Lapho ingane iya esikoleni, umsebenzi oyinhloko walowo mzali ukuhlinzeka indawo enhle lapho ingane izokwazi ukuyifinyelela khona. Kodwa-ke, akekho oqinisekisa ukuthi izimo ezinjalo zizonikeza uthisha wesikole. Kwenzeka ukuthi ukuxhumana phakathi komfundi nothisha akukhuli futhi kubhekene nomsebenzi wokuthola ukuthi yini imbangela. Ungasikhipha kanjani isimo futhi unganikezi ukungqubuzana kokugoqa? Sizamile ukuthola.
Zama ukuzwa ingane
Abazali abaningi banamuhla baphikelela ukuthi imbangela yanoma yikuphi ukungavumelani kuhlale kunguthisha, kepha ungagijimeli ukugijimisa ukuqonda noma okubi kakhulu ukubhala isikhalazo kuMqondisi. Inhloso yakho yokuqala ukuhlala phansi bese uxoxa ngesimo samanje nengane, kepha kuyadingeka ukukwenza njengokungathathi hlangothi, ukuze ingane yakho ingazami ukubekezelela ohlangothini lwakho (futhi izingane zenza kahle ngayo). Ikakhulu efanele lesi seluleko esizoba salabo bazali abantwana abanezingane zabo ezihlala zingena ezimweni ezingqubuzanayo. Futhi, ungazikhohlisi wena nesimo esicebile, imizwa yakho engemihle izokwandisa isimo futhi ngeke ikuvumele ukuba wenze isinqumo esifanele.
Zama ukuzwa ingane yakho
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Ungenzi indlovu indiza
Futhi, sibhekene nenkinga ethandwayo phakathi kwabazali besimanje: Uma kuvela ukuthi uthisha akazange abukeke noma, uNkulunkulu akazange abundisele "umzali" owamukele ngentukuthelo yokulunga, uya esikoleni ukuze amukele ngentukuthelo elungile, aya esikoleni ayemukele ngokulunga. hlela ukuhlaziywa kwendiza. Calt phansi bese ucabanga kanjalo ngesigameko, uzama kanjani ukucabanga noma ingane yakho izama ukukunika? Ngenxa yokuthi ingane yenza amazwi engxabano esifundweni, ukuklebhula nokulahla ngokuqinisekile ayikufanele, phela isikole sinemithetho yaso. Chaza lo mzuzu esikoleni sakho sesikole. Kepha nisaqaphele - kwesinye isikhathi othisha basuse.
Musa ukuhlehlisa ingxoxo nothisha
Uma uqonda ukuthi uthisha "ushayela induku", aqale ngeqiniso lokuthi uhlela ukuvakashela isikole. Awudingi ukujika wonke ikomidi labazali noma ngokushesha gijimisa umqondisi - le yinkinga yakho yomuntu ngamunye kuphela wena nothisha abangaya kuyo. Awukwazi ukuhlola isilinganiso senkinga kuphela ngokuya ngengane, ngenkathi ngokwakho ungakhulumi nothisha. Njengomthetho, inkinga yokuxhumana ivela ngemuva komhlangano wokuqala uma uthisha enza izimpendulo ngempela ngesizathu esihle.
Umqondisi - Okokugcina okusheshayo
Akufanele uphelelwe yithemba, ukube konke ingane yakho itshelwa ngothisha akukona iqiniso nje, kodwa nangendlela elula: Kuyenzeka ukuthi ingxoxo ithi "ayifunwe", uthisha angahle abe yimfuzwa eqinile noma eyisisekelo kakhulu uthisha ongazithandi izingane ngempela. Kulokhu, ungesabi ukuya kuMqondisi. Cela ukuthinta uthisha noma acabange ndawonye ngokudluliswa kwengane esigabeni esifanayo.