Lapho senza isinqumo sokuhlobanisa impilo yakho nomunye umuntu, akunakwenzeka ukuqonda kuze kube sekupheleni, njengoba umlingani wakho ezoshintsha ngemuva kokushintsha isimo somndeni. Kuyiqiniso, kubalulekile ukukwazi ukuyekethisa, 'bushelelezi amakhona' bese uzama ukuqonda umlingani, ngoba injabulo yomndeni incike kukho. Kodwa-ke, kukhona "izingcingo" ezethusayo, okufanele zikutshele ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle futhi udinga ukucabanga kahle ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nokuphila okuhlanganyelwe.
Nina nobabili abalingani abagcwele
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Ukungahloniphi kukho konke
Umlingani wakho kufanele afezeke futhi alondoloze - lesi yisisekelo esidingekayo lapho umndeni wakho wakhelwa khona. Uma umyeni wakho ekuvumela ukuba ukhulume ngekheli lakho uCouustic kanye nezitatimende ezihlaselayo, ngisho nakubantu, udinga ingxoxo engathi sína. Tshela indoda yakho ukuthi ungathandeki kangakanani ukuzwa lelo kheli lakho, uma konke kuyize - cabanga uma udinga ubudlelwano obubhubhisayo obubhubhisayo.
Akakunaki
Yebo, sonke sinezinto - nani, nawe, kepha uma uthatha isinqumo sokuqasha impilo ehlanganayo, kuzofanela unikele okuthile ukuze unikele emahoreni ambalwa ngosuku. Kuyacasula ikakhulukazi uma umuntu wakho enesikhathi kubo bonke abangane bakhe, futhi wena ngezicelo zakho zokuhambisana ne-cinema ngoLwesihlanu noma ukuhlala e-cafe uhlale "ngaphezulu Futhi, ebudlelwaneni kubalulekile ukukhuluma, futhi kungathuli, akukho ukucasuka, mhlawumbe ingxoxo yedwa noma ehhovisi likachwepheshe izoxazulula ukungaqondani kwakho.
Ukuncika
Cha, asikhulumi ngemikhuba efana nokuvusa indlu yonke ngo-5 am noma cha ijikisa ishubhu lamazinyo. Uma ubuthakathaka bomngane wakho utshwala, izidakamizwa futhi bathambekele ekwephule umthetho, akunasidingo sokuzidela. Abesifazane abaningi ezivela ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane bayenzela iphutha elifanayo - bacabanga ukuthi ngokubonakala kwabo empilweni yalabo abampofu bayoshintsha empilweni yakhe. Akudingeki ukuthi ugcwalise indima yentanta, ezokwengeza umlingani wexhaphozi, into enzima kunazo zonke ukuyishintsha, uma umuntu ehola impilo enjalo isikhathi eside. Cabanga ngempilo yakho - ingabe uyakwazi ukudonsa umsebenzi onjalo?
Ungavumeli ukulawula okuphelele ekhelini lakho
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Amasondo
Umbuzo waphakade ukuthethelela ukuvukela umbuso noma cha. Vele, ubudlelwano buhlala bushintsha impilo yonke yonke, kodwa uma ungazizwa umzwa wangaphambilini, ukhetha umphakathi wabalingani abahle emsebenzini noma kubangane abajwayelekile, lapho kuvela khona ukuthi uzozama ukugcina umshado ? Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuvukela umbuso akukhona kuphela ocansini, ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, ukuthandana nokuxoxa kanye nokuxoxa ngezinkinga zomuntu siqu nabanye bobulili obuhlukile kungabikwa futhi ukuthi umlingani ophiko angabhalwa phansi.
Ukulawulwa Okuphelele
Ngokushada, abantu bahlela ubudlelwano ngokulingana: ngokushesha nje "ukudonsa izingubo" kuqala, kufanele kuqaphele. Umyeni wakho akayona umzali wakho, kodwa umlingani ongenalo ilungelo lokunithinzela izinqumo, ungaxoxa ngazo kuphela, kepha isinqumo sokugcina sihlala kuwe, futhi awulungile ukunquma umuntu wakho.
Uma unomuzwa wokuthi ifoni yakho iseqalwa ukubheka, kufanele uphinde ubike ukuthi ungobani nokuthi ukuphi, lokhu akuyona ukubonakaliswa kokunakekelwa nothando, kodwa kuphela indlela yokungaphansi kwentando yakho. Lokhu kuziphatha akwamukeleki kumdala.
Ngobudlelwano obudingayo ukuze ukhulume
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