Khumbula ifilimu "elimnandi kakhulu futhi elihehayo"? Akukude kakhulu neqiniso. I-heroine eyinhloko yefilimu yafuna ukuheha ngokwengeziwe, yize ezinye zezindlela zayo ziphelelwe yisikhathi - ngokwesibonelo, "ukuzulazula" kubhekwa. Umqondo oyinhloko wefilimu ukuthi ukuheha kulele esimindeni sethu, ngaphakathi kithi, hhayi ekubukekeni kwethu.
Isazi ekuguqulweni kobuntu bukaChristina Mänd-Lakyani
Izinsizakalo Zokushicilela Izinsiza
Ukuze uthandeke ngokwengeziwe, akudingekile ukuya ku-salon yobuhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izindlela ezinjalo zingathusa "ngaphesheya. Ukwembula ukuheha, udinga ukumba ngokujulile kunalokho okubonakalayo ebusweni. Vele, udinga ukuzinakekela futhi unakekele, kepha akufanele ulethe ekuthembekeni kokushisekela ubuhlakani bese uphenduka uhlobo oluthile lwenhloso. Ukubusa kwami kwalolu daba akuphelele, kepha kukodwa okuyenga.
Kungani abantu bebonakala bekhanga?
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi sithanda abantu akuzona izici ezifanele zobuso, kepha ukumamatheka, umuzwa wenjabulo nomuzwa wokuthi ngomuntu kulula. Siyayithanda indoda ukuthi sizizwa kanjani eduze kwakhe. Isibonelo, eyunivesithi, iSwansea yaqhuba isivivinyo: Ososayensi bakhombisa abahlanganyeli ezithombeni zabantu abanezinkulumo zobuso obuhlukile. Abantu ubuso babo obubonakala bumnandi, ezimweni eziningi bahlolwa nzima kunalabo ababebonakala bengajabule. Lesi simo sabona usosayensi wase-Italy uJacomo Rizolatyti, owavula izibuko ze-neurons eminyakeni engama-30 edlule. Lapho sibheka abantu esimweni esihle, sifunda imizwa yabo futhi siphinda - ukuze sibe eduze nomuntu osemuzzz omuhle kakhulu.
Lapho sibheka abantu esimweni esihle, sifunda imizwa yabo futhi siphindaphinde
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Umlobi nomcwaningi uBren Bron bezama ukuthola ukuthi kungani abanye abantu babexhumanise kakhulu empilweni kunabanye. Ubuye wabona ukuthi kunezakhi ezintathu lapha. Owokuqala - kubantu abanjalo, noma yini abayikho, baqiniseka ukuthi bayakufanelekela uthando. Okwesibili isibindi sokuzibonakalisa emhlabeni okhona. Okwesithathu isifiso sokuthi sithinte futhi sithathe isinyathelo sokuqala, noma ngabe asazi ukuthi singasabela kanjani kithi. Isiphetho esinjalo: Ukuze uthandeke ngokwengeziwe, akufanele wesabe ukuba nguwe. Kulokhu udinga ukuthembeka kuwe, futhi ngesibindi.
Abantu bazizwa bamanga, ngasikhathi sinye bakhangwa ngobuqotho. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi sesaba, sifuna ukwazi iqiniso - ngokwabo nangabanye abantu. Siphila emhlabeni wama-facade, amanga ne-Photoshop, sinokushoda kwemvelo, ngakho-ke angemukeli kahle.
Ukuzithatha, uzofinyelela okuningi
I-British Hypnotherapist Marisa Farist ihlala ikhuluma ngomqondo wokuthi ulungile njengoba unjalo. Bakholelwa ukuthi zonke izinkinga zethu ziqhubeka ngokungazithandi zona, ngokudilizwa kwabo. Futhi uma uzikholisa ukuthi muhle ngokwanele, lokho oyikho, khona-ke izinguquko empilweni zizoqala.
Lapho uMarisa eyenziwa emkhosini omkhulu, elinye lamaphephadonga limbuza: "Yebo, uma ngizithatha njengoba ngikhona, angizukulala kusofa, ngiziphindaphinda ukuthi sengivele ngilungile ngokwanele? Ngeke ngizifeze umatilasi ovilaphayo, ongelutho? ". UMarisa waphendula wathi, ngokungafani ngokwanele, imvamisa silele kusofa futhi asenzele lutho ngokunembile ngoba asikholelwa kithi, kodwa hhayi okuphambene. Lapho sizithatha njengoba sinjalo, sinesibindi sokwenza okuthile.