Ukwakha ubudlelwano obuvumelanayo ngaphakathi komndeni - into enzima edinga ukubandakanyeka kwabo bobabili abalingani. Eminyakeni eyi-10 eyedlule, kube nokwanda okungathi sína kwenani lesehlukaniso, izizathu zingaba kakhulu futhi wonke umuntu zingumuntu ngamunye, kodwa ngokoqobo emhlabeni wonke, isehlukaniso singenxa yokulahleka kobudlelwano obungokomzwelo phakathi kwe abantu abasondelene kakhulu emhlabeni emhlabeni.
Ngokwemiphumela yocwaningo kanye nocwaningo lwezenhlalo, lapho kuvela izinkinga nge-pair, yi-10% kuphela abaphendulayo ebhekele ukusungula inkhulumomphendvulwano, kwezinye izimo abalingani bafudumeza isimo esibi kuphela. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi singavimba kanjani ukuthuthukiswa kwengxabano futhi sizame ukugcina umndeni.
Zibheke wena
Ngesikhathi sokuxabana noma ezinye izinkathazo zomndeni, angifuni ukuvuma leyo ngxenye yecala ngokwenzekile nakulo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi umlingani wakho ungumuntu omdala, ushintsho lwawo umane nje lungasizi ngalutho, uzokuvuselela okulungile. Khombisa ukumaka ezimweni lapho ubona ikhambi lenkinga enokuthula. Njengomthetho, isigamu sesibili sizwela imizwa nendawo yomlingani wabo, ngakho-ke, ngokunokwenzeka, oshade naye uzovumelana nawe futhi wenqaba ukudideka okufana nengxabano enjengesehlukaniso. Khombisa isibonelo.
Chitha isikhathi esengeziwe sodwa
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Khombisa Izimfanelo Zabesifazane
Sholi nje izimfanelo zabesifazane ngempela zazihlala zibhekwa njengezinkomba, ukuguquguquka kanye nengqondo ephilayo. Vele, asikhulumi ngamacala lapho uhlala emkhathini wengcindezi yaphakade - ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo - kulokhu, akunangqondo kulokhu, kepha uma ungakwazi ukwamukela umbono womunye umuntu ulalele Ngokombono ovela engxenyeni, zisebenzele - umshado oqinile udinga bobabili abalingani, kepha ikakhulukazi kowesifazane, ukubonakaliswa kokuguquguquka nokukwazi ukuguqula kanye nekhono lokwabelana ngemibono yomlingani wabo ngokuya ngesimo.
Khuluma, khuluma futhi futhi - Khuluma
Asikafundi ukufunda imicabango ekhanda lomunye umuntu, ngakho-ke ukuphela kwendlela yokucacisa isimo esingaqondakali nesinamandla, ukunqwabelana kwaso okuholela kwisehlukaniso, kubalulekile ukukhuluma nomlingani ngesikhathi futhi uthole isizathu ngokunganeliseki kwakhe. Khumbula, cishe wazibuza esimweni esingaqondakali - kungani angakhulumi nami? Kungani aziphatha kuyinqaba? Futhi kwaqhamuka masinyane nesizathu sokuthi kungani kwakungekho ngokoqobo. Ngenxa yalokhu, uzihlakulela futhi usuvele uthele okulungile kuwe futhi ucasukile umlingani wakho, uzenze enhlakeni. Njalo xoxa ubuhlobo bakho.
Zama ukuhlala wedwa kaningi
Namuhla, ukuntuleka kwesikhathi kungenye yezizathu eziphambili zokungaqondi phakathi kwabashadikazi: wena nomlingani wakho nisebenzisa iningi losuku emsebenzini, ngakho-ke umsebenzi ohlanganyelwe wezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene ubaluleke kakhulu kulo mbhangqwana. Noma ngabe unezingane futhi ngasikhathi sinye ungakwazi ukuthinta uhlelo lwakho lomsebenzi, ngaso sonke isikhathi thola amahora ambalwa ngesonto ukuze uwasebenzise ndawonye, akekho umuntu okufanele akuphazamise. Umusi, oxhumene nesibopho esiqinile ngokomzwelo, kulula kakhulu ukubhekana nezinkinga ebudlelwaneni futhi uthola ulimi olujwayelekile.