Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingxenye yesibili yowesifazane iphendukela enkabeni yendawo yonke. Futhi ukuze ungabonwa kuphela ngentengo yobudlelwano, kuyadingeka ukuhlala ubuntu ozimele.
Nguwe amthandayo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, othandekayo wakho ugcwalisa yonke imicabango yakho, futhi unikela ngokuzijabulisa ngokuphelele. Kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukukhohlwa ngempilo yakho futhi ulahlekelwe. Udinga isikhala sokwakheka kwakho. Hlala njengoba bekuthanda - ngokuthanda kwami nokuthandwayo.
Shiya isikhathi semihlangano nezintombi
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Abangani bakho baseyingxenye yempilo yakho. Ngokuphikisana nesizinda sathandekayo, umhlaba wonke uba isizinda. Akukho okumangazayo ngoba imihlangano nabangane yayincane kakhulu. Kepha kumele babe. I-pastime nabanye abantu izoqinisa ubudlelwano nothandekayo wakhe futhi ngeke ibavumele ukuba badonswe yindlela yabo empunga. Yebo, futhi ubani, njengezintombi zakho ozithandayo, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi zizophakamisa imizwa futhi zikusize ukhethe ingubo entsha.
Ngamunye kini unendima yawo. Musa ukuyiphilela ngamaphupho nezinhloso, bese wakhe eyakho. Ungenqabe amacebo akho avumela ukwaneliseka kwawo - lokhu kungaba yisiqalo sobudlelwano bakho. Abesilisa bakhetha abesifazane abaqinile nabazimele abazethemba futhi bathola lokho abakufunayo. Ungayeki ukwehla kokugcina, noma ngabe nguwe kuphela.