Sijwayele ukuthi sizungezwe kakhulu yizintombi amantombazane amancane. Ngamadoda analesi sici, umphakathi uphendula, imvamisa, ngokumangala, ikakhulukazi lapho umuntu esephumile isikhathi eside ebusheni. Yize kungekho lutho olumangazayo kulokhu - owesilisa, njengowesifazane, akazalwa enolwazi lwezocansi, futhi alutholile ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe. Kuthiwani uma okhethiweyo yakho "esesindisile" ngokwakho ngesikhathi sokuthandana kwakho? Ngabe ubudlelwane obunjalo buvumelana ngobuhlobo obunjalo nokuthi ungaziphatha kanjani kule nqubo? Sizozama ukuthola.
Uma ukholelwa ukuthi izibalo, abantu abasha bahlukana nobuntombi thile thile ngaphansi kweminyaka eyi-18, ngaphambili kwamantombazane. Kodwa-ke, kukhona nalabo ngasizathu simbe abakwenzanga esikoleni sekwephuzile naseminyakeni yesikhungo. Uma uqala ubudlelwane nendoda enjalo, qina kakhulu futhi uthambile.
Dala isimo esivamile
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Ungaphinde umkhumbuze ngakho
Okomuntu, ukuba khona kobuntombi kungaba iqiniso elinamahloni. Uma yena uqobo wakuvuma ukuthi wayengenazo isipiliyoni sobulili, asikho isidingo sokumthululela imibuzo esigabeni esithi "Kungani? Usabela kanjani abangane bakho?" Nakho konke okusemoyeni onjalo. Kufanele unikeze ukuqonda ukuthi awuboni lutho ongaphezu kwemvelo kulesi simo, ngaleyo ndlela kuqinise umuntu.
Vumela ukuthi kuboniswe isinyathelo
Akunandaba ukuthi ubufuna kanjani ukufunda ngokufunda ngokushesha, ubeke ukubekezela futhi unikeze owesilisa ozokwenza wedwa, eqondisa kancane. Myeke azizwe njengophiko oluvelele embhedeni. Uma uhlala uthatha indima enkulu, indoda ngeke ifunde ukuhola. "
Yiba ngeqhingi
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Nethezeka
Qonda ukuthi "inkambo yakho yokuqeqesha" ayiqediwe ukuhlolwa. Akudingekile indlela ebaluleke kakhulu futhi ehlonishwayo yokuxazulula le nkinga, yize kunzima ukuthi kubizwa inkinga. Uma ushubile ngokweqile, lo Mbuso uzothunyelwa kumlingani wakho, ngakho-ke zama ukwengeza kalula futhi uhlale wemvelo.
Ukuvuselela okwengeziwe
Ososayensi babheka omunye wabameli abahamba phambili bemvelo - iwayini elibomvu. Futhi empeleni womile. Vele ungakhenzi isimo lapho nobabili nizoba khona esimweni esingabekezeleki. Lapho-ke akufanele ukubalwa ngocansi osezingeni eliphakeme. Bheka isilinganiso.
Ungayiqhathanise namanye amadoda
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Akukho ukugxekwa!
Noma ngabe emahlombe akho iminyaka eminingi yokuhlangenwe nakho kwabamele abahle kakhulu bengxenye eqinile yobuntu, akukho ukuqhathanisa okufanele kunikezwe. Kuqala umlingani wakho omusha akakufaki isicelo sokumangalisa. Khumbula ukuthi ngisho nehlaya engenabungozi kunazo zonke ekhelini lakhe noma ukuqhathanisa namanye amadoda akho ngeke akwazi ukushaya kanjalo nokuzithemba okuphansi komuntu.