Ake siqale ngeqiniso lokuthi amadoda anesimo sengqondo esihlukile ngemali: Ayizimpawu ezincane zokuchitheka, zilungele impikiswano yokusebenzisa imali nge-racity. Azichithwe nje, zitshala imali. Futhi imvamisa owesifazane owuthandayo ukutshalwa kwemali kwemali. Akunandaba ukuthi indoda inemali eningi kangakanani, izohlala izama ukwenza okuthile kowesifazane wayo.
Isikhathi sodokotela wezengqondo
Udinga ukunquma ukuthi uluhlobo luni lwesithwathwa onalo ibhizinisi. Mhlawumbe "unenhlanhla": Kuzo zonke izinhlobonhlobo uzikhethele i-zada ye-pathological. Akumnandi kakhulu ukuxhumana nokuhaha kukho konke. Indoda enjalo ayisoze yamema indawo yokudlela, futhi uma imenyiwe, khona-ke izikhalazo ngezindleko eziphakeme uzolalela esidlweni sakusihlwa. Futhi i-akhawunti uzohlukanisa ngesigamu. Mhlawumbe uzonikela nhlobo - emva kwakho konke, kuyabiza kakhulu. Ngokomhlaba ohahayo uZaiden akagcini ngemali kuphela, kodwa futhi nasekubonisweni kwemizwa nemizwa. Lapha ukuhaha - inkinga yinto engenangqondo, futhi akukho lutho lokubamba owesifazane ebudlelwaneni nomuntu onjalo. I-Psychotherapist kuphela engasiza lokho.
Nge-National Connerance kungavunyelwana
Kunesinye isigaba samadoda - okholwayo. Zinomnotho futhi ngezinga elithile elinamathiselwe. Futhi umnotho nokunamathelisa empilweni yansuku zonke akuhlali kubi ngaso sonke isikhathi: kusho ukuthi indoda icabanga ngekusasa, ibeka imigomo ethile. Ngendoda enjalo ungathola ulimi olujwayelekile. Udinga nje ukukunikeza ukuqonda ukuthi awuyithandi. Ukuthenga izicathulo ezithengiswayo, thatha isembatho sasekhaya ukuze usebenze ukuze ungayi kwi-cafe. Ngomuntu ozomnotho, izindaba ezinjenge-balm emphefumulweni: Ukulalele, uyakuqonda ukuthi umfazi onjalo angaphathiswa isabelomali, ngoba usesikhathini esifanayo. Kuyiqiniso, uzokhumbula izindleko zezipho futhi, cishe, uzozama ukonga okuthile, kodwa ahlala elungele ukujabulisa izinqumo zakhe. Mhlawumbe ngeke ngithenge utshani, futhi futhi ngeke ngishayele indawo yokudlela, kepha khona-ke kuzonikeza okuthile okufanele.
Gijimani kusuka ekunganaki
Kunohlobo lwesithathu labantu abahahayo. Kungabanjwa yilabo okunzima ukubiza ama-bumps, ngoba ukuhaha bakhombisa kuphela maqondana nowesifazane ongenandaba kakhulu. Amadoda anjalo ajabule ukuchitha ngenxa yawo, abathandekayo babo, ngohlobo oluthile lobuze, kepha abacabangi ngowesifazane. Abamthandi, abafuni ukujabulisa. Imvamisa ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, lo wesifazane uqobo wabonisa lesi sinyathelo: uthenga izipho, esetshenziswa njalo. Futhi indoda iyazivumela ukuba zithande. Futhi akuyona i-alfons, nje engenandaba nalona wesifazane, ayiboni okushiwo kuyo ukutshala imali. Kulesi simo, munye kuphela indlela yokuphuma ukuze afune umuntu ozoziphatha ngendlela ehlukile. Ngalezo zinhlonipho, owesifazane akasebenzisi imali kuphela nangesikhathi, kodwa namandla ayo. Ukuzethemba kuncishisiwe, kuqala ukubonakala sengathi akufanelekile uthando, ukunakekelwa, izipho zeBhanali. Uzwa engajabule, futhi ubudlelwane buba ubuthi. Kuyadingeka ukuqonda into esemqoka: Indoda itshaliwe kulowona wesifazane afuna ukuba yiyo. Uma umuntu ekusindisa - ngeke ahlale nawe.