Kepha kwesinye isikhathi okwedlule noma okwedlule kwengxenye yesibili kuyingxenye ebalulekile yempilo, ekhona nekusasa - iqiniso lokuthi akunakwenzeka ukukhansela, awukwazi ukwenqaba.
Inkulumo ngezingane. Kuyiqiniso, izingane ziyinjabulo, izimbali zempilo, kodwa kuphela kubazali bazo, ogogo nomkhulu. Iphuzu. Uhlu aluqhubeki. Izingane zingukuqhubeka kohlobo kanye nengxenye ebalulekile yomndeni oqinile. Imindeni lapho umama nobaba abahlala khona futhi ngenenjabulo.
Nini, ebudlelwaneni babazali, kukhona ukuphazamiseka futhi bafuna ukuphila ngokwengeziwe, ukuthi kuhlangana kanjani, kodwa esimweni esinjalo, lapho umndeni uyeka ukuba ngumndeni, ngoba umuntu othile futhi efuna Ukuhlukanisa kanye nengxenye, izingane zishiswa. Ngoba inqubo yokuhlukanisa iyaphazamiseka - ngoba incane, ngoba izobangela usizi olubi ngokwengqondo, luzokhathazeka, ngoba ukuthandwa okujwayelekile kanye nenduduzo yezengqondo, bobabili bayadingeka emphefumulweni oseduze futhi evumelana. Yize kunjalo, ingane ngeke ikhohlise.
Inhlala-kahle yangaphandle ngeke ifihle imifantu kanye nomoya oncikayo. Ingane ngokuqinisekile izozizwa sengathi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Yebo, ngokuvamile, kungekudala, abazali bazohlukana. Kuzovuselelwa, kepha lokhu akwanele. Kwezinye izimo, abashadikazi baphupha amaphupho abubonane, kepha ingane noma izingane noma izingane zihlala zimbi kakhulu, ngakho-ke ngandlela thile, kuzoba nokuxhumana, futhi zizwa umthwalo we Amandla kagesi nokucasuka - umuntu omdala onqabile esimweni esifanayo, ikakhulukazi lapho (yena) ayengu () wayengumqalisi wesehlukaniso - uzoziphatha kumdala, ukuze azuze ingane yokungathathi hlangothi, ngaphandle kokubeka ingane ngokumelene nengane. omunye umzali. Imvamisa ethuka futhi onothando olungafanelekile, amathemba angenasisekelo aboniswa ngendlela ekhanyayo kakhulu, futhi ingane empeleni ilalela yonke impendulo engakhethi kakhulu ebayeni noma umama wabo.
Kuyiqiniso, izingane zinombono wazo, uthando noma ukungazithandi yize zitshelwa, kodwa, njengoba wonke umuntu azi, amanzi kanye namatshe alolayo. Ngakho-ke, ukuthukwa nokuchazwa okukhulu kwabazali abathile phambi kwengane, izinzwa zakhe zomiswa, zibukele ukuqina kwengqondo futhi kubangele ukulimala okukhulu kwengqondo, lapho nothando olukhulu kakhulu luqala ukuzwa. Futhi laba bobabili abaseduze kakhulu, ababiza kakhulu endodeni yengane baba yizitha zakhe. Eyokuqala - ngoba iyizinzwa zobugovu zengane ezijabulisayo, okwesibili, ngoba wayefuna ukujabula, eshiya noma kuphi, noma komunye umndeni.
Ngubani olungile, ngubani okufanele asolwe nokuthi akwenzeni? I-Neight nasesikhathini esizayo iyoba necala lengane leyo mzali izama ukumisa ingane kuyise noma unina. Abantu abadala kufanele bakuqonde lokho, ngeshwa, uthando kwesinye isikhathi luyadlula futhi uma ingxenye yesibili ifuna ukuhamba, inelungelo eligcwele. Kulesi simo, (wakhe) kudingeka akhishwe, athethelele futhi aqale impilo entsha, mhlawumbe azame ukuthandwa futhi. Izingane ezihlangene akufanele zisolwe. Banelungelo lokuxhumana nabo bobabili abazali futhi, uma umzali oshiye ngobuqotho ukuxhumana nezingane zakhe, azokwazi ukubamba iqhaza kwezemfundo, azosiza ngokwezezimali.
Okubi kakhulu uma umlingani noma umlingani, ephuma emndenini, ephonsa nezingane. Yebo, kwesinye isikhathi labo abaphonse kanzima ukubona futhi baxhumana no-ex-for chavotion noma imizwa engadlulanga. Manje? Ungabantu abadala - uzophatha. Futhi uma ngiyaxolisa futhi uzobona ukuthi kungani konke kwenzeka, khona-ke ikusasa lizokunika ithuba lokuphinda lithande futhi lithole injabulo.
Futhi kuwubuwula ukucabanga ukuthi awudingi muntu onezingane ezingalweni zakho. Yebo, noma wonke umuntu angakwazi ukuthatha umthwalo onjalo - umuntu oqinile futhi ohlonishwayo, kepha, vele, uyakudinga, ngoba okwengeziwe ukuze udabule ngaphambili (ngaphambili), Ake ngisize ezinganeni ezikhulisiwe futhi ngilungele umhlangano nomuntu ozokwakha ubuhlobo obusha futhi wakhe umndeni omusha.