Angikwazi ukumelana, yabelana ngokuboniswa ngesihloko. Kulimaza izikhathi eziningi zakamuva ngezicelo ezinjalo zabesifazane abasebasha abaye baba nguMama. Ngemuva kokuhalalisela okusheshayo ngokuba ngumama kanye 'nokuqala kwakho konke okuhle' okuvela kubathandekayo abaseduze nasezindaweni ezinama-theme ku-Intanethi, ngoba umama osemusha, konke okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu. Wake wakulungiselela lokho.
Esikhathini, ngenkathi ingane (noma izingane) incane, noma yiziphi izingodo zomoya ziyaqhekeka, ezazisemcabangweni wayo ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane.
Ngakho-ke, sizohlaziya ngoku-oda okungekho muntu okhulumayo ngomama wesikhathi esizayo. By the way, replicas ephuzwini ngalinye kuvezwa omama bangempela.
"Umyeni uzoba sezingalweni zakhe futhi ajabule kulokho engamnika kona. Manje uzongenzela konke " . Futhi yebo, umyeni ujabule ngempela. Kepha imizwa akuyona isenzo. Futhi akekho oqinisekisa ukuthi uzoqala ukufeza izifiso zakho ngomlingo, ngoba usukhuthazelele futhi wabeletha. Emehlweni akhe, wakwenza futhi kakhulu, ngoba ngenza umama. Futhi manje yimiphi imibuzo engaba - bukhoma, yebo, thokozani! Futhi lapho owesifazane eqala ukuba namanani okunamathisela lapho esuka eqinisweni lokuthi empilweni yakhe elahla imfucumfucu engapheli, eyondla, ehamba kunoma yisiphi isimo sezulu, akakwazi ukuqonda okufunayo kuye.
"Benze kuphi isikhathi sami?" Kubukeka sengathi ingane ayidingi okuningi: Okuphakelayo, ukugoqa, gcina uhlanzekile futhi ulale ngesikhathi. Yebo, futhi uhlele izinhlungu nokuphazamiseka! Futhi ukujabulisa! Futhi ompompi lapho elala kabi, bageze, futhi bagqoke ubusuku nemini ezibayeni. Akekho otshela umama osemusha ukuthi isikhala sakhe siso sinyamalale. Ukuthi ngeke abe nesikhathi sokuhlala nenkomishi yetiye manje ngisho nezinyanga eziningi ngisho neminyaka ngaphambi kwesheduli yakhe yakhiwa ibheka izidingo zendoda encane encane. Izidingo ezilula kakhulu zizoya ngemuva, futhi ngesinye isikhathi ukufutheka nokukhathala kuzothola iqiniso lokuthi umkhankaso oseshawa waba yiphupho elihle. Futhi bonke ngoba eminyakeni embalwa enokunciphisa edlule bekuyinto ejwayelekile. Omama bakhulisa izingane eziningana ngaphandle kosizo lwanoma ngubani. Lezi "zikhathi zokuphila" ezinhle kakhulu, zakhipha amadodakazi abo ngomlayezo onjalo: "Ngakwazi, futhi uyakwazi." Futhi manje njengoba umama osemncane ekhala ngokuthi akasenasikhathi sokuthi udiniwe kakhulu, imvelo iyaqonda ukuthi idinga lesi sigaba empilweni yakhe. Kepha isikhathi somuntu siqu nendawo yomuntu siqu okungenani lapho kubaluleke kangakanani ngosuku ngosuku. Lesi yisikhathi lapho owesifazane angabuyisela izinsiza ezisetshenziswayo enganeni nakuyena uqobo, ngoba akekho olikhanyise. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungcono uzinakekela, abakhathalela kangcono ingane yakhe. Kufana nemiyalo yezokuphepha endizeni: "Lapho ingaphakathi lishesha ukuwela imaski ngokwakho, bese emthanda."
"Phambilini, ukuntuleka kwami ukunakwa okuvela ohlangothini akuzange kukhathazeke nakancane" . Impela! Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngisho nokuba nokukhulelwa, ungahamba uye lapho udinga khona ukulala noma uhlangane nezintombi. Futhi ukuntuleka kwesikhashana okuvela kumyeni wakhe kutholakale kalula. Kepha esimemelweni, umyeni uba ukuphela komthombo wokunakwa, ukunakekelwa, ukuzijabulisa kanye nemibono emisha. Akubona bonke abakwazi ukubhekana nalokhu, ikakhulukazi ngoba abazi ukuthi baqala kangakanani ukuwufuna umlingani. Utholile ngaphandle kwakhe ngaphambili. Futhi manje kukhona izinyembezi, kuncike, agculisekile kuye, ubisi oludumele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, "amakona abukhali" owawuvame ukuya ukuxhumana omunye nomunye, ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane kungabekezeleleki! Uma uke wakubekezelela kunoma yimiphi imibuzo, manje uzofuna isisombululo, futhi ngokushesha! Isibonelo, uvame ukubona ukuthi owesifazana nendoda, ababeyivila ngokuphelele futhi abangazange baqale izingxoxo ezingadingekile, lapho kuqala ingane iqale ukulala nomunye ngezicelo ezithule.
"Kuphi ukubekezela nentukuthelo yakho kangaka! Yize kunjalo, ngiyamthanda! " Futhi lokhu kujwayelekile. Akuyona into evamile - akuzizwa kuthukuthele enganeni 'ekhethe "isikhathi somuntu siqu, izimfuno zokuzinikela kuye ngaphandle kokubuya, njll. Kahle ukungathukutheli Iphutha? Ngisho nothando olungenamkhawulo ngaye. Lokhu kuyinto ejwayelekile.
Okungathandeki kodwa iqiniso lokuthi "Abantu abaseduze bawumsebenzi" . Yebo Yebo. Abangani beza ukuvakasha futhi bahlale nengane ngenkathi ugeza eshawini. Noma cwilisa nge-cafe ngenkathi uthatha konke kusuka kumapuleti. UMama-Dad-umyeni uyahlanzwa endlini nemikhiqizo ethengiwe. Futhi bayakusebenzela, kube sengathi kuzalwa nje, hhayi ingane yakho. Futhi awukhuphukeli kubo nezidingo zabo, noma ngabe uzizwa unecala ngeqiniso lokuthi ziyakusiza, futhi awuboni kahle. Okwesikhashana kuzoba njalo. UMammy osemusha ngokwawo udinga ukusinda ukushaqeka ngokuzalwa kwengane futhi eqinisweni lokuthi ukunakwa kwakhe kuthembekile manje kubhekwe enganeni futhi kusheshe kubambe izidingo ezihluke kakhulu.
"Ubulili ... Kuyini? Isikhathi sokugcina sasingaphambi komkhuzi wengane . Ikakhulukazi uma uncelisa. Ukondla ama-hormone nama-hormone ocansi emzimbeni wethu enza ngendlela ekhethekile. Ngokwezibalo, amaphesenti angama-70 okuguqulwa kwabantu emshadweni kwenzeka ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane. Ukuntuleka kwezingxoxo eziqondile nezethembekile kusuka kubalingani ngalesi sihloko kushiya amadoda ngombono wokuthi umkakhe akanakuphikwa. Futhi kuzofanela wanelise izidingo zakhe. Futhi owesifazana, engakulungeli ngeqiniso lokuthi ukubizwa ngokocansi komzimba wakhe kulwelwa isikhathi eside, kuhlupheka umuzwa wecala namahloni.
Futhi akunandaba ukuthi waphoqa kanjani umzimba wakho kuze kube yilapho ugcwalisa umsebenzi wawo omkhulu kamama futhi angaphumuli, amandla ezondo ocansi ngeke abuyiselwe. Kubalulekile ukubheka wena nokwenu kanye nomlingani wakho.
"Ingane izokwakha kakhulu umndeni wethu" . Sithi abesifazane futhi babelethe izibulo, balinde ukuthi uluhlobo oluthile lwendlela yomlingo yokulungisa izimo zengqondo ezingavikeleki emndenini. O, yeka inganekwane ebhubhisayo! Mhlawumbe ukuzalwa kwengane kuzoletha izinguquko zesikhashana ekubambisaneni, kodwa, ngobukhulu, ingane isheshisa abazali bayo. Kepha ukubambisana, ubudlelwano bothando kanye nomphakathi wamanani ahlola ohlelweni oluphelele! Ngakho-ke yenza ingane yakho ikhululeke kulo msebenzi. Akuyona neze umgomo oyinhloko wempilo yakhe kumele kube ukuxhumana komndeni wakho. Kukhona isiphetho.
Vele, ungacabanga ukuthi uzoba nokuhlukile. Futhi okubonakalayo kwalesi sihloko ngeke kuthinteke. Ngiyazibuza!
Ngasikhathi sinye, mina ngesosayensi lendlela kukho konke, kufaka phakathi umama. Akunakwenzeka ukulungiselela konke, ungabheka kuphela imicabango yami ngawe endimeni kamama futhi uqaphele ukuthi akubona bonke abavusayo.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin