Wake walinda unyaka omusha ukuze "strip emhlophe" aqale empilweni? Noma okungenani umucu wombala ngaphandle kokumnyama? Ingabe wena ukuthi wena onobuntu obuqotho wenza isifiso phakathi nempi yamaKurats?
Ngabe ufunda izinkanyezi zonyaka omusha futhi wazi kuzo ukuthi unyaka olandelayo uthembisa isibonakaliso sakho se-zodiac?
Ngamunye wethu ungomunye wethu ngandlela thile ukucabanga ukuthi ngokuqala konyaka omusha, into entsha empilweni yethu izoqala. Kuzokwenzeka ezinye izindlela zoshintsho olufanele noma isigaba esinzima sizophela empilweni. Ngesizathu esithile, senza lokhu konyaka omusha, yize kungahle kube nengqondo ukukwenza ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa. Kepha phakathi kwawo wonke umuntu ozungeze ukufisa ukuthi konke kuzoshintsha ngokwakho kwaba ngcono ngandlela thile, hhayi amahloni. Konke ngokwenza into efanayo nxazonke.
Ngakho-ke ngokwesiko lezimpande, sikhetha inkampani, ukuphatha, izipho ezizungezile, abesifazane bagqoka phansi (ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuze bahlangane kanjani). Futhi balindele umlingo okhethekile, 'ozosebenza' ngo-Eva kaNyaka Omusha.
Manje ake sithole ukuthi kungani ama-pragmatic, asebekhulile, anengqondo, anolwazi futhi ngisho nabantu abasezingeni eliphakeme balungiselelwe unyaka omusha ngendlela yemilingo neyesiko?
Okokuqala, ngamunye wethu Ukuthuthuka kuyadingeka . Amangqamuzana omzimba wethu avuselelwa ngokugcwele iminyaka engu-7, kepha isibuyekezo somphefumlo kungenzeka kakhulu. Sidinga ukufingqa imiphumela yesiteji sokuphila, sinyakazise ingcindezi eqoqiwe, ukukhathala bese siqala ngeshidi elisha. UNyaka Omusha walesi simo esifanele. Njengoba kungekho owaziyo ukuthi ulindelwe yini ngokuzayo, uNyaka oMusha utholakala ngamasiko ahlukahlukene, "okumema" okusha ezimpilweni zethu. Lawa masiko afaka nje izimfumbe ezaziwayo zezifiso zempi yempi, ukugcinwa kwendlu, njengesingathekiso sokusungula indawo kuyo yonke indawo esinakho esithukuthezi futhi esingadingekile. Ngaphandle kwengozi, sizama, uma kungenzeka, buyisela izikweletu, uqedele icala, elihlehlisele unyaka wonke. Kithina, lokhu kunguphawu lwenkululeko lokuthola okusha.
Okwesibili, kusebenza okubizwa ngokuthi "Ukucabanga komlingo" - Enye yezindlela zokuvikelwa kwengqondo nokusindiswa ezimweni ezicindezelayo. Le yindlela elula yezingane: Inganekwane ukuthi konke kuzolungiswa ngokwayo ukuthi othile uzovikela noma azasize. Ukucabanga komlingo kusatshalaliswa futhi kufunwa kabanzi. Nazi izibonelo zakhe zakudala: "Lapho ngizohlangana nengxenye yami yesibili bese ngikhohlwa ukwehluleka kothando okwedlule," "Ngolunye usuku ngiyaceba ...", "kusukela ekuqaleni kukaJanuwari ngizophonsa ukuphuza / ukubhema, vele nginciphise isisindo." Lapho ungena kuNyaka oMusha, siphendukela ekucabangeni kwemilingo, ngoba kuvame ukusetshenziswa ikakhulukazi ezindaweni nasemibuzo esingafuni ukunquma, noma izixazululo zangaphambilini ngathi.
Unyaka omusha uvame ukuba yiholide lomndeni kanye nombuthano wabangane. Lapho nje yonke inkampani ethembekile ihlala phansi etafuleni, izifiso ezingezinkomo, impumelelo nenjabulo kuzwakala. Njengasesimweni ngasinye, "injabulo" ibukeka, akekho oya ngemininingwane ezayo. Akekho ofuna noma labo abafuna. Kungani ungafisi okuthile okuqondile? Njengoba uMikhail Zadorrov ethi, "Uma isango liphukile endlini yangasese, kungani ungafisi ukukulungisa?" (Quote, kunjalo, hhayi ngokoqobo). Ezinganeni zesifiso, ngendlela, uSanta Claus uyasebenza. Kepha bayakwazi ukwakha. Ababuzi uhlobo oluthile lwethoyizi, kepha bacele okuthile. Ngakho-ke, abazali babo, ukuvumela kwamehlo, beze ngo-Eva Wezihlahla ZikaKhisimusi zifuna izipho azithandayo.
Abantu abadala, izingane eziningi kakhulu ezikholelwa esimangalisweni esinezithonjana, ezizogcwaliseka zodwa, kungenzeka kuphela ukufisa kahle.
Ngoba uma ngonyaka omusha wahlelela "ukuphupha amaphupho", ngeke ngikwazi ukumelana nakho izincomo eziningana.
1) Makube ukuthathwa futhi kusetshenziswe yizo zonke izindlela zokusebenza kwengqondo, kusasebenza. Iphupho ngokuqondile: Kwenzekani lapho. Esikhundleni sokuthi "Ngifuna umholo ngaphezulu", qiniseka ukuthi lokhu: "ngoMashi 2016, iholo lami liphindwe kabili." Akudingeki wazi ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani, kubalulekile ukuqondiswa.
2) Ngaphezu kohlelo oluhleliwe "oludingekayo" futhi "kumele", nquma ukuthi uzikhuthaza kanjani nokuthi uyaphi, kanjani uphumula. Lesi sincomo ngokuyinhloko singcono ukwenza i-avid Workaholics.
3) Beka isandla enhliziyweni, awukwazi ukufeza izifiso ongazikhalise. Isibonelo, noma ngabe usuvele ufikile ngazo zonke izindlela ezamukelekayo, ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka ukubhema, kepha wena uqobo awufuni ukuhamba, khona-ke uzoqhubeka nokubhema. Noma ngabe konke okuhle futhi "kwesokudla" kufisa.
4) Sicela uqaphele uma unyaka unyaka nonyaka izifiso ezifanayo ngaphandle kokubulawa, kusho ukuthi uchithe inkanuko yempilo yakho. Noma ekuseni kuze kube kusihlwa, funa i-satellite yempilo noma izindlela zokuthola, nokuthi ngubani futhi manje lapho, kusho ukuthi ukusetshenziselwa ukufana, unyawo lwakho lukubhuqekile. Mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukubuyisa isisusa noma izindlela zakho ozame ukubhekana nazo kuze kube manje.
5) Lokhu kuvela ku-repertoire ka "Captain acace". Yebo, uma ufisa, kuzofanele ukwenze. Ngakho-ke qhubeka nokwenza izifiso zakho. Kusukela ngoJanuwari 1, kunjalo.
Inhlanhla futhi ngokuza!
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin