Kubudlelwano obuseduze, kusekhona nohlaka: Odokotela bancoma ukulala nocansi njalo ezinsukwini ezingama-2-3, kungabikho kaningi. Kwabesifazane, imvamisa yokuya ocansini ayithinti uhlelo olungokomzwelo, kanti amadoda leli yicebo lezinhlelo zezempilo eziphansi. Kubanda kudala, kukhulu kakhulu futhi okuhlukahlukene kakhulu kufanele kube nocansi. Umzimba awusaqali ngesifungo, njengoba eminyakeni eyi-18-20 ... kwabesifazane asebekhulile, isifiso sokudla siyancishiswa, ngakho-ke yini okufanele uyenze? Kulesi salu sezinto esizonikeza izeluleko ezimbalwa ezisebenzayo zokugcina indawo yomndeni nentshisekelo ngombhangqwana.
Qala kusukela osukwini
Abantu abasebenzela amahora angu-10- 12 ngosuku, ukuthi izakhamuzi zivame kangaki, ziyamangala ukuthi kungani zingafuni ukuya ocansini noma zihlala imizuzu embalwa. Kepha imfihlo akuyona imfihlo! Umzimba wethu uhlakaniphile ngendlela emangalisayo, ngakho-ke wehlisa i-libido lapho kufanele alondoloze amabutho ngenxa yokulala, kungafakwanga imodi yokudla okunempilo, engajwayelekile nokuzivocavoca okuvamile. Vumelana nothandekayo wakho ukuthi ngeke ubheke ikhompyutha noma isiqalo somdlalo usaphuze, okusho ngezikhathi zomzimba ezizoxosha futhi zinikeze isibonakaliso ebuchosheni mayelana nesifiso sokudlala kumuntu omdala.
Shintsha i-pose ejwayelekile
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Shintsha Imikhuba
Khumbula ukuthi ulale kanjani ucansi. I-es ejwayelekile, ukunyakaza okuphindaphindayo nezenzo zenjongo yokuqalisa umlingani. Isidina? Yebo! Isithandwa sakho singafuna ubulili obuningi ngokunembe ngalesizathu - kusuka ekuntuleni kokuphuma ngokomzwelo. Zama ukuthenga amathoyizi abantu abadala, ukhilimu noma ukugcotshwa kocansi ngomlomo ngokunambitheka okusha, amakhondomu anemiphumela ngendlela yamabhola noma indawo evuthiwe. Futhi, abantu abaningi bayathanda lapho besendlebeni umlingani asho amagama amnandi futhi enza izincomo kumakhono abo embhedeni. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuvula umlomo wakho futhi usho okubonakala kusobala.
Nikeza imidlalo yedwa
Ubuwula lapho abesifazane bethukuthele ngeqiniso lokuthi indoda ibheka ngevidiyo ye-porn. Uma ungeyena esimweni sezocansi, kungani othandekayo okufanele futhi kufanele azikhawulele ngenjabulo? Ungabi yi-egoist, futhi umnikeze ithuba lokuphumula noma, okungcono, ukulekelele ngosizo lokuqabulana noma uthando ngomlomo. Ungase futhi unikeze ithoyizi elivuselela ukugeleza kwegazi kulilungu ngenxa yokucindezela noma ukucindezela isitho.
Zama amathoyizi ocansi
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Thatha imikhawulo
Ungalokothi ube nocansi ngobuhlungu, ngaphandle kwalokho kuzoba nokunyanyeka kwenqubo futhi kuzokubona njengomsebenzi, hhayi injabulo. Uma unenyanga munye ngaphambili futhi esiswini kubuhlungu, ngesikhathi sokungena uzizwa ushisa esithweni sangasese, noma ungafuni ucansi ngenxa yokukhathala, konke lokhu kufanele kushiwo kumlingani. Ukukuthanda umuntu uzoqonda kahle izifiso zakho futhi ngeke zihlambalaze, ngoba into ebaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni iyimpilo engokomzimba neyokuziphatha yazo zombili.