Akusona njalo ekuphapheme kwethu kothando ukuze asole izimo noma abanye abantu - imvamisa thina uqobo ngeke sikwazi ukwakha impilo evumelanayo nomunye umuntu. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi izizathu zaba yisithiyo esendleleni eya enjabulweni yomuntu siqu.
Awukwazi ukuvumela ubudlelwane obudlule.
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Namanje "Hamba" Ubudlelwano Bedlule
Kaningi, ukuhlukaniswa kwenzeka isikhathi eside futhi kubuhlungu, kukudonsa kakhulu kangangokuba awukwazi ukululama isikhathi eside. Imizwa yokubambisana kwangaphambili ayikho masinyane. Ukwakha ubudlelwano obusha, kuyadingeka ukukhulula ngokuphelele okudala, ngakho-ke uma unomuzwa wokuthi angiqondanga ngokuphelele ngesedlule sakho, ungathathi isinyathelo ngokuzayo ngekusasa. Konke kunesikhathi sako.
Angenzi lutho
Kukangaki sizwa kubangane ukuthi konke kubi, abukho ubuhlobo hhayi ububona kusengaphambili, futhi abantu ngokwabo abazami ukuthola impilo yomuntu siqu. Uma uhlala ekhaya, umuntu wakho ophuphayo kufanele azi kanjani ngobukhona bakho?
Lapho umisa ngokuqinile impumelelo, ungakugwemi ukuqomisana, phendula amamaki ukunaka okuthakazelayo kuwe, ngolunye usuku icala lizosuka endaweni efile.
Awuqondi ukuthi ufunani
Imvamisa, okulindelwe kwethu ebudlelwaneni akuhambelani nokulindelwe komlingani. Mhlawumbe ufuna uthando lwempilo yakho yonke, futhi indoda yakho inikezela kangcono "ukuze yazi", yize uhlangana noma uhlala ndawonye isikhathi eside.
Musa ukuchitha isikhathi kubantu abangaziboni imizwa yakho ngokungathi sína futhi ungabi yi- "Spare Airfield."
Ungahlali ekhaya elinde inkosana
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Kubi ukujoyina ubudlelwano obusha.
Ake sithi uhlangane nomuntu omuhle: Uyakuthanda, nawe, nokho, awukwazi ukuphumula eBukhoneni baKhe. Ngikholwe, umlingani wakho uyazizwa futhi akaqondi ukuthi kungani ushubile. Ukusuka lapha, umcabango ungakhula ukuthi angakufaneli wena okuthile.
Zama wena noma ngosizo lochwepheshe ukuthola ukuthi yisiphi isizathu sokungathembeki kwakho kumuntu omusha kungenzeka ukuthi isizathu sikhona yini ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okungathandeki.
Ungesabi ukuvula
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Awudonseli labo abanentshisekelo kuwe
Lapho lokhu kwenzeka kanye, akukho lutho olubi kulokhu, kepha lapho isimo siphindwa ngezikhathi nezikhathi, kufanelekile ukucabanga okwenzayo lokho okwenzayo okungalungile. Kuyiqiniso, kunzima ukuguqula isimo lapho ungenandaba nomuntu ngezizathu ezithile, kepha akukho lutho olungenakwenzeka lapha, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanelekile ukuphonsa imizamo yokuheha umuntu okuthakazelisa wena. Ngamunye wethu unothando lwabo, akunakwenzeka ukuthanda wonke umuntu, vele ubheke futhi uzothola umuntu wakho ozoba yinjongo yokuphila.