NgoDisemba, leli akulona iphupho lokuqala labafundi mayelana nobudlelwano nomyeni wakhe. Isihloko esijwayelekile ukuntuleka kokusondelana, ubudlelwano bokubambisana. Kubukeka sengathi lokhu kuyinkambiso edabukisayo. Ngeshwa, asifundiswanga ukudala ubudlelwano bothando. Izikole zifundisa izinto ezahlukahlukene, kepha akusebenzi empilweni yomndeni. Futhi iningi labazali aliboni ukuthi yiziphi izifundo zokuphila komndeni ezivezwa ezinganeni zazo. Isibonelo, uphilela izingane, ubhubhise izibopho zozakwethu. Ingane emndenini onjalo, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ayibongi ubudlelwano bobambiswano, ngoba bashabalala ngamehlo akhe, ngakolunye uhlangothi, bazizwa benecala elijulile ngempilo yabazali. Vele leli cala, abantu bayaqhubeka nokufa abazali babo futhi basahlala ezikweletini ezingezona ezifunwayo.
Mayelana nale ndodana ye-heroine yethu: "Ngiphupha indlu yethu lapho thina nomyeni wami nengane yethu esihlalweni sabakhubazekile, omama bethu, izivakashi, abangane. Wonke umuntu udinga okuthile: ingane - ukuhamba, mama - ukuxhumana, abangane bami babizwa ngasikhathi sinye, endlini okudingeka uphume, balungiselele ukudla. Futhi mina nomyeni wami sidabula phakathi kwalezi zindaba nabantu. Ngasikhathi sinye, ngephupho, thina nomyeni wami sifuna ukuzikhulula kuzo zonke izinkathazo futhi ulale, uhlale ndawonye futhi ungaphazanyiswa kunoma ngubani. Futhi nginemizwa ngaye ngephupho elithuthumela, limnene, liqinile, njengasezinsukwini zezinsuku zethu zokuqala. Ngifafaza umcabango wokuthi empilweni yami imizwa yethu inamathele ngokuqinile, kunezindaba eziningi phakathi kwethu nabanye abantu. Futhi mina ngisondelana naye nothando lomzwelo. "
Ukulala kubonisa ukuthi zingaki izinhlamvu ezingenasidingo yena nomyeni wakhe ezabekwa phakathi kwabo: abazali, izingane, abangane, osebenza nabo, ukukhathalela okwenziwe ekhaya. Abazange bashiye izindawo. Leli phupho libonisa ukulangazelela nokudabuka komunye wabalingani ngeqiniso lokuthi bayatholakala komunye nomunye.
Yize bebethi banxusa umeluleki womndeni, lapho, kungenzeka, indlela yokusebenza kungaba ukubuyisela ubudlelwano obungenakuphikwa. Ukwelashwa komndeni kuveza ukuthi ukuxhumana kwethu nomlingani kuyinto eyiyo futhi kuya kuqala, bese kuba nezingane nabazali. Lokhu kuxhumana, uma kuhlala isikhathi eside futhi kuvinjelwe, kwenza kube khona ukuthanda amanye amalungu omndeni futhi ubanakekele. Kumasiko ethu, leli yi-axiom ephikisanayo, ngoba izingane zazihlala zisendaweni yokuqala yemindeni eminingi. Futhi i-heroine yethu kuzofanela iphinde ihlole ukubambisana nomyeni wakhe. Ngenkathi ebeyakhe emgomweni wesabelo, ngokungafanele ngokumnaka. Hhayi nje kuphela ohlushwa yilokhu, kodwa yena, nokuxhumana kwabo nomunye.
Ngakho-ke, ubudlelwano abusiyo njalo, bayohlala befakwa futhi baqaphele umlingani. Impilo iyashintsha, umndeni uyakhula, ubudlelwano buzoshintsha futhi nothando lwangaphambili, luzodlula isisa, isisa nezothando. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuyenzela ngonembeza nansuku zonke. Futhi lokhu kuwufanele umsebenzi.
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UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin