Lapho sizwa ngeFranzew, ngokuhlangene khumbula abantu abasha abasezingeni elithi kusuka kumahlaya wentsha, lapho umfana engaphumelelanga ethandweni nentombazane emcabangela nje umngane. Kodwa-ke, empilweni yangempela kunezimo ezimbalwa ezimbalwa ezihlukene lapho intombazane isivele ikhona ku- "Reserve Bench".
Kunzima impela ukudlulela ezingeni elisha lobuhlobo nomuntu ongakhombisi intshisekelo kuwe njengowesifazane, kepha akukho okukuvimbela ekuzameni ukuguqula isimo. Sizokutshela izindlela ezinhlanu eziphumelela kakhulu zokuphoqa umngane wakho, osondelanga ngokungakhathali, akubheke ngawolunye amehlo.
Awuyi "vest"
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Akufanele akubheke njengomngane
Ngeshwa, ubudlelwane obunobungane basendleleni eya ebudlelwaneni bomlingiswa osondelene. Ekuqaleni, iFrendzon ayisho ukuthi ubungani ekuqondeni okujwayelekile, ngoba umehluko phakathi kwakho mkhulu kakhulu, uqala ngobulili nokuphela ngendlela yokuphila. Bambalwa kuphela ababonisa ubungani phakathi kocansi kuyo yonke iminyaka, ezimweni eziningi, awunalutho olungalahlekelwa yikhefu olunjalo. Kepha kunethuba lokuba semngane wakudala okuthile okukhulu.
Yiyeke
Emehlweni owesilisa, ukuzithoba kowesifazane kungenzeka futhi kubhekwe njengokujwayelekile kuphela uma sikhuluma ngonina, kuzo zonke ezinye izimo, ukugada ngokweqile kuzoba yisithiyo esikhulu ukubona lo wesifazane akuwe, afuna ukukufeza.
Awuyi "vest"
Uzwela lubalulekile ngokuqinisekile kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo, kepha uma uqala ukusebenzisa kuphela njengesihloko senduduzo, kuyindlela yokungabikho. Ukutshela ngezinkinga zakhe zobuchwepheshe, izingxabano namantombazane, futhi kufanele ulalele konke lokhu futhi ududuze cishe njalo. Ngasikhathi sinye, indoda kuleli cala akuphuthumi ukulalela izikhalazo zakho - emva kwakho konke, weza ezokhuluma futhi ahambe.
Lapho nje uqonda ukuthi umuntu usebenzisa wena, yeka ukwamukela i- "Posterker" ngokushesha.
Musa ukujaha ucingo lokuqala
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Akufanele uhlale uthintana njalo
Ukuzama ukudala ukuncoma umlingani ongaba khona, sivame ukudela isikhathi sethu nezintshisekelo zethu, kepha ukuthobela okunjalo cishe akukaze kuhlolwe. Akunasidingo sokuphonsa zonke izindaba zakho futhi ugijime ukuxazulula izinkinga zakhe: makaqonde ukuthi ungumuntu onempilo yami, okulungele ukusiza, kepha yilabo kuphela abangahlali entanyeni. Indoda izoqala ukukuhlonipha kuqala, bese iyoba nentshisekelo, engabaluleke kakhulu kunaye empilweni yakho.
Ungavumeli amathiphu "abesifazane"
Ake sithi ucela ukusiza ngesipho esivela kozakwethu ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe. Awudingi ukuhlala naye ngokushesha etafuleni bese nixoxa, futhi ngingamthanda ini lo wesifazane. Ngosizo lwakho, uzonikela kuphela ekudlwengulweni kwaso nomunye umuntu wesifazane. Ngabe uyalwela lokhu? Ngokuqinisekile uyoba no-para-kathathu wozakwabo besilisa abangakuxazulula nabo lolu daba futhi ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza kwakho.
Misa ukuba nguye omunye
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