Kukangaki lapho sibhekene nokuphila ngokungaqondakali komkhwekazi kanye nesimo sengqondo esibuhlungu somyeni wakhe kunina. Kwesinye isikhathi asiqondi ukuthi senza kanjani nokuthi sizokwenzanjani. Umama uqala umhawu ngawe indodana yakhe, futhi impilo yomndeni wakho ayibekezelelwa. Ake sibone, abameleli bakwaZimpawu eziba ngumkhwenyana omubi.
isitho
Badinga ukwazi konke futhi babamba yonke indawo. Singasho ukuthi bathuthukisa ikhala labo ngokuphelele kukho konke. Noma ungahlali nomkhwekazi wami, lungiselelwe ukuvakashelwa ekhaya lakho - ngaphandle kocingo futhi ngesikhathi esifanele kakhulu. Zingathandeki kakhulu futhi azibekezeleli noma yiziphi izimpikiswano. Kubalulekile kubo ukuthi impilo yomndeni wakho yenzeka ngokwecebo labo kanye neskrippo yabo. Umyeni wakho uzohlala impilo yami yonke ngendodana yawo, nokuthi uyakwenza, indawo yakho izoba ngasohlangothini. Kuyadingeka ukuqonda iphuzu elilodwa elibalulekile ekuqaleni kobuhlobo bakho: Uma ufuna ukuxhumana noMama kaMyeni wami, bese uqala ngokushesha inkunzi yezimpondo. Shayela okokuqala, sikumema ukuba uvakashele. Thumela izipho - ngesimo samathikithi enkundleni yemidlalo yaseshashalazini noma unikele ngohambo oluthile. Zonke izindlela zilungile - kusuka epikinikini kuya kokudoba. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umamezala wakho uyakhathala, futhi uzoshintshela ekunakekelweni kwawo kwendlu noma ngokuxhumana nezintombi. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe akuyona ukuqeda umyeni wakho we-hysterical. Khumbula ukuthi angakhetha umama okonile, hhayi umfazi okonile. Indlela enhle kakhulu ingasebenzela ukuthukwa kwebhanali - kunjalo, ngaphandle kwesizathu - nesihlalo esithulayo egumbini. Umyeni wakho uzonaka ngokunembile isimo sakho somoya futhi uzozama ukuba nawe wedwa, futhi ungahambi ngempelasonto ukuvakashela abazali.
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Izimbotshana
Okokuqala, yonke into ibonakala ilungile. Umama omangalisayo nomyeni abathandayo. I-idyll nje. Kepha ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukutholwa kokuzalela kungashintsha ngokushesha isihe ngentukuthelo. Ngeke baphinde bathande umalokazana ukuba njengendodana. Kuyohlala kubonakala kubo ukuthi indodana ingalahlekelwa ngenxa yakho. Ngakuso, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukunikeza ukuqonda umamezala, ukuthi indodana imthanda kakhulu kunawe. Uma uhlala ndawonye, zama ukunikeza izipho zakhe ngesimo sezimbali namaswidi abavela kumyeni wakho kaningi kunawe. Uma umyeni engeke enze lokhu, zithengele futhi uvikele kube sengathi. Njalo uzungeze ukunakwa kwakhe nokunakekela, ukuze aqaphele ukuthi awuyilandeli ingane yakhe, futhi sebelungele ukuba khona eduze kwabo. Enye indlela, ukuphaphamela kwakhe kunamathele, futhi ungajabulela injabulo yakho yomndeni ngaphandle kokuxabana nezingxabano.
Raki.
Lapha singasho ukuthi unawo umama wesibili nogogo kumuntu oyedwa. Izingane zakho nazo. Ungazami ukuyishaya ngendlela yokuphathwa komnotho, izingqinamba zokupheka nokukhulisa izingane. Konke lokhu akwenza ngentshiseko ye-pristine, futhi awunakukwenza okungcono. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi imizamo yakho yokuthatha intende yomqhudelwano ingaqeda ukuqhekeka kobudlelwano nomyeni wakhe. Zama nje ukuba ube yindodakazi yakhe, futhi ndawonye, uhole zonke izindawo zomsebenzi, ezizofuna ukuhola umama womyeni wakhe. Lapho umkhwekazi kamama ezobe engekho, zama ukuthatha indawo ehlonishwayo endlini futhi uqhubeke nokugcina umnotho. Ungalokothi uyibeke ekuhlambalazeni umyeni wami noma umama wakhe. Bheka ukuthi uhlakaniphile, cabanga ngemibono yakhe, makabanikele bona. Into esemqoka ukwenza konke ngenhlonipho nokumamatheka.
Amabhubesi
Ungazami ngisho nokumthanda. Masinyane ushiye le micabango. Kumele nje uvumelane nezimo. Umkhwekazi kamamezala uzohlala emuhle futhi ube nobuchule. Uzohlala azi okuningi futhi akwazi. Ukuvuvukala okuphansi kuyazithanda futhi kuphela lapho abanye. Konke kufanele kuphose kuyo, futhi akukho ndawo yanoma ngubani omunye umuntu, konke wena. Uyisizinda sayo yonke into, futhi udinga ukuhambisa uzungeze. Ungazami ukugqoka ezidlweni zomndeni kangcono kunalokho azogqokwa noma indodana yakhe. Kufanele ube yigundane elimpunga ekuhlaleni kwakhe ekhaya lakho. Ngeshwa, cishe okokuqala kwakudingeka ukwazi uphawu lwe-zodiac kamama, bese luya ngaphansi komqhele. Kepha kwenzekani, kwenzekile. Thatha ukubekezela, konke kuzophuma, into esemqoka ukukholwa.