Ukutholakala koxhumana nabo abajwayelekile abaqeqeshiwe kungakusiza ukukhulisa ibhizinisi lakho kanye neminyango evulekile yezici ezintsha. Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuhlangana nabantu abanjalo ukuvakashela izehlakalo ezi-thematic. Akunandaba ukuthi ubamba iqhaza engqungqutheleni yezinhlangano noma uxhumane nozakwabo, nakanjani uzohlangana nabantu abangakusiza ukhule ohlelweni lobuchwepheshe. Sifunda ukuziveza kahle ukuze ujabulele wonke amathuba okungenzi lutho.
Amalungu oMkhandlu Wezokuxhumana WeForbes athuthukise uhlu lwezincomo ukusiza ukuthola ulimi olujwayelekile nanoma ngubani:
Intshiseko eyengeziwe kwabanye
Akunandaba ukuthi upholile kangakanani, futhi sonke ngokwemvelo i-egoista yakho. Abantu bathanda ukukhuluma ngabo ngaphezu kokulalela abanye. Ezokuxhumana nempumelelo kakhulu kunawe, abantu bazama ukubabuza imibuzo. Buza ngalokho abakwenzayo, ukuthi ungasisebenzisa kanjani isikhathi sakho samahhala nokuthi yini abacabanga ngesimo samanje semboni yabo. Imihlangano enjalo ngandlela thile iyafana nezinsuku zokuqala - umuntu akajwayele kuwe, kepha kufanele wenze umbono omuhle kuye uma ufuna ukuqhubeka nokuxhumana. Akukho lutho olungcono kunokuhamba ngokuqondile kusuka ezindabeni ezijwayelekile ziye ngasese, zibonane.
Ungabi yi-loneway, abanye abathandanayo
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Ukumamatheka
Ukumamatheka akulethi nje ukusungulwa okungeyona okungamazwi okuthintana nomuntu ongakwazi ukubheka ubuhlakani bakho futhi afise ukuqala inkhulumomphendvulwano, kodwa futhi kukusiza ekukhumbuleni wena nenkampani yakho. Ukumamatheka kwakho nokubonakaliswa kweqiniso "Mina" kuzoba okubaluleke kakhulu ngombono omuhle wokuqala. Ngikholwe, bambalwa abantu abasebenzisa le ndlela, futhi ngeze. Bheka abafokazi: ekuxhumaneni kwebhizinisi, bahlala bemukela i-interlocutor, ebavumela ukuba benze abangane abamaziyo abasha.
Ukungena engxoxweni, lalela okokuqala
Chitha imizuzu embalwa ukulalela ingxoxo lapho ujoyina iqembu labantu. Indlela ephumelelayo yokukhiqiza umbono omuhle wokuqala - Joyina ingxoxo namazwana akhombisa ukuthi wezwa imiphindisi yangaphambilini. Akukho lutho olubi ukwedlula ukugcwalisa yonke indawo futhi uhumushe ingxoxo ukuze uxoxe wena kuphela. I-Comfine nabantu futhi ungabi yi-egoist - Ukuziphatha okunjalo kuzokwaziswa.
Yiba ngokwakho futhi ungazami ukuthengisa
Engxoxweni evuselelekile, akufanele uqale inkhulumomphendvulwano ngezinombolo. Gcwalisa impumelelo nozakwethu emhlanganweni osebenzayo, kepha ungadidani lokuxhumana nomuntu nomhlangano. Umzamo wokuzibona njengosomabhizinisi ophumelelayo ngokwawo wehlulekile - ungcono ubheke uBarstan futhi uyisicefe. Indoda ekhaliphile ifunda isimo se-interlocutor ngezimo, hhayi izindaba zakhe ngaye. Khuluma nezindikimba ezisebenzayo ngaphandle kokuzama ukuphakamisa ukubambisana noma ukuthengisa izinsizakalo zethu. Shiya i-interlocutor yenkululeko yokuzikhethela: Uzobhekisa kuwe uma efuna.
Ngisho nasemihlanganweni yebhizinisi, ungafuni "ukuzithengisa" ngokwakho
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Hlola ababambiqhaza bese ulungiselela ngemibuzo
Ingxoxo enhle kakhulu iyingxoxo ekhululekile. Kodwa-ke, akekho umuntu okuvimbela ukuthi uzokwazi ukuya kwicebo elincane: ukwazi kusengaphambili ukuthi ngubani ozoba khona emhlanganweni webhizinisi futhi alungiselele, afunde i-mine biography kwi-Intanethi. Ungahlola futhi amanethiwekhi alo wokuxhumana nomphakathi ukuze ufunde ngokuzilibazisa komuntu nangesikhundla sakhe sezinto ezibonakalayo.