ukubiza umama. Kepha angikwazanga ukungivumele ukuthi ngihlale ekhaya ngiphonse iphrojekthi ayithandayo. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele ushiye nge-nanny. Ngo-opharetha wakho, sikhetha usuku olulodwa ngesonto bese sizama ukuba nesikhathi sokuthola izindawo ezi-3-4 ngosuku.
Ngokwehlangothi kubonakala sengathi kulula kakhulu, kepha ngikholwe, ngokuvakashela indawo ngayinye yamabutho kungaphansi. Kulokhu, wonke umuntu uyi-BIG PLUS kusuka eqinisweni lokuthi ngiyicibishela futhi ngiphuthuma lapho uNina eqa enduna ngemuva kokuthola i-find, futhi ukukhathala kuyanyamalala.
Futhi namanje amashubhu alukhuni, njengoba siphila ngaphandle kwedolobha, ngifika enkabeni engu-1.5, futhi kwesinye isikhathi amahora ama-2 - nalo lona emuva. Ngakho-ke, ngizama ukwaba izinsuku ezimbalwa ngesonto ohambweni olunjalo futhi ngimboze inani eliphezulu lamahora okusebenza ukuze ngibe sonke isikhathi. Lokhu, kunjalo, kuncelisa amandla. Ngibuyisela uhamba ngezinyawo emvelweni nokuthula.
Ngifuna ukunikeza iresiphi noma uhlobo oluthile lobuciko bangaphambili mayelana nokulinganisela. Lokhu kungumsebenzi onzima, futhi ngamunye uyimuntu ngamunye. Ngisizwe "isondo lempilo". Umnyombo yile: Ubhala yonke imikhakha embuthanweni, njengezinaliti - lo ngumndeni, umsebenzi, impilo, impilo, ukugqama kwempilo, impilo, ezemidlalo, ezezimali, ukuzithuthukisa kanye nalezo zindawo kubalulekile kuwe. Manje udinga ukuhlala ngokuzolile futhi ucabange ukuthi malini - ukusuka ku-1 kuye ku-10 - kuyakwenelisa okwamanje kulezi zifunda? Faka ukuthinta ngophawu oluthile. Ibhalansi yile engenhla ye-Plus e-minus ezingeni elifanayo, khona-ke isondo liya. Uma kunama-skews athile, futhi sivame ukuba nokuthile esingasindisa, sihambisane nento yokuqala le ndawo. Ukuntuleka kwezemidlalo - uqala ukwenza ukushaja noma ukugijima ekuseni. Ukukhanya kwempilo kuhlushwa - utadisha okukodwa kokugcina kwami kokugcina bese uqhubeka nale ndlela! Ngiyaqinisekisa: Kusihlwa kuzoba nomuzwa wokuphelela.