Abesifazane ngokwabo bazinyathelo bona, okokuqala bajwayelane noma bazibheke endodeni, basungula amacebo ayinkimbinkimbi, lapho eseqedile ukuthi le ndoda yenza umbono, okusolwa ukuthi yena ngokwakhe waba ngumsunguli wokuqomisana. Njengoba sebezama ukukhohlisa futhi balawule isimo 'sokuphela - icala lomqhele', okungukuthi, ukuze umshado uqinisekisiwe ukuthi wenzeka.
Sekuvele kube yinto evamile yokuthi ungahambi ngomkhumbi, linda, ngithemba futhi ukholelwe ukuthi kungekudala nje unquma okuthile, futhi kuthatha konke ukulawula ukuze ubudlelwane babuzwe ukuze ubudlelwane buye baqondiswe erejista. Ihhovisi. Ngemizamo yokusebenza kahle ngangokunokwenzeka, amantombazane afunda umdlalo, ahambela ukuqeqeshwa okuhlukahlukene, ama-analogues okuqeqeshwa kwe-pickup for "abafana". Abesifazane bafundiswa phezu kwabo kubuciko bokuyenga kanye nokuqubuka komkhwenyana. Futhi, isibalo esikhulu sezincwadi sivele emashalofini ezitokodo, lapho ulimi oluqondakalayo kwabesifazane luchazwa yithuluzi lokuqala lezidalwa zabantu nezindlela zokukhohlisa nokuzisebenzisa.
Izihloko ezifanayo zikhanyiswa ezincwadini zabesifazane ezicwebezelayo, nakubesilisa gloss man baxwayisa ngokuzingela okubavulele kubo futhi bachaze izimpawu zabazingeli abafisa ukushada naphakade, ngaphandle kwegama lakhe, kodwa futhi Ngemali yemali yakhe. Manje yini okufanele uyenze? Okunjalo kuyinto yesimanje.
Amadoda afundela ukwenza ngaphandle kwabesifazane, nabesifazane, empeleni. Lapha kuphela akunakwenzeka ukuqeda isidingo sothando, ukunakekelwa, uthando, ukuqina kanye nokuvezwa komama. Kuyiqiniso, kungenzeka ukuthi ukhulelwe kusuka kushubhu lokuhlola, kepha lolu hlobo oluthile lwesilinganiso esifanelekile sentokazi esencane efisa kakhulu, esezinkathini zangaphambi kokuxhaswa futhi uzizwe ukulinganiselwa kokuya esikhathini. Ngakho-ke, naphezu kwezindaba ezimbi ezinolwazi ngezinto ezesabekayo zokuhlala ndawonye kanye nesehlukaniso esiningi, abantu basaqhubeka nokwakha imibhangqwana, bashade, banethemba lokuhamba phambili noma ... esimangalisweni.
Futhi iqiniso lokuthi abesifazane sebakhuthele ngokwengeziwe futhi bakhethe umlingani ofanelekayo, othanda isithandwa, umyeni wakhe, ngakho-ke mhlawumbe akukubi kangako? Yonga isikhathi nawe, nabesilisa. Ngokushesha kuzothuthuka, kusakazeke ngokushesha, uma kwenzeka kunephutha, futhi esimweni sokushaya okunembile ", bayothola injabulo ngokushesha.