Uchithe isikhathi ngokuphelele ndawonye, kepha lapho okuthile kwashintsha? Noma indoda kusukela ekuqaleni iyahamba nohlangothi? Indoda ingaba nezizathu eziningi zokunganaki umfazi, futhi akusho njalo ukunganakwa. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi izimbangela eziphambili zokuziphatha komuntu okunjalo.
Abaningi badidekile ukuba nenhlonipho ngokuntuleka
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Imbangela # 1.
Awuyena umfazi wakhe
Njengamadoda, abesifazane bavame ukudida ngenhlonipho ngokudlala ngothando, zonke izinkinga ziqala ukusuka lapha, lapho indoda ingasakwazi ukuphuma engxenyeni yezemfundo. Umuntu kungaba nzima ukuvuma kuwe ngqo ukuthi awunandaba nakho, ngakho-ke ukhetha amaqhinga okubuyela emuva kancane.
Kulokhu, akukho okungenziwa, ngoba inhliziyo ayihleleki. Ikakhulukazi omunye umuntu.
Imbangela # 2.
Indoda ayifuni ubuhlobo obungathi sína
Icala lapho ekuqaleni kwenoveli yakho konke kwakuhamba kahle, kepha kungazelelwe washintsha kakhulu. Ngokunokwenzeka, wamnika ukuba aqonde ukuthi udinga okuthile okungaphezu nje kwemihlangano engavamile futhi uhambe kaningana ngesonto. Kwenzeka ukuthi owesilisa akakulungele ukwakha ubuhlobo obungathi sína, futhi isizathu kungenzeka singabi kini - kungaba lula ukusetha.
Kuyiqiniso, kunzima impela ukuthi umuntu ashintshe umbono nokukhethwa, kepha kunzima kakhulu ukuguqula okuthile futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ukuze aphoqelele umuntu ukuba athole izinyathelo ezinkulu. Ukunikezwa okumnyama akukaze kwaholela noma yini enhle.
Imbangela # 3.
Indoda ingazwa umuzwa wokungaqiniseki
Ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene, amanye amadoda ahamba kancane ngokuqashelwa kwemizwa yawo. Imvamisa kubangelwa ulwazi olungaphumeleli phambilini, lapho, mhlawumbe, owayethandwa owayekade ebenqaba noma ehlekisa ngokubonakaliswa kwakhe kwemizwa. Manje, lesi sipiliyoni adlulisa ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ungahle uqaphele ukuthi phambi kwakho kulahlekile kakhulu, azazi ukuthi ukubeka phansi kuphi, qaphela ukubukeka kwakhe okuhlakazekile.
Zama ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala ngokwakho, ungadli nje futhi ungaqapheli ukuthi wesabisa umuntu aqine kakhulu.
Uyasaba ukukuvuma ngemizwa
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Imbangela # 4.
Wenza iphutha
Ngeshwa, kaningi sinesifiso kumuntu, kodwa ngemuva kwesikhashana siqonda ukuthi ukwakha ikusasa kulo mlingani kuyindlela yokungabikhona. Futhi akuvumele ngokwangaphandle, kwakhiwa, nawe kunokuthile ongakhuluma ngakho, umuzwa wothando ukhona, noma akunjalo - akuxhomekile ezimfanelweni zakho.
Uma lokhu kuyindlela yakho inketho, khona-ke indoda umane nje ayiboni ubuhlobo obude nawe, kodwa futhi ukukutshela ngakho futhi akulula.
Indoda kungenzeka ingabe isilungele ubuhlobo obungathi sína
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Imbangela # 5.
Uqinisile kakhulu
Yebo, sesishilo ukuthi ungadinga futhi ukusungulwa ngowesifazane, noma kunjalo, abesifazane abanasici. Indoda Emvelweni ingumnqobi, ngeke abekezelele ebudlelwaneni ukuze abe omunye umholi - kuphela uma ungafuni kakhulu umuntu ophanayo - ngakho-ke isinyathelo sakho esiningi singakudicilela kakhulu "Into yokunqoba" iqala ukufela kuthululelwe ekunganaki okugcwele noma okuyingxenye.
Uma uqhubeka nomoya ofanayo, indoda ingashintshela kowesifazane ophelelwe uphethiloli, ngakho-ke cabanga ngokuthi isifiso sakho siholele kulo lonke ubuhlobo bakho nomuntu obizayo.