Ngabe ucabangani okungenani kanye, kuze kufike lapho uthonywa i-hynosis ye-Universary Vervintary ebizwa ngokuthi "amaholide oNyaka Omusha"? Namuhla kuzoba yinto ethokozisayo ebizwa ngokuthi "ukudla kokusinda" ngamaholide. Kungani silandela amasiko osuku loNyaka oMusha, umsuka wawo angazi ngempela? Yini efanekisela "u-Olivier", i-herring ngaphansi kwejazi loboya kanye ne-tangerise etafuleni loNyaka oMusha? Hhayi ukuthi bengizibuza le ndaba yokudalwa kwalezi zitsha. Kuyajabulisa kakhulu ukukhulisa umgubuzelo wabantu babo ngokwengqondo.
Sinda emkhosini endaweni yomndeni futhi ungafi "esiteji"
Amaholide oNyaka oMusha awuhlobo lwento yamasiko. Ngalesi sikhathi, kunzima ukuyeka futhi ubone ngokumelene nemvelaphi yalokho okwenzekayo ubuhlanya. Ngokumangazayo, njengabanye bethu, ngokusengozini nangokwabo baphatha ukudla kwansuku zonke, ngamaholide banamathela kulo lonke ithuna, okuhlanganisa nokudla "okungaphenduki". Ngani? Ngabe amabutho alahlekile? Hhayi. Akukona ngentando hhayi ngomqondo ofanayo. Iqiniso ngukuthi lezi zinto eziningi zidala kudala ziphenduka ukufana komhlatshelo e-altare. Idili lomndeni ngonyaka omusha yisakramente esemthethweni, engcwele, uphawu lwenhlangano yomndeni egameni lenhloso ethile.
Ukuqondiswa yindlela ehlelekile, ngizothi lapho amalungu omndeni ehlangana, insimu yezengqondo engabonakali yakhiwa kule "Cathedral". Igcwele umndeni ungazi, okuthinta ababuthayo abanamandla, ama-tunes amaningi, izimfihlo, izimfihlo nezingxabano nezingxabano. Umcimbi ukhanyiswa kabanzi ezincwadini eziqeqeshiwe. Kuhle futhi ukusho ukuthi, ngokubuthana ndawonye, abantu baqala ukuziphatha okuxakile kumuntu obhekele umuntu. Inkambu engazi lutho yomndeni ayinasikhathi sokukhawulelwa. Akunandaba ukuthi kudlule iminyaka emingaki, - ukusabela kuhlala okufanayo kuyafana nakwokuqala. Abantu abadala phambi kwabazali babo baphenduka izingane ezincane ezingenakubi, izihlobo zeMarasmatic zithola indawo elahlekile, kunesimo sokungezwani phakathi kwemibuzo engalungiswa eminyakeni engamashumi amabili edlule, izingane ezincane zizolile ngokungajwayelekile noma ziqala ukufutheka ...
I-Therapist edumile yomndeni uMurray Bowen, owazinikelayo ekufundweni komkhakha wakhe ongazi lutho emndenini, echaza encwadini yakhe, njengoba nje ethambekele endimeni, lapho izihlobo eza eholidini zivela kulo lonke elaseMelika. Uveze ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi ngaphambi kokufika kwakhe, waba nomuzwa wokuthi inkungu engabonakali izothuthukisa ukwazi kwakhe futhi ibuye ibuye ibe ngumfana omncane ongakanakwa futhi ongezinto ezingenakusizwayo, kanye ne-psychotherapist enesipiliyoni asikho umkhondo.
Ithebula njenge-Center Plot kanye ne-plug kusuka emahlathini angezinhle
Ngokuvamile, ukuze ugcine umndeni ngamandla aphelele ukuze umuntu anentshisekelo - i-adventure yangempela. Maphakathi nalesi senzo kukhona itafula nokudla. Ngokuzungeza ukwazi kwamalungu omndeni, umsebenzi wokulamula uphathisiwe. Ngesikhathi sobungcwele, idili likaNyaka oMusha, ngokwesibonelo, ukudla kuba yi-buffer, uthango oluvikelayo olukwazi ukuphazamisa okuhlangenwe nakho okungathandeki kanye nemikhawulo emibi. Imibukiso Yokuzilolonga: Ukwehluka okungaphezulu, okungcono kakhulu, isidlo esiqinile iqoqo lezitsha, bese lilandela imiyalelo yesiko elisunguliwe lidlula yonke logic. Kholwani iZwi, futhi kungcono ukubheka: Emindenini lapho amagama angabekwenga ngomunye nomunye akhulu, etafuleni inani lotshwala lilingana ngqo nalokhu. Uma kungenjalo utshwala, khona-ke kunenye enye i-silencer yokuxhumana - i-TV noma umsindo womculo wamandla angenampilo.
Ungakuchaza kanjani i-hypnosis yamaholide oNyaka oMusha nokushiswa okukhulu?
Ukudla okumnandi - ingosi yesikhathi esedlule. Vele, isaladi elinemibandela "nenkukhu" nenkukhu kuhhavini - lutho ngaphandle kwe-anchor ye-hypnotic: izinhlamvu zingena hhayi kuphela umyalezo womndeni, kodwa futhi nathi, ngesikhathi esisodwa sisithwala enhliziyweni enhle ye izinkumbulo.
Uma usuwanele, ukudla okunethezeka kakhulu empilweni yansuku zonke, embiwa kanzima ngobunzima futhi kusethe etafuleni loNyaka oMusha, kusanesisindo nezwi. Yena, njengoba kunjalo, ukhumbuza wonke umuntu esixukwini: "Sizwe ubunzima nenjabulo yalo nyaka. Sabhekana. Yonke into izolunga". Ikhekhe lenyangama likamama "uNapoleon", akhuphuka ngalo usuku lonke, futhi ahlebeza: "Zama i-dessert. Ngiwuphawu lothando lukamama futhi ngibuya. " I-ICRA kwi-sandwich ibukeka amahloni ekushoneni nasekulinganisweni kokucabanga. I-Champagne idubula ipulaki, ngokuphuma yonke imikhosi ye-splashes ekhona etafuleni, njengokungathi ifafaza ngamanzi angcwele. "U-Olivier" ukhumbuza ukuthi akunandaba ukuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu kithi, kuleli holide sonke siyalingana.
Futhi lapha sihlala etafuleni nalabo abasinda kulo nyaka. Akukhathalekile ukuthi yini phakathi kwethu. Kepha sindawonye. Sidla umndeni wokudla okungokomzimba, ngoba siyazi ukuthi njengamanje sisibambisane nathi futhi sinikeze umuzwa wenhlala-kahle, ingeyesikhathi yesikhashana. Ngoba impilo iyadlula, futhi imihlangano enjalo ingabalwa eminweni. Kepha ukudla nomqondo ojwayelekile kuzolinda ngasikhathi sinye lapho sihlala nawe yedwa.
U-EV Hazin ungudokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wezobuciko, onguchwepheshe e-psychology enempilo. Ukuhola Ukuqeqeshwa Kwamandla Kwamandla kuMary Hazin Training Center